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  1. Haha
    Hlparx reacted to MikeBiDude in Unusual requests you make of escorts   
    Please be on time 🤣😂
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    Hlparx got a reaction from InChiTown in Different “services” – different approaches?   
    Talk about full service.  Offers a massage, tonsil examination, and mouth care.  What more could a man ask for?
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    Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in Different “services” – different approaches?   
    Yes that’s the post penetration mouthwash 🙂
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    Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in Different “services” – different approaches?   
    And just as invasive 
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    Hlparx reacted to xyz48B in Just a little turn off .. has any other provider felt?   
    Probably just say “no” to threesomes plus…Save yourself the headache. It’s not something you offer. You don’t have to provide everything; in fact, it’s better to be up front about it for most clients instead of presenting yourself as offering something you’d rather not. I always ask new guys if they’ll enjoy what I’m looking for, and if they seem hesitant I just tell them it isn’t going to work out. I’ve learned it’s bettet to be direct up front that both of us being awkward. 
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    Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in Does the “All American” look appeal to more inquiries?   
    Yes there’s still a race element to how people are treated. Aside from peoples sexual preferences for a certain type of body which includes skin colour, complexion, hairy or smooth etc there’s the layer of prejudice that comes into play against some races unfortunately. It’s evident outside of the sex industry so there’s no reason to assume it doesn’t come into play inside it too. 
    It’s a shame because even if one isn’t making choices on prejudice, but you just like say… Asian guys for sexual partners it’s actually enlightening to go beyond the initial physical attraction and choose guys you’d not necessarily be immediately physically attracted to. So try out non Asian guys.

    What you find is that great sex (and more) can happen with someone who isn’t your normally preferred type. Go beyond the physical and get to know the person under the skin colour, and the attraction can be found. Attraction beyond the superficiality of physical attributes can be stronger and more interesting. I always think the brain is the biggest sex organ.
    It’s a pity that prejudice on racial grounds prevents many people from getting to know people who they’d really have a great time with if only they’d open their mind (and of course ‘pity’ is an understatement in my very English way 🙂). 
     
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    Hlparx got a reaction from BaronArtz in NolanParis   
    I was in Paris in November and last month.  The quotes that I saw or asked ran from 150€ to 250€ per hour, so right around pre-pandemic levels.  I paid 150€ or 200€ when I hired.
    That being said, there were more providers quoting 200€ than 150€, which is a shift from pre-Covid times.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from Luvfurrytops in 411 TYLERONTOP   
    Yes, reviews will stick with a profile even if the name changes.  I saw an escort in November when he using one name and left an ecstatic review.  He changed his name a few weeks ago and the review is still there.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from Shawn Monroe in AITA in this first (and last) exchange?   
    It's not the way i would've approached this, but I think that @Jamie21 is right that the initial message is within the wide bounds of acceptabilty, particularly given app culture.  That said, I don't like app culture.
    When I reach out to a new guy, I usually have something the lines of:  Hi Provider, I'm Interested.  I saw your profile and would like to arrange a meeting.  Are you available [date and time/or timeframe] for [desired amount of time]?  If it's a timeframe, I usually mention whether I can be flexible within a certain time.
    Basically I try to remember that there's someone on the other end and talk to them as though they were standing in front of me.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from + Pensant in AITA in this first (and last) exchange?   
    It's not the way i would've approached this, but I think that @Jamie21 is right that the initial message is within the wide bounds of acceptabilty, particularly given app culture.  That said, I don't like app culture.
    When I reach out to a new guy, I usually have something the lines of:  Hi Provider, I'm Interested.  I saw your profile and would like to arrange a meeting.  Are you available [date and time/or timeframe] for [desired amount of time]?  If it's a timeframe, I usually mention whether I can be flexible within a certain time.
    Basically I try to remember that there's someone on the other end and talk to them as though they were standing in front of me.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from Jarrod_Uncut in AITA in this first (and last) exchange?   
    It's not the way i would've approached this, but I think that @Jamie21 is right that the initial message is within the wide bounds of acceptabilty, particularly given app culture.  That said, I don't like app culture.
    When I reach out to a new guy, I usually have something the lines of:  Hi Provider, I'm Interested.  I saw your profile and would like to arrange a meeting.  Are you available [date and time/or timeframe] for [desired amount of time]?  If it's a timeframe, I usually mention whether I can be flexible within a certain time.
    Basically I try to remember that there's someone on the other end and talk to them as though they were standing in front of me.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from chevrox in AITA in this first (and last) exchange?   
    It's not the way i would've approached this, but I think that @Jamie21 is right that the initial message is within the wide bounds of acceptabilty, particularly given app culture.  That said, I don't like app culture.
    When I reach out to a new guy, I usually have something the lines of:  Hi Provider, I'm Interested.  I saw your profile and would like to arrange a meeting.  Are you available [date and time/or timeframe] for [desired amount of time]?  If it's a timeframe, I usually mention whether I can be flexible within a certain time.
    Basically I try to remember that there's someone on the other end and talk to them as though they were standing in front of me.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from Jamie21 in AITA in this first (and last) exchange?   
    It's not the way i would've approached this, but I think that @Jamie21 is right that the initial message is within the wide bounds of acceptabilty, particularly given app culture.  That said, I don't like app culture.
    When I reach out to a new guy, I usually have something the lines of:  Hi Provider, I'm Interested.  I saw your profile and would like to arrange a meeting.  Are you available [date and time/or timeframe] for [desired amount of time]?  If it's a timeframe, I usually mention whether I can be flexible within a certain time.
    Basically I try to remember that there's someone on the other end and talk to them as though they were standing in front of me.
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    Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in AITA in this first (and last) exchange?   
    Hey just to add…I wouldn’t worry about it. I get all sorts of enquiries, some short and abrupt, some long and detailed. I think clients are all different and part of my role is to understand and accommodate those differences (within reason) and make them feel welcome and comfortable.
    I think people get anxious approaching a sex worker (after all, it’s not something most people do very often is it?) so I understand if they might come across a bit awkward sometimes. It’s no big deal. Once the initial awkwardness or anxiety is overcome I usually find the person to be polite and respectful. If on a rare occasion they’re not then the meeting doesn’t happen. That’s rare, most clients are delightful. 
    Good luck with your hiring.

     
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    Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in At the end of the road.   
    Could be. I’d live the high life if I made enough from sex work but I don’t make enough money from it to bathe in champagne while naked nymphs drop peeled grapes into my mouth. 
    To make this vision a reality for me would my clients please book more sessions and pay larger tips. Thanks. 
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    Hlparx got a reaction from Antoinetteferson in Libermann XXL NYC   
    He was discussed here in a thread a few years back.  It looks like he has the @Hung_Codyseal of approval.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from Greg_blond in NolanParis   
    I reached out to him back in 2018 as I was dipping my toe in to this and just as (I think) he was getting started.  We had a pleasant conversation after he gave me his WhatsApp number, he asked for a picture, which I declined, and we arranged the date.  He blocked me on WhatsApp and RM a few hours later.
    In retrospect, I probably reached out to schedule too far in advance of my trip (I think I arranged it about two weeks in advance) and l think I looked at his profile again after arranging the date.  My guess is he got skittish and assumed that I wasn’t serious.
    He advertises on another platform and I’ve thought about trying again there, but have found other distractions on Parisian escapades.
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    Hlparx got a reaction from BabyBoomer in Libermann XXL NYC   
    He was discussed here in a thread a few years back.  It looks like he has the @Hung_Codyseal of approval.
  19. Haha
    Hlparx reacted to BSR in 411: Eastcoastfitboy - $1000/1Hr (Toronto)   
    Such a high end guy should know the difference between "discrete" and "discreet."
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    Hlparx reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Anyone else Bareback Raw Only.   
    I would proceed with caution: You'd be putting your health in the hands of strangers.
    If you are so discreet that you cannot find a way to get onto PrEP, you shouldn't be having bareback sex in the first place.  There are multiple online ways to get covered, so it's tough for me to believe you can't figure it out.  Here's a good start:
    https://www.pleaseprepme.org/online-providers
     
    Health is wealth dude.  Find a way to protect yourself if you're going to fuck raw.
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    Hlparx reacted to + keroscenefire in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    I think the main caveat should always be to go into it with reasonable expectations. I don't always get 100% of what I want from every session, but I don't let that upset me. These guys are human beings and things do happen.  
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    Hlparx reacted to Alex93108 in Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!   
    The flexibility goes both ways - I have done this to an escort too, largely because I was at dinner and the dinner went over. He's human too. 
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    Hlparx got a reaction from harlow in why do you not put your rate on your profile?   
    Not a provider, but rates aren’t posted by US providers because RM won’t let them.  Not sure where you live, but if it’s in the US, that’s why can’t see rates.
    As for WhatsApp, you can download an app that will let you text a WhatsApp number without putting the number into your address book.  The Android app is called WhatsDirect.  The iOS one is Dialer for WhatsApp.
  24. Confused
    Hlparx reacted to BBHoodsta in 411 on StudHassan?   
    He blocked me on RentMen.

    Im confused. I was courteous in the conversation and he called me "annoying and sketchy" and then blocked me. Conversation:

    Me: Hi Hassan, my name is ----- and I found your ad on RentMen. I see that you're back again in LA and I'm interested in scheduling a session with you. My fantasies are muscle worship and domination(first timer), oral, kissing, cuddling, and watersports. Last time I contacted you, you couldn't host during your visit. I hope it's different this time 🤞. So let me know what your rate is and see what happens from there. Thanks for your time. (12:56 AM)

    Hassan: Morning (7:54 AM)

    Me: Good Morning (8:13 AM)

    Hassan: What's Up (8:17 AM)

    Me: Just got up. Starting my day. Today I have to help my Dad and Sis finish installing some kitchen cabinets. How about you? How is your visit to LA going? (8:19 AM)

    Hassan: It was great I'm leaving at noon (8:20 AM)

    Me: Oh I didnt realize you were leaving today. I shouldn't have waited to contact you. Glad you had a great trip. (8:22 AM)

    Me: You still got time to see another client before you head on out or are you done and waiting for your next adventure in another city (8:24 AM)

    Hassan: What's your Rent men profile? (8:26 AM)

    Me: https://rent.men/------- (8:28 AM)

    Hassan: Ok don't be annoying and sketchy this morning with all those questions (8:33 AM)

    Me: You got it (8:37 AM)

    My recommendation is that you avoid him but if you do talk to him, dont be too familiar or friendly and get straight to the point.  
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    Hlparx reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Why I’m not hiring again.   
    I'm not interested in "yucking your yum", but I see hiring an escort as hiring a person. So they may look a little different. But I've never experienced a guy with clean cut pictures showing up looking like a punk. When I reach out I'm looking for hints at their personality. I often send a photo and ask for a recent one. 
    If people are having these experiences, I would suggest that you ask to FaceTime or some other way of confirming appearance before you confirm the appointment. 
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