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When I remodeled the main bathroom at my house on Cape Cod,  I put in a 4'x6' shower with two shower heads,  specifically to be able to share it with clients.    Many enjoy that part of our time together.
I always offer a shower to guys at the end of our sessions.    If they wish to have one, I then ask if they would like me to join them "to help" or if they want the time to themself.   Sometimes guys will wish to start the session in the shower and then move to either the massage table or bed.
 
 

When I remodeled the main bathroom at my house on Cape Cod,  I put in a 4'x6' shower with two shower heads,  specifically to be able to share it with clients.    Many enjoy that part of our time together.
I always offer a shower to guys at the end of our sessions.    If they wish to have one, I then ask if they would like me to join them "to help" or if they want the time to themself.   Sometimes guys will wish to start the session in the shower and then move to either the massage table or bed.
 
 

Once I log into my RentMasseur profile (after having previously logged out) it will show the green light as "now" indicating I am online now, even without setting the "available now" indicator, and it will set the last log in time as the current moment when I log in.
If I close the browser without logging off, it will change my green light to grey, and will show the last time online as the time I closed my browser, and will retain the date/time when I logged in earlier.
If I come back later and reopen the site in my browser after having not logged out the previously time, I get back into my account without having to log in, and the green light will reignite showing my new time online, but it will not reset the last log in time, as I didn't log out the last time.     As JamesB pointed out, that makes the last log in time not very useful.
If I log in and set the "available now" indicator for 6 hours,  it will retain my green light and my "available now" status for the 6-hour duration, even if I log out and/or close the browser.
If someone sends me a message through the app, even if I have logged out and/or closed the browser, I will get a notification to my phone and I can reopen the browser to respond to the client message.    I had to be a "real" message typed by a client  though for the notification to come through.   If someone merely  checked out my profile and the system sent me an automated notification of the profile view, it will not ping me, but I will see that notification when I open the app again and check out my profile.
At the end of the six hour duration, or whatever amount of time I set for the "available now" - the green light will go back to grey and will again pick up my new last online time.
 
 

Once I log into my RentMasseur profile (after having previously logged out) it will show the green light as "now" indicating I am online now, even without setting the "available now" indicator, and it will set the last log in time as the current moment when I log in.
If I close the browser without logging off, it will change my green light to grey, and will show the last time online as the time I closed my browser, and will retain the date/time when I logged in earlier.
If I come back later and reopen the site in my browser after having not logged out the previously time, I get back into my account without having to log in, and the green light will reignite showing my new time online, but it will not reset the last log in time, as I didn't log out the last time.     As JamesB pointed out, that makes the last log in time not very useful.
If I log in and set the "available now" indicator for 6 hours,  it will retain my green light and my "available now" status for the 6-hour duration, even if I log out and/or close the browser.
If someone sends me a message through the app, even if I have logged out and/or closed the browser, I will get a notification to my phone and I can reopen the browser to respond to the client message.    I had to be a "real" message typed by a client  though for the notification to come through.   If someone merely  checked out my profile and the system sent me an automated notification of the profile view, it will not ping me, but I will see that notification when I open the app again and check out my profile.
At the end of the six hour duration, or whatever amount of time I set for the "available now" - the green light will go back to grey and will again pick up my new last online time.
 
 

Once I log into my RentMasseur profile (after having previously logged out) it will show the green light as "now" indicating I am online now, even without setting the "available now" indicator, and it will set the last log in time as the current moment when I log in.
If I close the browser without logging off, it will change my green light to grey, and will show the last time online as the time I closed my browser, and will retain the date/time when I logged in earlier.
If I come back later and reopen the site in my browser after having not logged out the previously time, I get back into my account without having to log in, and the green light will reignite showing my new time online, but it will not reset the last log in time, as I didn't log out the last time.     As JamesB pointed out, that makes the last log in time not very useful.
If I log in and set the "available now" indicator for 6 hours,  it will retain my green light and my "available now" status for the 6-hour duration, even if I log out and/or close the browser.
If someone sends me a message through the app, even if I have logged out and/or closed the browser, I will get a notification to my phone and I can reopen the browser to respond to the client message.    I had to be a "real" message typed by a client  though for the notification to come through.   If someone merely  checked out my profile and the system sent me an automated notification of the profile view, it will not ping me, but I will see that notification when I open the app again and check out my profile.
At the end of the six hour duration, or whatever amount of time I set for the "available now" - the green light will go back to grey and will again pick up my new last online time.
 
 

Thanks PK - I would be delighted to attend
Peter
 
 

When I remodeled the main bathroom at my house on Cape Cod,  I put in a 4'x6' shower with two shower heads,  specifically to be able to share it with clients.    Many enjoy that part of our time together.
I always offer a shower to guys at the end of our sessions.    If they wish to have one, I then ask if they would like me to join them "to help" or if they want the time to themself.   Sometimes guys will wish to start the session in the shower and then move to either the massage table or bed.
 
 

When I remodeled my master bedroom and bath, I increased the shower to a steam shower, 5 x 6 feet with a built in bench and wall and overhead sprays and a hand held spray.  That shower is one of the few things I miss since my move to Palm Springs.  Sometimes we would start in the shower, sometimes we would head to the shower afterwards.  The multiple shower heads frequently led to multiple episodes of head in the shower.  The steam also was a great feature.  Some escorts would ask if I minded them taking a steam and I always obliged. We would sit on the bench and talk or fondle or kiss.  Whatever the moment brought was an additional bit of fun.  I have dozens of photos of escorts such as Tristan Baldwin and Vin Marco and Apollo Phoenix and Bobby Biceps taken from outside the steam filled shower. or just with them showering.  Always taken with permission and kept private and on my phone for an occasional pick me up.     

This is what I (and I think most clients) would anticipate based on the following Rentmasseur levels of massage:
Therapeutic: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles probably with a clothed masseur, maybe in his underwear. If I got a hand job, great but I would not expect it.
Sensual: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles done likely nude or in skimpy underwear. Almost for sure a hand job to climax, perhaps some mutual touching (his body and probably his dick), oral unlikely but possible.
Erotic: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles almost for sure done nude. Definitely a hand job to climax, almost for sure some mutual touching (his dick/body) , probably including oral (maybe receptive and giving), probably not fucking or anything else, but possible, more likely for an "upcharge" to escort services.

Happy ending is the client reaches climax. Most clients have that minimum expectation of a sensual massage. A small number of my clients don’t expect that but 99% want it. But they also want a great massage. You have to provide both. It’s no good doing a poor massage and then a hand job, nor is it good doing a great massage but not touching his cock! I’m fine to provide the happy ending in any way they like whether that’s hand job or bj or body contact etc. 
Most clients want to interact with me. I usually say they’re welcome to interact with me as much or as little as they like and see what their expectations are. Usually that has been agreed at the booking stage anyway. Then it’s up to them. Some will suck me, some want to do more. I think it’s important to be clear about what’s ok and what isn’t included and let them do whatever they like within those parameters. 

Effective communication is key to a successful provider-client relationship. A good provider will expect you to ask for exactly what you want. There's no need to be shy; I can guarantee you won't ask for anything they haven't heard before. While good providers are skilled at reading clients and guiding the session accordingly, leaving them to guess your preferences isn't the best approach when hiring.

In my experience. "Verse/Top" means someone mostly tops but also will bottom occasionally. "Verse/Bottom" means someone mostly bottoms but also will top occasionally. "Versatile" is 50/50 true verse flip fuck city, no problem doing either whenever.

I do love it when guys flip the baseball cap backwards to suck so as to not let it get in the way.
Such a "bro" look
 

Why do they swallow?
Because I tell them to

It’s the most beautiful thing. Looking into his eyes as the scent and feel of warm sticky cum is shared between us. Something to be treasured. 

Don't send an essay in your first message but saying what you want or what info you need is totally fine. 
"Hi there, I was interested in possibly booking a session with you and wanted to ask what you rate is. Thank you"

In my first message I always include a greeting, an introduction, a where, a when, and what, followed by a 'will this work.'
Hello, Bob here. I am looking for an out-call downtown on Thur night after 7pm. I would like an erotic massage and mutual oral. Are you available for this?

I did some gay porn filming in my 30s  (starting on VHS then DVD).
I did a body electric workshop in my 40s, which got me excited about bringing together massage and sex work.   I attended a certified massage school to learn massage tecnique, and then completed added training in erotic/sensual work though Body Electric and other similar groups.    I still enroll in erotic training programs whenever I can.
  I have been offering services now for the past 15 years.
I love the beautiful variation of men of all type, sizes, shapes, and backgrounds who come to see me.   I love that at its core, my job is to just pay attention to them and show them some affection - whatever that turns out to be.      

I did some gay porn filming in my 30s  (starting on VHS then DVD).
I did a body electric workshop in my 40s, which got me excited about bringing together massage and sex work.   I attended a certified massage school to learn massage tecnique, and then completed added training in erotic/sensual work though Body Electric and other similar groups.    I still enroll in erotic training programs whenever I can.
  I have been offering services now for the past 15 years.
I love the beautiful variation of men of all type, sizes, shapes, and backgrounds who come to see me.   I love that at its core, my job is to just pay attention to them and show them some affection - whatever that turns out to be.      

I did some gay porn filming in my 30s  (starting on VHS then DVD).
I did a body electric workshop in my 40s, which got me excited about bringing together massage and sex work.   I attended a certified massage school to learn massage tecnique, and then completed added training in erotic/sensual work though Body Electric and other similar groups.    I still enroll in erotic training programs whenever I can.
  I have been offering services now for the past 15 years.
I love the beautiful variation of men of all type, sizes, shapes, and backgrounds who come to see me.   I love that at its core, my job is to just pay attention to them and show them some affection - whatever that turns out to be.      

I have done  worksops on consent and desire, and talk about this  subject with  clients, providers, and also guys in relationships.   
When looking at an agreement between two guys to participate in any given activity, there is a spectrum of consent that can be given.   This applies to both a cliaent-provider relationship and an unpaid connection between two partners.
Ranges of Consent
    -Enduring, allowing,tolerating   ---     willing, wanting, enjoying
The person proposing the activity is presumably proposing something that he is going to enjoy and wants (like playing with the provider's nipples.)     The recipeint of the action can give consent, but can have varying degrees of enthusiasm about the activity.      
In a relationship between two guys where it is not a client-provider situation, it is always great if both guys are on the willing, wanting, and enjoying side of consent.     
There may be times in a non-paid partner relationship where a partner tolerates or allows something because  he knows his partner wants do to, but he is not really getting a lot of enjoyment out of it.    "Enduring" something  implies that it does not cross into non-consent, but gets to the bottom of the partner's level of alllowability and will create tension or worse in the relationship.   
Now, in a client-provider situation,  the provider is not in this for his own enjoyment, but for the pleasure of the client.   A good provider should be willing to slip down into the tolerating, allowing, and even sometimes enduring levels  to do something that pleases a client.   This is where our job of turning on our acting skills comes into play to appear that we are really enjoying what we are doing    Now even the best of client-actors can't pull off a situation if we are in the "enduring" stage for too long.
So in summary, if an activity is not hurting me as a  provider,  is inside of my spectrum of consent, and even though it may not be on the top of my list for enjoyment, I think it is my job to allow it.  
Now many times, a client also gets pleasure from knowing (or believing) that the provider is also enjoying the activity together.    That is an entirely different angle on the wheel of consent for another day.
 

I have done  worksops on consent and desire, and talk about this  subject with  clients, providers, and also guys in relationships.   
When looking at an agreement between two guys to participate in any given activity, there is a spectrum of consent that can be given.   This applies to both a cliaent-provider relationship and an unpaid connection between two partners.
Ranges of Consent
    -Enduring, allowing,tolerating   ---     willing, wanting, enjoying
The person proposing the activity is presumably proposing something that he is going to enjoy and wants (like playing with the provider's nipples.)     The recipeint of the action can give consent, but can have varying degrees of enthusiasm about the activity.      
In a relationship between two guys where it is not a client-provider situation, it is always great if both guys are on the willing, wanting, and enjoying side of consent.     
There may be times in a non-paid partner relationship where a partner tolerates or allows something because  he knows his partner wants do to, but he is not really getting a lot of enjoyment out of it.    "Enduring" something  implies that it does not cross into non-consent, but gets to the bottom of the partner's level of alllowability and will create tension or worse in the relationship.   
Now, in a client-provider situation,  the provider is not in this for his own enjoyment, but for the pleasure of the client.   A good provider should be willing to slip down into the tolerating, allowing, and even sometimes enduring levels  to do something that pleases a client.   This is where our job of turning on our acting skills comes into play to appear that we are really enjoying what we are doing    Now even the best of client-actors can't pull off a situation if we are in the "enduring" stage for too long.
So in summary, if an activity is not hurting me as a  provider,  is inside of my spectrum of consent, and even though it may not be on the top of my list for enjoyment, I think it is my job to allow it.  
Now many times, a client also gets pleasure from knowing (or believing) that the provider is also enjoying the activity together.    That is an entirely different angle on the wheel of consent for another day.
 

I have done  worksops on consent and desire, and talk about this  subject with  clients, providers, and also guys in relationships.   
When looking at an agreement between two guys to participate in any given activity, there is a spectrum of consent that can be given.   This applies to both a cliaent-provider relationship and an unpaid connection between two partners.
Ranges of Consent
    -Enduring, allowing,tolerating   ---     willing, wanting, enjoying
The person proposing the activity is presumably proposing something that he is going to enjoy and wants (like playing with the provider's nipples.)     The recipeint of the action can give consent, but can have varying degrees of enthusiasm about the activity.      
In a relationship between two guys where it is not a client-provider situation, it is always great if both guys are on the willing, wanting, and enjoying side of consent.     
There may be times in a non-paid partner relationship where a partner tolerates or allows something because  he knows his partner wants do to, but he is not really getting a lot of enjoyment out of it.    "Enduring" something  implies that it does not cross into non-consent, but gets to the bottom of the partner's level of alllowability and will create tension or worse in the relationship.   
Now, in a client-provider situation,  the provider is not in this for his own enjoyment, but for the pleasure of the client.   A good provider should be willing to slip down into the tolerating, allowing, and even sometimes enduring levels  to do something that pleases a client.   This is where our job of turning on our acting skills comes into play to appear that we are really enjoying what we are doing    Now even the best of client-actors can't pull off a situation if we are in the "enduring" stage for too long.
So in summary, if an activity is not hurting me as a  provider,  is inside of my spectrum of consent, and even though it may not be on the top of my list for enjoyment, I think it is my job to allow it.  
Now many times, a client also gets pleasure from knowing (or believing) that the provider is also enjoying the activity together.    That is an entirely different angle on the wheel of consent for another day.
 

I have done  worksops on consent and desire, and talk about this  subject with  clients, providers, and also guys in relationships.   
When looking at an agreement between two guys to participate in any given activity, there is a spectrum of consent that can be given.   This applies to both a cliaent-provider relationship and an unpaid connection between two partners.
Ranges of Consent
    -Enduring, allowing,tolerating   ---     willing, wanting, enjoying
The person proposing the activity is presumably proposing something that he is going to enjoy and wants (like playing with the provider's nipples.)     The recipeint of the action can give consent, but can have varying degrees of enthusiasm about the activity.      
In a relationship between two guys where it is not a client-provider situation, it is always great if both guys are on the willing, wanting, and enjoying side of consent.     
There may be times in a non-paid partner relationship where a partner tolerates or allows something because  he knows his partner wants do to, but he is not really getting a lot of enjoyment out of it.    "Enduring" something  implies that it does not cross into non-consent, but gets to the bottom of the partner's level of alllowability and will create tension or worse in the relationship.   
Now, in a client-provider situation,  the provider is not in this for his own enjoyment, but for the pleasure of the client.   A good provider should be willing to slip down into the tolerating, allowing, and even sometimes enduring levels  to do something that pleases a client.   This is where our job of turning on our acting skills comes into play to appear that we are really enjoying what we are doing    Now even the best of client-actors can't pull off a situation if we are in the "enduring" stage for too long.
So in summary, if an activity is not hurting me as a  provider,  is inside of my spectrum of consent, and even though it may not be on the top of my list for enjoyment, I think it is my job to allow it.  
Now many times, a client also gets pleasure from knowing (or believing) that the provider is also enjoying the activity together.    That is an entirely different angle on the wheel of consent for another day.
 

I did some gay porn filming in my 30s  (starting on VHS then DVD).
I did a body electric workshop in my 40s, which got me excited about bringing together massage and sex work.   I attended a certified massage school to learn massage tecnique, and then completed added training in erotic/sensual work though Body Electric and other similar groups.    I still enroll in erotic training programs whenever I can.
  I have been offering services now for the past 15 years.
I love the beautiful variation of men of all type, sizes, shapes, and backgrounds who come to see me.   I love that at its core, my job is to just pay attention to them and show them some affection - whatever that turns out to be.