Jamie21

Ask it all in a message, but read my profile or website first because that answers most of the normal questions. Then ask whatever else you need, no question is silly. I’m not looking for pics of you, it doesn’t matter what you look like. Stats aren’t needed either unless they pertain to how I should treat you (are you 7ft tall? Do you have one leg?… that sort of thing). And if you want to endear yourself be polite.

I guess some places you actively have to look for culture and interesting places. I’m used to London, it’s on every street corner here, built into the fabric of the city. One becomes complacent to it.

I visited Orlando a few times (not to work, I’m exclusive to London ha ha) and I have to agree. First time I visited Orlando I was excited…hotel was downtown. I hoped for an interesting vibrant local scene. It was appalling, dull, boring and void of character. I walked around (a mistake in the US obviously) and became increasingly disappointed at what I found. A really strange place. Sorry Orlando.

I tried to advertise on masseurfinder but they refused my ad and pictures. Apparently it was too erotic or sexual or something like that. I had toned it down too. They seem not to like the proposal to massage naked, which is unfortunate since it need not necessarily be considered sexual. I think the site wants to focus on non intimate style massages yet I do see masseurs on there who I know do sex work. Perhaps they do both styles and keep things separate. I think that’s challenging to avoid the ‘non intimate’ massage service from developing into more erotic or sensual styles.

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine. It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go. Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury!

Ask again. He could have read it, got busy, and then forgotten to reply. Clients contact me by email, text, Twitter DM, Insta message, message on Rentmasseur, WhatsApp, and even by handwritten letter on lilac watermarked headed paper delivered by post (ok maybe I’m exaggerating with that last one)…so messages can go astray or get lost in the noise.

Yes the preparation is the hassle. It’s easier to top. Preparation can add an hour to the time needed. I hate to be anxious about not being clear down there so I try to be thorough in preparing.

I’ve a regular client who feeds me his home made cake after our session, with a cup of tea (usually some unusual infusion). It’s quite an energetic session so the cake afterwards is very welcome. He’s an excellent baker and tea and cake afterwards is a very civilised way to finish I think. He’s a lovely guy and we have a nice chat. Last time he served up a moist sponge with apricots and a flavour of tea that I’d never heard of. The cake was delicious. I wasn’t so keen on the tea. I always think which I like best when visiting him; eating out his hole or eating the cake afterwards. It’s a difficult choice. I absolutely adore eating out holes (especially his) and I love eating cakes. Probably both complement each other. The whole thing works nicely: massage, sex, tea cake and chat. Once trust is established then I think this drinks / cake / chat part is an integral part of the session. On out calls I like to include that element if my client is happy to. It’s a happy ending in every sense.

I’d be wary of this if it’s a new client. You might find some guys decline your offer even though it’s very kind and seems a nice way to start. The reason is the risk of something being put in the drink. It’s unfortunate but there are bad clients out there who are looking to take advantage or worse. It’s obviously extremely unlikely but I wouldn’t take the risk if visiting a new client at a location he has chosen. For that reason I always take my own drink.

Interesting! I’ve a friend who works as both, sometimes he escorts as a gay Twink, sometimes as a transexual. I’ve done duo’s with him (in his gay Twink persona) but I’ve not worked with her. She charges more than he does. There’s more demand in London for her than there is for him. She tells me she can attract a different quality of client. I understand though that the rates she can charge are still lower than a non trans female could demand.

In these days where one can self identify as female I might start to do that, and put up my rates 🙂. I’ll ask clients to pretend my 8 inch cock isn’t there. Preferred pronouns: Her, she.

I appreciate clients booking in advance. I get messages like, ‘I’m coming to London first week of September (this is in say June) are you available for booking?’ and I will say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ if I’m planning to be away then. The client might leave booking an actual time until nearer the first week in September and that’s fine but it could be that I’m all booked up for the times he wants. That’s just tough luck so I’d always say to book in advance if possible. I’ve no problem with clients booking 2 or 3 months hence. I’m always surprised when clients ask for bookings on the day or for say ‘3pm tomorrow’ when they’re planned their visit months in advance yet they’re somehow expecting I’ll be free at the drop of a hat. Then they’re disappointed because I couldn’t see them on their visit, and so am I because I feel sorry for them. If you definitely want a session then please book it in advance! I’m not just hanging around all day on the chance someone wants to book. I must get about 4 or 5 requests a week for ‘are you free in the next hour or so’ and 99% of the time I have to say no. Think about it…if he’s free in the next hour is he likely to be any good? Will he be focused and prepared for you? It’s unlikely. I think the chances of having a good experience are greatest if you have booked in advance.

Yes females charge more.

Yes Dayuse is good. I use them to do filming sessions. There’s usually a reasonable choice of locations.

There’s loads of massage movies on my justforfans 🙂. https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim Please forgive the blatant self promotion… if you like them then come for a massage!

Burner phone…

Clients expect discretion, and so do I. They can call me whatever they like in the moment…

I work with females who would do this. However usually when clients ask me to set it up they’re surprised by the rate (for both of us) and that often deters them from proceeding. Guys who usually hire guys aren’t used to paying the higher rates that females generally charge. In sex work it is one of the few areas where the gender pay differential works the other way around!!

Yes PrEP is self protection. If a client asks me to fuck them bb then I find myself asking them if they’re on prep for their own protection. I notice some younger clients ask for bb but they’re not on PrEP, which is surprising. I wonder why anyone would risk that. I know my status is negative (I test very regularly) but why would they just rely on me saying I’m negative? I wouldn’t rely on that, which is why I take PrEP (and obviously because of my work). I counsel them to take care of themselves and go and find out about it. Here in the UK it is available free of charge on the NHS.

No, and quite difficult to prove. I mean I can show them my prep pills, the prescription etc but it’s still no guarantee of anything. No one has asked for proof. I’m fine to use condoms though I prefer not to.

That’s a very straight forward request to ask. I’ve been asked for similar things in the past and fulfilled them for a client. More commonly it’s for a guy to watch me have sex with his wife or partner, but I’ve also done it for single guys to watch me with another provider (both male and female) who I arrange. The client just gives me his requirements and I set it all up. I’d say the best location is a hotel which I also arrange in some instances (I know the best hotels to use). Usually the person watching is just a voyeur and won’t want to participate at any point, but not always. You’ll need to make it clear to the provider whether you want any part in the scene. Also instructions on whether the couple are to acknowledge your presence, follow your instructions or include any specific positions etc. I’m sure you’ll find a provider who knows female providers who will work with him so just find a guy you like and ask him the question. Be prepared to pay a large deposit. Something like this takes a bit of coordination (2 providers diaries to align) and financial commitment to set up and there are too many guys who simply have the fantasy but who get cold feet once the time comes (especially the “it’s a surprise for my wife” crowd 🙄). So no provider will take your request seriously until you pay at least half the cost up front. I certainly don’t entertain “wife surprise fantasists” not in the least because I’m not going to be part of any surprise for her. You’ll need therefore to demonstrate that you’re serious about it and not someone who gets off on the thought without any intention of seeing it through. Good luck with it! Interested to hear how it goes.

I don’t own a watch, I’ve never worn one. Perfection needs no adornments 😂

There’s a site you can use to check problem numbers. Here in UK there’s also a site (national ugly mugs) that helps provide resources to sex workers to protect themselves including sending out warnings about threatening clients.

Same thing happened to me. Client was in phone by his nickname on some site and I didn’t have his actual name. It went on for a few sessions so I couldn’t refer to him by name. Thankfully one time he booked he signed off the text with his name. I was so pleased I probably over used it during his session. Now I always put the right name in my phone and nickname in brackets as in “Donald (cumdump79)”. Obviously the nickname sometimes provides guidance as to their preferences 🙂

Not quite. If they cancel on me once it’s fine, things happen (illness, emergencies, travel problems etc). If it happens twice without good reason, I simply don’t take another booking from them. Never. Sometimes they forget they messed me around and they approach me again to book but I decline saying they flaked previously. Most of my clients are regular returning clients. I built up regular clients over the years because I think that’s the best way. Give a professional top quality and always fresh service and people return. There’s so many poor operators in the industry (flaky providers are more common than flaky clients) that if you’re professional and skilled you stand out. Regular clients are reliable; a trust and respect has been created. When you know the other person there’s more of an obligation. With some first time clients I guess it’s easy for them to cancel or flake because the other person (me) is ‘just someone doing sex work’ …and I do get that vibe when these type of people book. I’m usually right. It’s amazing how the patterns of the flaky clients repeat. I don’t get many of these now but I book them in anyway and give the benefit of the doubt, but with a 75% expectation they’ll cancel or no show. After some trial and error this model works well for me, other models work too depending on the market where you operate…but the fundamental and essential element of any way of working in this industry is to give a fantastic and professional service to your clients. Each one is special.