I haven't asked for any kind of a "birthday request" since I was 15, and the party clown was more than happy to receive an enthusiastic, if not nuanced, BJ behind the garage.
I am sad to read about your experience. I have had similar things happen to me. Maybe I got off and enjoyed the orgasms, but my Therapeutic needs weren't met. And neither were yours.
I eould never do that with a client. If he wants a therapeutic massage, I want to be sure I address all his needs. If he gets excited, I hope I communicate to him that it's natural and that there's no expectation to continue if he doesn't want to, but if he's willing, I am too. But I do want to be sure I've addressed his therapeutic needs first
I really do respect my clients wishes. I wish that hadn't happened to you.
I love working on a man's legs, and repositioning his leg like this gives him a chance to 1) stretch in a new way after lying with his legs extended and 2) allow air to flow around his scrotum and inside is gluteal cleft. Often he will move the other leg further away to increase the feeling of freedom and exposure. This happens whether he is draped or not. I love that feeling myself.
When I work on his upper leg in this position, I get to massage both a man's hamstrings as well as part of his quads. I like to run my hands on both sides up from his knee to his hips alternating left and right, front and backside and circle his trocanter (where the leg bone joins the hip bone) some times his ilium (top of pelvis). I like to reach deep inside, and I like to use a lot of oil or lotion to make it a silky, sensual feeling for him.
Invariably he will have an erection, and his penis will leak some precum. This I think is due to the sensual and potentially erotic nature of being so exposed. When I glide my hands up in an ever widening pattern, reaching further inside my client's inner thigh from outside, on both sides, he often arches his back, and I have to lay a hand on his sacrum and ask if he is uncomfortable and wants me to stop, or if he would like me to continue. Of course I follow his request, which is 99.9 percent of the time to continue. Then I remind him that he's in a safe place, and that he should relax his back and just enjoy the sensations, letting me move his legs and body. He settles down and relaxes. I ask him to breathe in deeply through his nose and exhale slowly out his mouth and relax as I continue.
I can see his taint is swollen from his erection, and I allow my hands to continue gliding up his leg and around his glutes into his cleft or down his inguinal area. I like to let my fingers slide across his anus. (I find a man's anus to be such a beautiful sight, and I enjoy kissing and licking my sexual partner's anuses, but I don't rim my clients' butts, unless they're also my sexual friends).
When I've worked far enough to the sides of a man's leg, I like to oil up my hand and forearm and reach through the little opening under his bent leg and let him feel me glide between his leg and his scrotum, keeping my open palm in contact with his body as I move deeper and further up his torso, then I slowly retract my arm and reach in from the other side. I like to do this five or six times. Slowly. Sometimes more if he moans in pleasure or if he says he likes the sensation.
When I've thoroughly worked his upper leg in this position, and I've given his anus and taint a few gentle gliding strokes to say hello, I will reposition his leg to be straight, and place his ankle back onto the bolster. Of course he will raise his pelvis for a moment to reposition his erect penis.
Sometimes, a client will push it down so it is erect and pointing to his feet. I will reach in from the side of his hip and ask him to let it point upwards as I move his penis for him into a safer position. (I think that by stretching the tissues at the base of the penis at the abdomen, men are risking losing the firmness that our penises had when we were boys. Remember when you were young, even before you began puberty, your erections would point straight up even when you were standing? Over time the penis loses this ability and begins to point out rather than up when erect. (Any doctors reading this, I would like to know your opinion.) This is just a swag (scientific wild-assed guess) on my part, but I prefer to err on the side of caution to protect my client's health and safety).
So at this point, the client is lying straight and is face down, with a healthy erection under his abdomen, and blood and lymph flowing in his upper leg. He settles down and sometimes will rock his hips and grind his penis into the table, but not too often and not for long. He's relaxed and aroused and freely enjoying the mood. I work his calf ankle and foot. These are not erotically charged areas, but he knows he has another leg that will experience the same things in a few minutes. Sometimes clients fall asleep when I work on their feet. After working on his calf, I will use effleurage strokes, to push his blood and lymph back up the leg towards his heart. I do this with strokes going from his ankles, across his popliteal (back of knee), reducing the pressure above that, and up through his hammies and into his glutes.
Then I start on other leg and repeat the process. By the time he turns over, there is almost always a big pool of precum on the table. (I have a strong fantasy of licking it up, but of course I don't for health and safety reasons. But I do love a man's precum.)
I do love the company of men, and sharing our thoughts, needs, and desires. Don't you?
This has quite a bit of actual massage for these types of videos - then the rest is really good too
https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1629909/mr-kent-apollon-and-logan-stevens-massage/
Have you ever walked in for an appointment and seen a table like this? https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1621810/james-cassidy-bryce-jax-and-sam-holister-onlyfans-threesome/
Thanks guys for the video suggestions. I've enjoyed watching them. It's nice to discuss and share such interests with like-minded men. If we were physically near, it'd be wonderful to watch together in person. Share a bate sesh.
