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    sider reacted to Whitman in That sexy tanning line!   
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    sider reacted to spidir in Re: Discrete Exhibitionist?   
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    sider reacted to Redwine56 in Evan Bedford NYC   
    He went right from breast milk to cum shots!  Very impressive "neighbor's son".
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    sider reacted to Simon Suraci in Provider stealing time   
    I go the full time. By that I mean once the client gets on the table and I start working, to the time their massage is finished. NOT:
    Client going to the bathroom
    showering
    chit chat
    paying
    laying on the table for a while after, mind completely blown, and in quiet recovery
    getting dressed
    etc.
    I plan buffers for these activities and to clean thoroughly before the next client arrives, and usually with enough to give myself at least a few minutes to respond to inquiries. For me, that’s at least 30 mins between one client ending their scheduled time and the next client’s scheduled time begins. The buffer allows me to go slightly over if necessary or offer the client a shower, and it gives me wiggle room to take a client early should they arrive more than 5-10 mins before their scheduled start time, or still get my current client done should they arrive late.
    Clients showing up late I short on time, ending at their scheduled end time so as to respect the next client’s start time. When the next client is scheduled later, I accommodate the late client by starting and ending late. It’s all a matter of circumstances.
    It boggles my mind why more of my peers don’t structure their appointments with reasonable buffers. It’s very important to me that each client gets their full time. It’s important to me when I get massages myself.
    Honestly I have a hard time finishing my routine any faster than the scheduled time. Sometimes it ends right on time, often it runs over. But then again I am actually providing a real, skilled massage. A lot of guys in the industry are opportunistic rub-and-tug types with short term goal$.
    I want my clients to return. I give them their full time, every time. Masseurs that don’t aren’t serious about their work, and they’re not working to develop long term clients. Skip the amateurs and unserious, pervasive though they may be. Go with experienced, consummate professionals.
    Places like here are the best ways to find the good guys!
    When a masseur massively shorts your time, please write a review stating the facts, both here and on whatever platform you found them on, like RentMasseur. It helps identify the bad actors and lead other clients toward the pros. Also, it motivates the bad guys to either a) improve their practice or b) exit the biz.
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    sider reacted to FLJock in 6 Hands?   
    I have.  Oh, wait, massage?  Never mind 
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    sider got a reaction from Cbilly17 in Did your dad ever talk to you about the “ birds and the bees”🐝 ?   
    I had a girlfriend when I was 16. After a couple months of dating her, my Dad simply said "don't knock her up". He was about a month too late with that great advice! UGH
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    sider got a reaction from + nycman in Did your dad ever talk to you about the “ birds and the bees”🐝 ?   
    I had a girlfriend when I was 16. After a couple months of dating her, my Dad simply said "don't knock her up". He was about a month too late with that great advice! UGH
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    sider got a reaction from thomas in Did your dad ever talk to you about the “ birds and the bees”🐝 ?   
    I had a girlfriend when I was 16. After a couple months of dating her, my Dad simply said "don't knock her up". He was about a month too late with that great advice! UGH
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    sider reacted to Simon Suraci in Do snowy days negatively affect business?   
    Snow? What’s that?
    58 degrees on my commute in San Diego is giving me a few chills. Maybe I will wear a fashionable scarf.
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    sider reacted to RugbyBen in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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    sider reacted to Shoedog112 in Let's Talk Massages: Keepin' It Real!   
    Well this topic thread took a turn. It kinda stinks. 
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    sider reacted to relax man in Scottchas   
    I assume you mean that the last review was in 2021, but the way you phrased this sounds like you're saying his clients go missing after seeing him.
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    sider reacted to Harryinny in RonnyNYC 411!   
    I had my first session with Ronny today. He is a delight, charming, soothing, calm and very handsome with a great body and assets.  The photos DON'T do him justice, I found him gorgeous and the perfect young man to chain to my night stand.  I wanted a light sensual massage and he delivered.  I had a wonderful time and will return.
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    sider reacted to Ali Gator in Giving Christmas gift to providers   
    Exactly a year ago, I met with a masseur who was traveling through my area and spending Christmas weekend here. It was my third or fourth time meeting with him since the summer. His family was overseas, so he wasn't able to travel to be with them for Christmas, so he was 'working' the holiday weekend.  Turned out on Dec 23, 2022 I was his last appointment at 5 pm. He had nothing to do the rest of the evening, so I suggested I'd take him out to dinner and we would have our own 'Christmas dinner'. Sometimes such 'simple things' mean so much. 
     
    I was careful to choose a place we'd be comfortable with (he was wearing a track suit, so couldn't go for fine dining) and would fit his food preferences (he's vegetarian).  I took him to a nearby locally-owned family restaurant, sat at the bar with him, and had a wonderful dinner and pleasant time with the others at the bar (turned out there was a couple there who was traveling to his home-country in mid-January, so that made for an easy / engaging conversation for him). Being with this handsome guy (with a hot body) and watching how genuinely happy he was 'in this strange land' made my Christmas. It was a memorable evening.
     
    When I drove him back to his hotel, he thanked me profusely for such a special evening and making his Christmas 'less lonely'. When he leaned in to kiss me good night, unexpectedly it turned out to be quite a make-out session in my car in the parking lot. He wanted me to go back to his room with him, but I wanted to end the night without going further (we went much further in his other appointments since then). 
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    sider reacted to myophile in Giving Christmas gift to providers   
    I always did this with my former trainer, and I assumed it was customary. But this year, when I tipped ($300 gift card) my new trainer, who has been in the business for more than a decade, he thanked me, and said he was quite touched: apparently I was the first client who had ever tipped him like this at the holidays. I was shocked  — what is the MATTER with people???
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    sider reacted to DamizzonNYC in Giving Christmas gift to providers   
    I had a really lovely experience with a client of mine this holiday season.  
    Long term regular.  He and I are very close.  Amazing beautiful man.  At the end of the session he expressed that he’d wanted to give me a Christmas present.  But he was conscious of the boundaries in our relationship.  And he was aware that I have a separate home life and was cautious of imposing himself on that.  He racked his brain on what to get, and in the end decided that cash was the way to go. 
    It was about the most thoughtful explanation he could’ve given, and ultimately the most thoughtful gesture.  And honestly - exactly what I would’ve wanted. 
    So I’m sorry if this sounds crass, but from a provider perspective?  Cash bonus is the best Christmas gift.  🙏🏻 
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    sider reacted to Whitman in CMNM (clothed-naked scene)   
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    sider reacted to + Charlie in Bergen County/North Jersey   
    This is making me nostalgic! My college roommate was from Mahwah, and my first fulltime job was in Lodi.
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    Haven't worn Aussiebum in years, but some of their new line is super crazy comfortable.
    Seen here: https://www.aussiebum.com/mens/underwear/brief/slick-ivory/6259

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