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PetetKsfo got a reaction from Whippoorwill in Providers who lurk here, what's your story on how you got into the biz
I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn.
Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could.
I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from Simon Suraci in If the bottom does not have an erection and does not ejaculate is he really enjoying it?
I completely agree that each person and even each situation is different. Sometimes if I am bottoming I may not stay hard but certainly enjoying it and putting all of my sexual energy into my butt. But sometimes I will stay rock hard, particularly if I know I am with a client who wants to flip back and forth from topping to bottoming. I love to go with whatever the situation presents.
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PetetKsfo reacted to JayinHKNYC in Provincetown recommendations
Self-promote? and your ad links don't work??
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Providers who lurk here, what's your story on how you got into the biz
I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn.
Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could.
I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + bashful in Providers who lurk here, what's your story on how you got into the biz
I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn.
Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could.
I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from nate_sf in Providers who lurk here, what's your story on how you got into the biz
I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn.
Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could.
I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + keroscenefire in Providers who lurk here, what's your story on how you got into the biz
I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn.
Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could.
I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from thomas in Providers who lurk here, what's your story on how you got into the biz
I was in in a contest to be a model on a non-profit/HIV fundraising calendar some 20 years ago. I didn't get on the calendar that year, (I was first runner up) but after the contest, a guy came over to me and gave me his business card, saying that he liked my look and appearance onstage, and asked me if I might be interested in filming gay porn.
Around the same time, I also attended a weekend workshop with BodyElectric and loved learning about giving men a sacred erotic experience. While filming porn is a good entry into escorting, I liked the idea of offering a combined therapeutic massage and sensual/erotic experience. I enrolled in a full-time massage school program to learn the technical skills of massage, and continued to take other male erotic workshops and training wherever I could.
I love what I do and the connection that I make with my clients. Interestingly, I competed again, and got a spot on this year's calendar, coming back full circle.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + robear in Offensive Comments
I have had clients bring up topics (particularly political) with a different perspective than mine. They even assumed (correctly) that I would have an oppositing position. I tried to find some common ground and assured them that I respected their opinions, then quickly moving the conversation to something else.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + Lucky in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from bichiguy in Providers asking for client's pic
I never would ask a client for a picture
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from thomas in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + Pensant in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from nate_sf in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + robear in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from Luv2play in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from TorontoDrew in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + bashful in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + Charlie in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + keroscenefire in going to bed alone
I usually go to bed with nothing on and wake up with a hard on
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + Pensant in Anxious Client
My job for the time that we are together is to simply focus all of my attention and energy on my client, and to do my best to be in tune with him. When I see that a client is timid or shy or uncertain, I reassure him that I won't do anything that he doesn't want, and ask him to let me know what works and what does not. Communication and consent are key. I neither want to do soemthing that makes a client uncomfortable, nor do I want a client to leave wishing that I had done more.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + bashful in Anxious Client
My job for the time that we are together is to simply focus all of my attention and energy on my client, and to do my best to be in tune with him. When I see that a client is timid or shy or uncertain, I reassure him that I won't do anything that he doesn't want, and ask him to let me know what works and what does not. Communication and consent are key. I neither want to do soemthing that makes a client uncomfortable, nor do I want a client to leave wishing that I had done more.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Anxious Client
My job for the time that we are together is to simply focus all of my attention and energy on my client, and to do my best to be in tune with him. When I see that a client is timid or shy or uncertain, I reassure him that I won't do anything that he doesn't want, and ask him to let me know what works and what does not. Communication and consent are key. I neither want to do soemthing that makes a client uncomfortable, nor do I want a client to leave wishing that I had done more.
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in NYC cost range for extras
Greetings guys - I am a masseur on RentMasseur, mostly in the Northeast, though generally not in NYC. I ask a very reasonable rate, and would never increase my price in the middle of a session nor ask for a gratuity, but hope that clients will take their enjoyment of our time together into consideration at the end if they wish.
My experience is that a very small number of clients tip to the level that Frank suggests. (Frank, I would be delighted to have you as a client.) Most offer 20 - 40 above rate, though some don't offer any gratuity. I am fine with that and don't begrudge.
One of my instructors in massage school used a really nice tag line: "Gratuity is never expected but always greatly appreciated."
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PetetKsfo got a reaction from jtwalker in Anxious Client
My job for the time that we are together is to simply focus all of my attention and energy on my client, and to do my best to be in tune with him. When I see that a client is timid or shy or uncertain, I reassure him that I won't do anything that he doesn't want, and ask him to let me know what works and what does not. Communication and consent are key. I neither want to do soemthing that makes a client uncomfortable, nor do I want a client to leave wishing that I had done more.