Jamie21

Yeah but you could use the giant swinging porn dick to club the game animal to death. It saves having to carry a club.

All it takes is some disgruntled potential client who sees your profile, tries to book, gets upset at the price, and then reports your profile to Sniffies or whatever platform you’re lowkey advertising on for your profile to be banned. It’s happened to me. I don’t bother advertising there now. The quality of client is poor anyway.

Not by the gym or hotel though!

Yes indeed. There’s a lot going on in that original post.

I think different standards for men and women is fine. There’s a different power dynamic between men and women than exists between men and men. I’d expect a man in receipt of an unwanted grope to feel much more able to reject it confidently than a woman in receipt of an unwanted male grope. Therefore one must proceed much more carefully and courteously in groping a woman. Also any grope is unwanted by definition, it’s a grope. If it was wanted it would be called a caress or a stroke and likely will have been given by someone who the receiver finds attractive. The same touch by someone the receiver finds unattractive is a grope. The former leads to an intimate relationship the latter leads to a slap or a conviction at worst. I recall being at a sex party. I was on a bed in a large group of people. One wore a wristband to indicate whether you were top, bottom or vers. Within the group it wasn’t always easy to identify which body part belonged to which wristbanded wrist. Occasionally a total top might risk being penetrated (This is the advantage of being vers I think 🙂). At one point someone shrieked and withdrew themselves indignantly from the mass of bodies saying they’d been assaulted. The host asked them what happened and he pointed to a guy and said the guy had tried to penetrate him and it was unwanted. The ‘victim’ had a top wristband on. The host basically said to the ‘victim’ to get real - you’re naked at a sex party with a dozen other naked guys on a bed. What do you expect?

Or just subscribe to my site and cancel your subscription to his one? 😂😂😂😂😂

Sometimes my gym is like a filming studio. There’s people with tripods for their cameras filming themselves exercising and they’re oblivious to what’s going on around them. You can’t walk anywhere without inadvertently getting in the shot. Some guys take off their tops which isn’t allowed but the gym staff (if there are any) don’t stop them. I don’t mind them filming if it’s unobtrusive but sometimes it’s like being on a film set. I expect someone to shout ‘action!’. The taking of pics in the changing room is a different issue. I’m not ok with that happening if there’s people around. I don’t care about being in the shot… in fact I deliberately walk around naked in the background to annoy them. My naked pics are all over the place anyway but most people definitely don’t want to be pictured inadvertently whilst getting changed.

Oh you didn’t watch on my JFF site?? 😢 (my one has the Director’s cut 😉).

Yes I totally understand this. For female clients there’s a lot of risk attached to hiring someone, much more so than for a male client. The female clients I see tell me they do a lot of research before hiring.

Both. Mainly though it’s that I tend to want to ‘save myself’ for work sex. I do have ‘non work’ sex and there is a small element of thinking it could have been monetised but the main issue is just wanting to save my energy for work. When I took a week away on holiday recently I was somewhere where there was plenty of opportunity and time for sex but I didn’t do anything! It was a genuine holiday from work, including sex 😂.

I contact other providers for work purposes, whether that’s to work together for clients or to collaborate for filming. I don’t do anything with them just for fun, it’s always got a business purpose. This is the trouble with doing sex work, getting paid for it, directly or indirectly means you feel like you’re giving away value if you have ‘free’ sex. That might sound weird to guys who don’t do sex work, and it feels strange to acknowledge it but it’s definitely a thing.

You were close enough to have me recognise the allusion! 👏

I know of no reason…. 😉

😱. Please don’t re-open that wound. It must never be mentioned here. Never!!!

I think the succession is secured for the next 100 years or so. Charles is proving to be a good King, he’s well liked and very well supported by the Queen. They clearly were meant for each other. William is like the late Queen Elizabeth, dutiful and fully aware of the role he’s destined to play. This model has worked more or less for over a thousand years (with a short break while we checked out Republicanism - which didn’t work here) so I think the institution will adapt and survive. It’s not good looks, charisma, eloquence or popularity that is needed to do the role, it’s a sense of destiny, determination and humility. William has those. Harry doesn’t.

Agree. It’s a bait and switch. You’ll get drawn in, probably pay a deposit and then your chosen masseur ‘Oliver’ or ‘Lucas’ won’t be available and you’ll get someone else who won’t look like Oliver or Lucas, if you get anything atall. Book me instead. I don’t look like those boys…but in a moodily lit room, with good ambiance and of course stimulated by my expert hands you can imagine I’m Oliver 😉. (And my 🍆is undoubtedly bigger than his too). Plus I’m real, less expensive and give a fabulous massage.

I’ve filmed with him. Great guy. Fabulous massage (although we didn’t do much massage 😂).

I’ve done all those for clients except 18, 22 and 38 😂.

Make sure the 3 guys can work well together, sounds like you’ve done that. Then let them know what you definitely don’t want (hate your toes being sucked? Tell them about it). Avoid setting out too prescriptive a list of what you do want because that can make it too choreographed. Tell them how you want to feel rather than what you want done. As in I want to feel like I’m your plaything, I want to feel slutty or whatever. They know how to make that happen because it’s their job. If you say I want to be DP’d while having my throat used then that becomes the fixation and it’s likely to make your session too focused on that activity. Let it happen naturally, it’s so much better.

Correct. WW2 era cruiser. @CuriousByNature’s rundown of activities is a good list of some of the main interests. You could spend weeks here and just scratch the surface. The famous quote by Samuel Johnson ‘when a man is tired of London he’s tired of life’ is quite true. You should spend some time just walking around and you’ll come across medieval churches next to modern skyscrapers in the City (London is two cities…London and Westminster…that’s even more for you! 2 for the price of one!) or walk along the river and come across a thousand year old castle at the Tower of London, go further down river (on a boat) to Greenwich Royal Naval college, a UNESCO World Heritage site. Wander through Soho and Chinatown and watch the people. Go in pubs at lunchtime for a drink. If you like sports there’s every top sporting venue, Lords, Wembley, Wimbledon. Visit the parks - Regents Park is best I think. And definitely avoid Madame Tussauds, it’s full of tourists.

They don’t care. I must admit I don’t stay at a hotel and meet multiple clients. It’s usually me visiting a client at their hotel, and I’ve taken my table in to many of them (although often the client opts for massage on the bed rather than the table). I’ve never been challenged taking in the table, even at high end hotels. At most hotels the client comes to meet me in the lobby because a key is needed to access the lifts (elevator 😉). Hotel staff are not bothered as long as you are discreet and look professional. I also book hotels to do filming in. I have the massage table and lights / equipment for filming. Obviously I’m very discreet about it, and I ask the guys who I’m filming with to arrive discreetly etc. There’s never been a problem. Just leave the room nice and tidy and don’t make too much noise. Hotel staff have seen everything, they’re cool about sex work as long as it’s discreet and quiet. No drugs, no loud music, no drama.

Yes! This exactly. That’s what my experience is. They like the intimacy of it, especially the kissing. It seems so normal to me but I guess they never really see men being vulnerable.

Ha ha yes sometimes, although usually it’s the guy wanting to watch his wife get fucked. Women love to watch two guys together, especially if one of them is their partner. I think generally women are much more open minded about sexuality than guys are (especially straight guys who seem to get very hung up about any activity they think is ‘gay’). When I did a live sex show (me and another guy) most of the audience was female 😂. I was very surprised at the ratio vs single males.

I’ve a M/F couple booked with me this weekend. I’m bi so that works fine 🤪. I’ve had single female clients in the past too. It’s fairly unusual, especially for them to book alone but it does happen. Most of the time female clients come with their male partner (and when it’s booked by their male partner often the guy tells me he wants it as a surprise for her 😂. In those instances I insist he tells her and that she makes contact with me before the session…which of course she never does because it was simply his fantasy 🙄).

Some aren’t. I offer a shower beforehand. Some decline and aren’t clean. Their massage is less intimate than it might otherwise have been. Their loss.