Jamie21

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. 
I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique. 
 

I'm mostly a bottom so I do expect to be rimmed as warming up to fucking. I haven't had too many guys turn me down. 
I also think if you approach a provider with the info that you are a bottom and you're into it, most would think rimming is on the table. And, yes, bidets are nice but I am completely prepped (douched, freshly showered) before I meet up. 

My current regular introduced me to rimming, and does it well. It wasn't on our first meeting, so he had assessed my level of cleanliness beforehand.

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

Well why wouldn’t you..

I find to focus on your breathing as he enters you is advisable. He should enter slowly to allow your muscles to relax while you breathe deeply. Usually when I top anxious clients I say to them to breathe deep and long as I go in. Once it’s in, and they relax then it’s possible to begin a rhythm. 
If I’m bottoming I prefer to start in cowboy, because I can control the pace and angle it goes in, especially if he’s big. I think if you’re practicing to bottom with a dildo it’s like practicing to ride a bike by using a gym cycle. You need to get on a cock and practice. Use a top who will let you go at your pace and try different things. After you have practiced you’ll probably be fine. Then you can enjoy the pleasure of bottoming in all sorts of ways. 
 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

I find to focus on your breathing as he enters you is advisable. He should enter slowly to allow your muscles to relax while you breathe deeply. Usually when I top anxious clients I say to them to breathe deep and long as I go in. Once it’s in, and they relax then it’s possible to begin a rhythm. 
If I’m bottoming I prefer to start in cowboy, because I can control the pace and angle it goes in, especially if he’s big. I think if you’re practicing to bottom with a dildo it’s like practicing to ride a bike by using a gym cycle. You need to get on a cock and practice. Use a top who will let you go at your pace and try different things. After you have practiced you’ll probably be fine. Then you can enjoy the pleasure of bottoming in all sorts of ways. 
 

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine. 

a reluctant bottom is a bad bottom - every single time.  desire is the necessary ingredient 

I love kissing, and an happy to do it with clients but I agree, many clients don’t want that level of intimacy. They’ll be fine to do everything else but kissing is seen as indicative of some kind of emotional attachment, especially with straight clients. 
If a provider really doesn’t want to kiss ever then I think he should say so in his adverts. If kissing is conditional then that should be discussed with clients if they specifically ask about it. 
However, the most important thing is that if you’re going to kiss…you MUST kiss properly. Kissing is a skill, it’s so much better with a good kisser. 

 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session. 

It really depends on what you are prepping for. A large one needs deeper douching.