Coolwave35

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6 hours ago, goosh69 said:

Do you know that’s actually him though? People use fake photos all the time. Seems odd he’d tell everyone at Adonis “no” and then post an ad. No?

He didn’t tell everyone at Adonis no.  He said no to escorting and yes to muscle worship. 

Runnnnnnnnnnn.   That was my first hire and those photos were used then 15+ years ago. 

55 minutes ago, 12is12 said:

Please LostUpstate, 

I've failed in my previous attempts to undrstnd what actually goes on in BB meetings. 

Could u please elaborate here or in a PM.

Thx (-:

I imagine oral sex. 

Yikes. You fucked him into retirement. Bravo sir! 

Can you give us a few sentences about what this is?  

2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

We are all human beings but animals too in how our bodies function. Accepting this is important to live a healthy balanced life.

I love the human body and everything that pertains to it. Nothing turns me off

I had similar hang ups as Jesse. Then a provider told me “there’s nothing your body can do that will scare me” and it completely changed my life. Coincidentally, on topic, he’s named in my will. Lol 

My father passed away in May of 21 at 74. His health started declining in February and no one in my family wanted to look after him. We all had conversations about who to pawn him off on, and if anyone felt compelled to call the facility he was in that week. My mom and brothers were unmoved by his condition. He died the way he lived, miserable, alone and unloved. 

My grandma passed away 2 weeks after him. Her health started declining in February around the same time. We organized shifts to be with her, in her own home, 24 hours a day. We had home health aids, my cousin quit his job to be there, I made sure she could stay in her home where she was safe and comfortable as long as possible. A week before her death, we moved her to one of the most beautiful hospice care facilities I’ve ever seen. She was the most amazing woman that ever existed, and everyone in her life lined up to show her she was loved. 
 

I learned that the last few months of your life is quite indicative of how you live your life. I’d like to think that good people aren’t discarded and it’s the assholes who are left to rot. I’m only 40, with not much experience with death so I could be wrong. 
 

Your post was quite moving Charlie. 

I’ve made friends with many providers though most are more like mentorship roles where they want advice on what to do with their fortunes.

Two of my closest friends in life came out of the biz though. 

I had a 6 year very close friendship with a straight provider. He was the best friend I ever had, but a lousy provider. He left the business after a very short time but convenience made us friends and so much more made us close. That lasted until his death. I still spend quite a bit of time with his mom and support the foundation created in his honor. 

The second is Ace Carter. He’s an exceptional kid. I don’t consume any of his OF content or hire him for sex anymore. We’re personal friends that speak daily and meet up as often as we can.  We don’t discuss the business at all because we’ve found it’s the least interesting thing about the other person. 

I have many more stories about providers who wanted to be friends, but they were so clearly looking for perks that it became comical. 

20 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I’m aware a few guys on here have hired me, but I’m not revealing who because I’m nice and discreet.

I’m not. I flew to London last year to meet Jamie and I’m annoyed I only arranged for one session.  His posts are an incredible turn on. He’s every bit the skilled professional we’re led to believe and a man of many talents. I’d kick in for a crowdfunded trip to nyc, or bring him out myself, not share him for a second, but write all about it with pics and videos, though I think that would be the end of me.  Who’s in for a Winter pick me up? 

13 hours ago, Lazarus said:

They would  be better off using your identity to establish credit. 

Hahahahaha. That’s funny. 

I love when guys complain about someone using their photos. I wish I was physically attractive enough for someone to catfish with my pics. What a compliment. 

1 minute ago, BuffaloKyle said:

That's why when guys seem TGTBT I insist on a quick facetime verification! And guys are flattered and agree when I tell them they are too sexy to be real! 

You did NOT just have to explain an acronym, then hit him with another acronym, even less a part of the vernacular, in the next post. Lol. 

48 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I was hoping there was some humor or punchline.  

This is standard fare on Grindr, no?

For me, 'amazing' means they can make me laugh first before they go full-on Penthouse Forum.

I can assure you that the Grindr experience for average looking folks, or folks of a certain age that aren’t best captured in a thumbnail, is very different than your “standard” Grindr fare. This is a once in a lifetime, why me, too good to be true messaging. 

If something funny comes up, I’ll post that too, just for you. 

8 hours ago, BananaBagel said:

@Coolwave35 How does it work? During your 10 songs you had to pay for each song? Did he get fully nude?

Songs are $20 each. I ask them not to dance. I like rubbing their body while they kinda just sit on me. If you do more than 5 songs they tend to let you kiss nipples, make out, peak at the dick and rub it, put hands on underwear. They will usually kiss or suck on my ear and do things to my groin that get me hard. He did some of the above. 

This guy moved away but I saw his profile pop back up and went for it. I’ll try to get some pics he’s so incredibly hot. 

5 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Sexuality is fluid in many people. Doesn't mean EVERYBODY can switch teams. Guys who wiggle their ass and tits for gay men are generally born of a more flexible sexual nature.

I would have disagreed with you HARD until March. I accidentally fucked a transman in his Pussy. It felt good and I stayed hard and erect. The physical feeling was pleasurable but in my head I was fucking a man. 

I was telling a female friend this story over brunch. She has been crushing on me for 20 years since I broke her heart in high school by coming out. She asked if I’d fuck her and I said yes. 

We accidentally dated most of the Summer and had sex three times which I enjoyed. The same passion wasn’t there as when I’m with men, but I liked the whole experience. I’m definitely not Bi, and still gay, but I certainly enjoyed her and get the appeal of the vagina and have a better understanding of the fluidity argument you’ve been pitching for years. 

3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

In my experience EVERY guy who chooses to dance for gay men has a line in the sand that can be found with the right cash donation.

I have had the same experience. I truly believe that if I had wanted to suck Matty’s dick on Saturday night, I could have. JUST during our ten songs, the needle moved noticeably.  The desire on my part to do all that work wasn’t there though, I don’t get off on it. I’ll give some other guy the pleasure of opening up his world view over the next few weeks and get to enjoy how far that line has moved by the November nude party. 
 

As for the rules, those are house rules not dancer rules. Gay or straight, they all honor them. 

2 hours ago, JayinHKNYC said:

What were the 6 tasks and which 4 done and which 2 unmet?

Successful ones on the streets of Manhattan: 

He had to get a stranger to let him try on their jacket. 

He had to convince someone standing on the street that despite his best efforts, he couldn’t get a photo of his bare ass for his Grindr profile. This negotiation was hilarious, and the pic was really hot. 

He had an empty water bottle and had to get someone to take it from him and throw it out without speaking. (I had to give him the strategy so this was a partial win.)

He had to open the car door of an idling car with more than one person inside and apologize that he thought it was his Uber.

Uncompleted.
Bum a pack of cigarettes from a smoker on the sidewalk. 

Be a British gentleman, flirt with a woman walking her dog, then offer to pick up the poop for her with her little doggy bag. 

2 hours ago, hwic04 said:

Re: Matty asking, “you know the rules, right?”, could someone enlighten me? What are the “rules”?

Also, I had misinterpreted coolwave35’s earlier post of planning to meet Matty not as a dancer, but as as an escort. Can anyone confirm  that Matty actually is available for escorting, and has taken him up on it? 

Thanks

He is not escorting at this point in time. He did his first muscle worship sesh but didn’t enjoy it. 
 

the “rules” he explained to me were “don’t pull my dick out and don’t poke my butthole”. 

3 hours ago, Vin_Marco said:

You are absolutely correct. When it works out beautifully you almost have to ask yourself "how in the phuc...." lol 😂 Guys that have never met, total strangers, guys who've heard about one another, who actually cooperate without any egos.... this guy lined  up some heavy hitters in the biz and others who completely fly under the radar. It  was harmonious 🙌🏽

I’m really glad you got that experience. I feel like when it works, even the providers enjoy it! 

I am separated from my family. I have traditionally hated Thanksgiving weekend. I always used to treat a regular provider extra well to take me out Wednesday night, ride mopeds through the empty streets of nyc on Thursday, shop til we drop on Friday, have sexcapades on Saturday, and sweet good byes on Sunday. I always felt providers should be better compensated for holidays.  I don’t desire intimate, or consistent phone or text communication and rarely give a provider my number so they can’t “check in.” I want them to be present when they’re on the clock though. I find myself hiring less and less lately. 

I spent the evening with him tonight. We started with dinner and then I dared him to do a bunch of dumb shit around New York City. He completed four out of six tasks.  He grew on me and is very fun to be around. We finished at fairytale that had Adonis and we did a bunch of lapdances. I made it worth it for him to come from the UK and he gave me a really fun Saturday night.  If you are looking for sex, he’s not your man. 

I guess this is a case of your mileage may vary. I did 10 songs in a row.  He was a delight. It took him a little while to hit his stride, but then he hit it. The dance started with “you know the rules right?”  I told him I know them better than he does. He’s drug-free and tattoo free. He asked me to share his Instagram.

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Thanks

I’m gunna try to convince him to spend some more time in the Big Apple.