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6 hours ago, MattyLIguy said:

Has anyone gone to the new location in Franklin Square?

 

I did. I give it a big eye roll. Wouldn’t repeat. 

13 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

Well, @Anthony...let's just agree then that Adonis nude parties aren't  for you.  There are other places that you might enjoy more. 

And other threads to participate in. 

On 2/28/2022 at 3:26 PM, DaddyCub said:

Had I the funds and he were in my area, I'd love to meet him. He did a photoshoot with Ace Carter and I'd love to see them both together.

I was the photographer on that shoot!!!   The outtakes are almost as good as what they posted. 

Blake is primo!  Echo all the amazing things that have been said about him. 

15 hours ago, Km411 said:

I’m sorry you feel unappreciated; set your boundaries and clients will adjust. I’m guessing those who won’t will be replaced by those who will.

Eventually you run out of clients to replace. 

You’re 100% right. 

His texting to me was pretty incoherent too. 

It never happened.    I don’t even remember why. 

You shouldn’t feel offended, but I get it. 
 

When I first started hiring I had no self esteem. I didn’t see my own worth or value, and it led to a lot of hurt feelings and jealousy with providers. It took a couple of years to work out, so I get why seeing that could bring up some feelings for you. As others have said, you have no claim to his time outside of what you paid for and if he can make a lucrative weekend out of his trip, let the man hustle!  
 

I wouldn’t “mention” that you saw him post his ad in your city. That’s a bad look. 

3 hours ago, BuzzLiteQueer said:

As long as I have been going, both to Fubar and the private parties, it's been $20 per song.  The issue is, as has been previously discussed, what is a song or, more to the point, when has the song ended?

It’s $20. It’s been $20 for at least 15 years. Who cares if a song is 120 seconds or 135 seconds or 190 seconds. It’s $20.00. 

The percentages of the spending were way off which I found oddly distracting. 

You should have cancelled and paid him. I find it INCREDIBLY hard to believe you offered his full fee and he said, “I can make my fee for doing nothing? No way, come get me sick the week before Christmas.” 

Adam bee in New York. 

3 hours ago, jessmapex said:

So, the young and pretty ones have a chance on Grindr and, of course, the bars. The affluent can hire. What is the rest of the population supposed to do? Be the inCels?

A good personality goes a long way. I’ve had sex with tons of guys that I wasn’t particularly attracted to because they had a cute face, or a great sense of humor, or were interesting or I wanted them out of my apartment. 

23 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I am flattered.

But the visits to the Hamptons are during the day and I am back home to have dinner with my family.

I am available sometime for lunch 😉

I’ll take it!  I eat lunch twice a day so I know I can make something work. 

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

This I agree with.

As part of my job, I need to travel outside Manhattan to job sites in Westchester County and Long Island/ the Hamptons. Sometimes, I will check my Grindr to see who's around. By the time I get back to my office, I've got dozens and dozens of messages from having signed on in a new area where it's just small surburban villages, and therefore, a smaller population to pick from.  "New meat" seems to be welcomed, (no matter how close I am to my expiration date) 🤣

Can I take you to dinner next time you’re in the hamptons. I’m gunna keep chipping away at you. 

5 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I rarely have free time to hook up so when I do I prefer to hire rather than have my time wasted anymore on regular hookup sites. My final straw one day was when a guy I chatted with showed up ten years older it looked like than his pics, much heavier, reeking of smoke, and missing teeth.

How was the sex? 

On 12/3/2023 at 4:25 PM, Emir said:

And it was probably shot 2-3 years before that. 

2 hours ago, justa said:

I'd love to be man handled, first timer  . Looking for a long Island guy to show me the ropes 

I’m only a private message away. 

11 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I relied heavily on the mentorship of older gay men when I started experimenting with homosexuality in college. I knew nothing about how to meet people, the social norms, that not all gays were effeminate and that gay men had long term relationships. I am now in my 50s and they are still my friends.

Young people today, think they know everything and that old people are stupid. So they wouldn't accept mentorship.

I was young 10 years ago and valued aged gay wisdom. It’s when they tried to fuck me when I wanted friendship that problems formed. 

4 hours ago, friendofsheila said:

I wonder if anyone has ever gone thr route of adopting someone who can be thier heir and caretaker.

Officially, or through seeking arrangement? 

55 minutes ago, Seamusss said:

Why so?

We weren’t a match. 

7 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

I’ve always wanted to go to this sort of event but would have a requirement… do most of the guys allow kissing (on the lips and body)?

If you are paying more than the minimum this isn’t usually something that’s hard to find. 

13 hours ago, HuskyC said:

Yes, he was there. He had a nice body, smooth, big muscles, handsome, he was naked. He seemed very relatable, I didn't chat with him but he seemed approachable. His cock looked about average. It was flaccid when he walked around and it looked to be more of a grower than a shower. I didn't get to see him dance. He looked very young, probably early 20's

His cock was really big when he got hard. I don’t like him. 

13 hours ago, Seamusss said:

Cool. Did he top or bottom for you?

He bottomed for me. 

I hired him for a private after the nude party last night and it was the best paid sex I’ve ever had in my life. Highly recommend.