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My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

My personal stance is that people shouldn't fool themselves into thinking it's anything more than a good time that's being paid for. A business exchange with some personality. I think problems arise because people have unfulfilled emotional needs, and that kind of thing can turn sad or ugly, quick. I'm sure there are escorts out there that have formed relationships or friendships with some clients, but I also suspect that some of those clients may be fooling themselves into thinking those relationships are more than they actually are.

If you haven't done any masseur training or regularly given massages, I don't imagine you're going to be good at it. And if you can't even determine the costs vs benefits of being a masseur vs an escort it's really not going to be the profession for you. Find a different path for work.

Pretty unprofessional in my opinion.  Poor planning on his part.  On the plus side he cancelled which means you might have avoide a sub par appointment.

I saw him during the pandemic and he's a handsome guy but unfortunately at the time he wasn't as in shape as in the photos and he also had a natural body odor that some may like, but I didn't. 

If you haven't done any masseur training or regularly given massages, I don't imagine you're going to be good at it. And if you can't even determine the costs vs benefits of being a masseur vs an escort it's really not going to be the profession for you. Find a different path for work.

If you haven't done any masseur training or regularly given massages, I don't imagine you're going to be good at it. And if you can't even determine the costs vs benefits of being a masseur vs an escort it's really not going to be the profession for you. Find a different path for work.

RM shows that he has 27 reviews so I assume he's been discussed here, but I couldn't seem to find a topic under his current RM name. Any info would be appreciated
 
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Websites are passé for young people, I am told. 
Social Media is the portal to exchange media, information, opinions, and more - all the enjoyment on offer here is obtainable within their preferred apps and their alts. 

Look at escorts the same way you look at a night out of entertainment, whether that's a movie or a nice meal. There are going to be cheap options and there are going to be expensive options, but you don't get to go to a restaurant and complain to them that they're charging too much for their meals. You know what you can do? Move on and find a different restaurant or form of entertainment. 
A few too many men create stress and drama for themselves over issues they can actually do something about, which is to just move on instead of complain about escorts valuing their time and services at a specific rate.

It doesn't sound like he actually reached out to you, which is what I was expecting based no the title of the thread. If you're feeling extra anxious, just do whatever makes you most comfortable, but I wouldn't really be that bothered. FYI, there are multiple free phone apps that allow you to have a burner phone number on your cell phone. I always use one to reach out to escorts and never use those numbers for anything else, so I'm not at all connected to it. You might want to consider doing that instead of a Google number which does end up getting linked back to other things.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

Sounds like he just wants a sugar daddy and not clients.

Not at all! A lot of the people in attendance were on the younger end actually. Of course there were men in their 40s, 50s and older, but you wouldn't even be out of place being in your 20s.

I got a few lap dances from him at an Adonis event in LA. He knows exactly how hot he his. Last I checked he's 600/hr for the complete experience.

This happens to me too. A client texted me today to schedule a shorter, lower cost session right in the middle of a big block of availability where I could otherwise schedule two longer, higher value sessions. 
I honored the shorter session because he booked first. I give priority to those who book ahead, or whoever books first. I keep my word after I book them. In this case I had to turn down two higher session value clients because the resulting two blocks of time were each too short to fulfill either of the higher fee session requests.
Then….the low value client no shows. No cancellation message, nothing, just ghosts. So now I’m out of the lower value fee AND the two higher value fees. Frustrating. Sometimes this happens, especially with new clients, and I accept that. I don’t let it bother me anymore.
If I had canceled on the low value client to accommodate the two higher value clients, the two higher value clients may have canceled or no-showed as well. You never know with new clients what they are going to do. You can’t win, and there’s no way to game the system. Some clients are real jerks sometimes and there’s no escaping that. I honor my first booked, first priority policy because it’s the only objective, low stress way to handle these matters. It also rewards and encourages clients booking ahead, which I prefer anyway.
This is the reason a lot of providers behave the way they do. I’m not saying it’s right, but our schedules are constantly changing. It feels like we’re reacting to a dozen things out of our control and trying to make the best of all the moving parts each hour of the day as it changes. And we’re trying to make good money and use our time most effectively.
The occasional unusual circumstance outside of my control pops up requiring me to cancel or reschedule on a client, but I never cancel because I got a “better offer”. Unusual circumstances are things like my whole building fire alarm is sounding.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

I've tried to contact Shane a couple of times and he would send a one message response and just stop. Not sure why he's sometimes flaky.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.