Jamie21

You sound like the ideal client.

I got my vaccination next week. Clinic prioritise sex workers.

Just don’t let him sleep.

Artie is fantastic. Beautiful guy, awesome masseur, friendly and professional. Tell him Jamie recommended him…you’ll get treated well!!

I think you should tell him what you thought of the experience before posting a review. Thinking personally I like to hear from my clients about what they genuinely felt about the session. Everyone can have an off day and he might have had other things on his mind. If you tell him about what you liked and didn’t like then he can explain why he wasn’t up to his usual standard. Then you can decide whether or not to leave a review. That’s of course from the perspective of a provider and I realise giving genuine feedback is only going to help your guy but maybe he’ll come back with some good reason and offer you a discounted repeat session when he’s more on his game?

It’s the least they could have done, I agree. But I was nice and fresh for when we did start.

I just misread the time. I’m not very good at reading the time, I think I’ve mentioned it previously in a post on here. So it was a genuine mistake although I bet my client and the other provider (who is actually a friend) did suspect I was trying to get in on their fun lol. As it was they got good use out of me when we did start on time!

I was once an hour early for a client by mistake. Didn’t realise until I knocked on his hotel door. I was scheduled to arrive during a session he had with another escort, as part two of his session. I had to wait in the bar until they were ready for me. It was fine, my mistake and I had stuff to be getting on with. Ironic really because I thought I was going to be late and had been rushing to get there!

Looks like you chose a self centred narcissist. Good decision to go home.

London does this to green Brazilian boys, I can imagine they must feel like a kid in a sweet shop (candy store). I’ve lived here all my life and have been to the clubs in Vauxhall and Soho and others across the city. It all goes on here. Fortunately the strongest thing I’ve had is a double espresso!

Maybe they forgot. I send a reminder the day before. It usually elicits a response if either ‘looking forward to it!’ or ‘oh is it tomorrow?’ which helps to avoid any day of the session surprises. I agree with @Shawn Monroe there’s some who get off on the idea of a session but then aren’t able to follow through, possibly because of anxiety or that they just booked when horny. It’s just one of those things that come with the territory.

Slightly to port.

Yes I agree a website is unusual for an escort, I was coming at it from the perspective of a masseur, and a European based one too. It’s much easier to be clear about what’s on offer where the service is legal.

Yes it is obvious.

Questions are fine, most can be answered by saying “see my website”. There’s a difference between genuine questions and sex chat.

Occam’s Razor

You get to recognise the signs. If his first message is ‘Hey’ or ‘what’s up?’ or similar then 99% chance he’s a time waster. If he sends a dick pic first then 100% he’s a time waster. Some guys just get off on the fantasy of booking a session, they like to talk about it but never will go through with actually booking. Those conversations get closed down quickly. I’m not running a sex chat line. I’ll interact with guys who subscribe to my justforfans. But that’s different, they’re subscribing to watch the movies, and I like the feedback, plus it’s part of the deal. But random chats with ‘prospective’ clients? That’s a definite no.

Yes I don’t just block. If the client comes back after a last minute cancellation to make another booking then I’ll say “you cancelled last minute last time so this time I need a deposit”. The reasonable clients agree, those who don’t care will refuse to pay a deposit; but that’s fine, then they don’t get a booking. I don’t incur large costs up front (I don’t travel far) so my loss from a cancellation is time and opportunity rather than financial but it’s still annoying. Other clients might have been turned down to take the booking too. It’s one of the features of the work that’s annoying but it can be managed.

First time they do it I give them the benefit of the doubt and just accept the cancellation graciously and express the hope that they’ll rebook etc. Second time they do it…they’re not allowed to book again without payment in advance.

Just sayin

On the massage table I use this position, with his legs over my thighs. This pic was from a demo movie I did and I’m penetrating the guy here. Penetration is possible and it also means you can’t do too much thrusting, which is actually better at the start, while he gets used to it. You can change positions so his legs are over your shoulders to go deeper and harder. The position means you can kiss etc. The position works better on a massage table than a bed because it’s firmer. However you do need to be quite hung.

This is the risk if you’ve not familiar with the notes. I’ve been paid in foreign currency in the past (€ or $) and that’s fine, I prefer £ but if the client doesn’t want to use GBP it’s cool, I’ll accept these other currencies but I’m not so familiar with what fakes look like, especially US$. It’s useful to have a website you can look at to check them although I definitely wouldn’t do it in front of my client. When I worked in a bank we were taught to put all notes of same denomination the same way around in a pile and count them by peeling off a corner and pulling it back. You can count hundreds of notes quickly and because they’re all oriented the same you quickly notice if one feels or looks different. I still do that today….all the notes facing the same way and in same denominations (or maybe it’s my OCD?).

I don’t like to count the money in front of clients. I just take it and ask if they need change. Never had a problem with it being short or of fake notes. I guess I’ve been lucky. Most of my clients pay by credit or debit card though. No one carries cash these days.

I’ve been to the naked workout there a few months ago. We used the sauna afterwards. We (I went with a friend) did an hour workout in the gym. Usually they require shorts or something to be worn in gym but on Sunday mornings they run a supervised session for naked workouts. I’ve seen from their advertising that Gabriel Phoenix sometimes supervises the gym sessions. I was hoping he’d be there because I’ve filmed porn with him about 18m ago and I was wondering if he’d remember me…but some other guy was supervising. Anyway, we did our workout (no sex in the gym unfortunately) and then had a look around the sauna. It’s large over 3 floors with all usual facilities. There’s not many spaces for group sex or to be watched unfortunately. They also have some complicated entry system where you put valuables in a locked box and then get a separate key for a kind of ‘cage’ locker. It’s a hassle. The place was quite busy on a Sunday morning. We stayed about an hour after the workout and had plenty of fun. It’s worth a try and is extremely well located.

It’s too many, I’ve done a 10 hand (not for a client, it was in a recreational setting) and the guy on the table was overwhelmed. It just becomes a group sex session very quickly. Personally I think even a 4 hands is too much but some clients like them. It can work if you’re coordinated with the other masseur. I prefer to work with masseurs I know or have worked with before because you can make sure you’re aligned. It’s a better experience for the client. An 8 hands isn’t a massage it’s a group grope 🙂