Coolwave35

4 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

men trust White men escorts more, and hire them sometimes over Black providers, thinking they are angels. It’s not true. They’ll rob you blind like anybody else. 

I rented a house in the Hollywood Hills and had a party with several escorts. All my money was in my book bag locked in the master bedroom with no safe. I would take guys into the room for private time periodically throughout the weekend but the majority of fun took place in the open areas. 

Through out the weekend I had connected particularly well with one escort. Everyone else was local and left Sunday night. He asked if he could stay til Monday and hitch a ride to the airport as we were both flying out. I said no problem. After everyone had left, he and I opted for one more romp in the master bedroom.  It was amazing and icing on the cake. We finished up at 2am and were both tired. I paid him and said I always rush to the airport and didn’t want to forget in the morning. I pulled out the backpack and paid him. He said how tired he was and that we should sleep. I agreed. As I was lying in his arms, I couldn’t shake the feeling I had fucked up by literally showing him exactly where I kept my unsecured money. I felt vulnerable and like a sitting duck. 

Maybe 15 minutes later, I finally told him that I wasn’t able to sleep with someone else in my bed and I’d love for him to sleep in one of the other bedrooms. He said no problem, and got up to go sleep in another room. Almost the second the bedroom door closed I rushed over to lock it. It made a really loud noise, and I heard him say “wow” in slow motion in the most frustrated, sad, disappointed tone I think I’ve ever heard. I felt bad but because I knew he realized in that moment that I didn’t trust him, and the three days prior were pretty fun and we connected well personally and sexually. 

I woke up a few hours later to an empty house and a note on the kitchen table that said something along the lines of “not every white guy with a neck tattoo is going to rob you and murder you in your sleep.  It was really fun until it wasn’t. I’ll find my own way to the airport.” 

I felt so bad for years and the situation would pop in my head periodically.  I stopped feeling bad when I found out that after beating his girlfriend up, he beat a client and stole a substantial amount of their money in a drug fueled rage.  
 

I’ve learned well and often through my hiring sprees that race is no indicator of whether you’re a dirtbag or not. However I agree with you that for many, it does and I’m sorry. 

45 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

That’s it. And I always send a confirmation message the day before the client’s meeting because people tend to forget or change their mind. 

This is good business in general. I will only use service providers that confirm via text the day before. My doctor, my dentist, my mechanic, my car detailer, my psychiatrist, my house keeper, regular escorts. Etc etc.  I think this is an incredible way to do business, and one of the first questions I ask when choosing new service professionals. If they don’t offer the service I don’t patronize them. 

12 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I hope you didn't burn the trash or bury it in the backyard! 😂 

Waitttt.  Did I tell the story about the time I did that????  

On 9/21/2023 at 3:43 PM, DynamicUno said:

hosts with lengthy chore lists,

 

I rented a place in the Berkshires last Winter. It was beautiful. One of the chores was, upon checkout, you had to take their town dump pass, drive 2.5 miles out of the mountains to the dump, get rid of your sorted garbage, then drive the dump pass back to the house. I told them I’m not doing that, and to spring for residential trash collection. 

10 hours ago, LFABWC said:

Male rape is much more common than thought.  
 

Everybody reacts in a different way.

Yup

18 hours ago, lanyc said:

Ten?? Wow. You should hire him privately....?

I tried. Too many limitations. The dances were fun though. He didn’t sweat all over me or clamp my nipples which was nice. 

Any chance you’ll consider unpinning these threads?  @RadioRob  I think we’ve been doing great without the database and I can’t imagine you need any more work… 

8 hours ago, diehard_002 said:

True.  This guy - Troy - was apparently so in demand that he has a 4 song minimum .. and that is if you are 'lucky' get his attention.   Luckily I found someone else to have a better time with. 

 

I did 10 with him. He was fun. I liked the Russian guy that you had to use google translate with. 

11 hours ago, Luv2play said:

I thought Coolwave was going to see him 3 weeks ago. What happened  to that? 

Oddly enough, he asked for discretion.  I told him I’d try something new. He’s real and was worth the money. That’s the best I got. 

I’m 40 and show my face on Grindr and they target me. I think they message everyone.  As I wrote this I realize I’m not that young lol

It’s all a scam sadly. 

There’s a gay mountain upstate New York full of guys like you. It’s a real sense of community. I’d recommend going to anything. It’s all wonderful and inclusive. I’m a supporter and attendee and I’ve never been disappointed. 
 

41 minutes ago, maninsoma said:

Why even respond to what's obviously a scam message? 

That’s my question 

I tried really hard to see him this weekend. We had a set appointment. Supposedly he has a boyfriend he works with. He sent photos. We negotiated a time and date and price, including the bf. We discussed his lack of review history and he had an answer for everything. He then canceled two hours before because he forgot about a birthday party. I am convinced this is a catfish that gets off on the conversation, and he actually has zero intention of meeting because that just isn’t him  

Can you internet sleuths find the real guy that he’s impersonating on social media somewhere? 

6 minutes ago, Colton said:

Who is his bf? 

I wasn’t available to stay with them this weekend so I don’t really have much more info I’m sorry. I’ll see if I can get some behind the scenes photos and post them tomorrow.  I’ll see what they’re doing and ask to crash it. 

9 minutes ago, Colton said:

He is still on Grindr here in NYC not far from me.

He’s here for the weekend with his bf. He’s going home Monday I think. 

He’s filming OF content in nyc with a good friend of mine. They invited me to stay for the weekend but I declined. Supposedly he’s super nice and really good at what he does. 

22 hours ago, Ali Gator said:

Brad Rowe was being heralded as the next Brad Pitt. I thought he was better looking than Pitt, more talented, and much sexier. His career didn't go too far after this film. Can't recall anything he's done in the past 25 years. 

Allegedly he decided to stop acting. 

This is why I hire. 

On 12/21/2022 at 8:20 AM, KeepItReal said:

Don't be shy...share!! Or do you man the phone 24/7 so an immediate response will be forthcoming??

I’ve gone and had a really good time often. Clothes check is so freaking organized. I’m a fan and I’ll take you if you’re nervous to try it out. 

1 hour ago, dbar123 said:

Unless the OP is a porn star the request seems highly presumptuous 

The OP prefers the term “innovative.” 

I believe there was a gross sense of entitlement and I got the feeling I wasn’t a good enough client to make him happy. 

3 hours ago, FunGuyUS said:

DId you guys ever meet

No. I decided against it after getting to know him. 

I once had an escort tell me if I booked two hours the third one was free. I’ll see if next time he’ll let me tag you in just for that third hour.