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I prefer clarity. If the time agreed is 1:30 then if it’s an outcall I aim to be there at 1:30. I’ll check the location and for example if I’m visiting his hotel then I’ll get there early and I can sit in the lounge until the time. If the client is coming to me and we agree a 1:30 start time then I’m ready and waiting at 1:30. It’s really simple. The time agreed is the time to be there. If you’re unavoidably late then communicate it.

Filming for Onlyfans happens daytime too! Most of my filming is daytime. As the title of the conversation says it’s very difficult to do this work whilst doing a 9 to 5. I know a lot of guys who do sex work and none of them have a conventional 9 to 5 job. Most either do it full time or have a part time job. You have to be extremely flexible with your schedule doing this job. My week can change very quickly from being almost empty to being full; I can start the day with plans to do my laundry go to the gym and then update my website and end up having done none of those things but will have seen 2 clients. It’s quite random so you get used to changing plans. What’s annoying as @Jarrod_Uncutsays is the clients who prevaricate about booking. If you’re thinking of booking but your plans aren’t firm then don’t bother asking. Only ask if you’re certain you want to book because the worst thing is holding a time for someone who might book or who is trying to arrange his schedule. Lengthy discussions about scheduling are usually fruitless. I now don’t bother with the “I might book for x time I’ll let you know” guys. If by the time you make your mind up I’m still free then fine but I’m not going to turn down other things just because you can’t organise your plans.

They’ll usually use the same name on their Onlyfans as on their advertising for hire if they are for hire. The Onlyfans serves as a shop window. Also they’ll have a Twitter profile associated with their Onlyfans and that often has the links to all their socials (Instagram etc) which would include their RM or other websites if they are for hire. However, I know quite a few guys who I’ve worked with either seeing clients or making films, who started out seeing clients and then moved on to doing Onlyfans. Some of them make so much more money on Onlyfans (and travel all the time) that it’s not worth their time seeing clients any more so they cancelled their RM advert and don’t bother advertising for clients in that way. They get clients contacting them directly, are selective and charge a much higher rate.

Don’t book guys that want a picture from you. He doesn’t need one. Find someone who takes the work seriously. You’ll have a much better time.

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Oh no! This topic again…pick a side 🙂. All I will say is that some of my clients tip generously, most don’t. I have no expectations of being tipped but it’s nice when it happens. For those clients who I know tip generously I’m more inclined to say yes to their requested day / time even if it’s not convenient for me. If he’s a generous tipper I’m much more inclined to put myself out to meet him.

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It’s at the bottom of all my posts 😂

Day use is very easy. I book on their app. I don’t use it for meeting clients because I have my own place but I use it for filming. They’re all hotel rooms that would otherwise be empty. I can cancel up to the last minute without incurring a fee. A few have a very small booking fee but most it’s free to book. Check in is just the same as checking in at the hotel.

Well yes, he told me a few days before at the time of booking. I almost forgot too. I’d been to the gym before the session and I kind of routinely finished my session and headed to the showers. Just before I went in the cubicle I remember ‘oh yeah he wants me unshowered…’ so I turned on my heel and left the wet area to get dressed. No deodorant or anything. Then I headed to my studio for his booking. I almost showered there too because it’s a habit before a session… I prefer to be fresh but the client really liked getting his face in my pits and groin area so hey, he’s the customer, if he wants me sweaty that’s what he gets 😂.

Very strange. 🫖

I know this is switching it around (as in this is the client’s requirement of the provider) but I have a client who doesn’t want me hygienic; he specifically wants me to not shower beforehand, not wear deodorant and be a bit sweaty (maybe after a gym session) when I meet him. He likes that musty sweaty smell.

Is that a thing?

That’s the great thing about guys making their own porn. People of all shapes, sizes and age can make it and find an audience. Studios wouldn’t make it because they’d perceive it as being too niche, probably correctly because most porn features traditionally hot looking guys, but there is a market for non ‘stereotype’ look and it’s fantastic that guys can make it. I make porn with a range of different guys, some of them have the usual type of body you see on porn, but others are more average looking. I can see that the films featuring ‘hot’ guys are usually more popular. You generally need at least 2 of 3 things: a hot body, a pretty face, a big cock (or bubble butt). One of the 3 is ok. None of them? That’s a struggle…then we’re talking about a niche market (such as the fat guy, or someone with a tiny cock, or some kind of disability). There will still be a market for those but it’s not as big as the mainstream market. If you want to make money at it you need to pitch to the mainstream or be right at the top of the alternative market.

This. If you’re happy then so am I.

Most of my clients are middle of the day bookings between 11am and 4pm is most frequently booked. Sometimes it’s also the 5pm to 7pm slot too, which is known in France as Cinq et Sept. The traditional time when men see their mistress after work before they head home to the wife. “Hello dear I’ll be home just after 7, it’s been a busy day at the office and the trains are delayed”….

It’s the law here. Tea must be provided

I love the depiction of imperial as ‘normal’ 🙂. Height should be in feet and inches. Distance in miles unless I’m running then it’s in kilometres. Weight is in imperial (stone) if it’s a body or kilos if it’s on a barbell. And …Cock size is always in inches…. I know what 8 inches feels like but 20.3 cm is just unknowable.

Ha ha there’s shit everywhere…sounds like the time I hadn’t douched properly 😳😳😳. Seriously though I guess it’s not about winning and losing. It’s just about opinions!

It wasn’t always the way. I used to be very looks oriented. Then I started to do this sex work and making porn, and I learned that once you got over the initial looks attraction there’s a lot more to sexual attraction than looks. I think it’s about attitude and confidence plus stuff I really can’t describe (if I knew what it was I’d bottle it!). So I think it’s a learned skill. You probably need a bit of an aptitude for it of course but I’m sure it can be learned.

‘Are selfish’ - an extreme. ’only a hookup’ - an extreme. You’re misrepresenting comments by making them extreme and binary so that you can argue the opposite and cause conflict. I see what you’re doing and I feel foolish for falling for it. So let me say this - actually I totally agree with you. You’re 100% right in everything you say.

I did already know that. I’m glad it isn’t everyone’s model (that’s an extreme) because I don’t want the competition!

Oh god I seem to have ended up in one of those Twitter exchanges where all nuance and shades of grey are lost and things are binary… I’m not on Grindr.

I don’t think it’s right to describe someone as disgusting! Not to your liking or attraction yes.., but to describe someone is disgusting? I have to say when I hear something like that it says a lot about the view of the person saying it. Yes, there are. I wouldn’t call them sex workers though, especially those looking to monetise their sex life. I still argue those guys will be paying attention to their own gratification during your session rather than being focused on your enjoyment. If you’re ok with that then go with it, but don’t complain if he treated it like a Grindr hookup. Yes I agree, it doesn’t mean that. I looked back and I don’t see that I wrote that they were ‘malignant narcissists’. I don’t know where you got it from? Everyone has limits, but I still argue that true a sex worker’s limits will be of a behaviour and attitude kind rather than a physical kind. I don’t mind about someone’s physical appearance but I do have limits about their attitude and behaviour. Anyone who is ignorant, disrespectful, arrogant, dismissive or entitled won’t be seen. If somehow they do get through they get as little as possible and won’t come back. Fortunately these kind of people reveal themselves very easily, as is evident.

Those guys haven’t quite got the idea of what the job is. Definitely right to move on. Sometimes I get clients sending me a description of themselves and they ask if they’re suitable to book. They might even include a photo. They have this perception that they need to be ‘fit’ to come for a session. I tell them they only need to be healthy, as in no health conditions that might be a problem, but that their physical appearance is immaterial. This belief that you need to be conventionally fit arises because so many bad sex workers have criteria or age caps on who they will see. I don’t think those guys are worth booking. Your session will be all about them.