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This isn’t an out of town provider. His apartment is walking distance from my home. My point is he was expecting payment AGAIN with < 24 hours from the first session. I’m confident I made the right decision in my response, especially after sleeping on it and reading the responses here. 

Interesting all around perspective. Based on what you've said ( as a client), i think it would really depend but for me generally i encourage gentlemen that it appears we mutually had a great time with to reach out to me whenever they want to. Interesting to hear providers perspective that they find it almost rude to.
I actually feel good that they would feel comfortable to be able to ask whenever they wanted to as long as there'd be no offense taken when told that scheduling or budgeting couldn't work then and we could make a future booking. I especially hate to say (but it's a reality) how my decision could be influenced by what the % discount was or wasn't.
Now with all that said I totally undersand it can get "iffy" as to what was considered genuine good mutual chemistry and what might be considered pushy, unprofessional behavior and/or inappropriately too salesy. So i get and respect the professional's experience and perspectives.
To me I just think of it as that at the end of the day it always comes down to what two consenting adults mutually decide to do and if it can work out or not in whatever the particular situation may or may not be at the time. To me no harm no foul for asking me.

I've had companions reach out to me before. I bet you a bottle of Macallan 15 that if you suggested meeting the next weekend he would say "sorry, but I will be in Miami/Vegas/LA/NYC"  In other words "I need you to help me fund my upcoming travels" Its happened to me quite a bit. Also happens towards the end of the month when he has to make rent. Don't take it personally - it's just the way things work. 🤷‍♂️

Definitely have seen Gary a few times. Always a satisfying experience. 

they are a lot of good guys out there for the same thing for 140/150

Find another masseur. Unacceptable behavior. He completely wasted your time. 

There's another site that as a very active thread about the Vegas Spas, mostly about the other guys going to the spas and potential meet ups, but not much if anything mentioned about getting anything more than therapeutic sessions through the spas. My experience has been Vegas spa massages are greatly overpriced with no extras. I've only shelled out the money when finding a private massage option doesn't pan out and I need to get worked on. 

For the money, quality of massage and extras HE, MT and both naked Cesar is always my go to
 
other recos for tall IMO:
In best massage/least sensual to most sensual/ok massage
 
Ross - great massage, flirty/tease but that's about it
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41369/
 
Enrico -- skilled massage, extras hit/miss YMMV but if when/ it does ; )
https://rentmasseur.com/italiandanishman
 
Victor gets naked, HE, ok massage
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/13252/
 
Trevor -- his body and extras make up for the not as skilled as the other 3 as massage goes
https://rentmasseur.com/TrevorCHI
 

You're right. I dare say I'm looking for what most of us on here for masseurs. Prefer massages that are more than therapeutic, reasonably  priced, the guy doesn't have to be GQ/Mens Fitness material, but should know what they're doing regardless of what direction the massage goes. 

I generally agree about the bareback ones used in porn, however, it seems to border on false advertising when RentMen escorts show them barebacking on their RM videos, and then list "safe only" on their profiles.  Its almost the same as using photos that are not theirs, even if they are similar.  
 Barebacking or not is certainly their choice, but their RM profile is to advertise their services and not intended to be videos on a porn site. 

The other reviews on Nikolas confirm the package, but not the overall quality. See he up-charged a guy to get him off, not sure if that's a dealbreaker or not depending on the circumstances.
Never been to Jeremy, but I've seen several of those pics being used since the early 2000's 🙄 methinks he's not really 39 like his ad says. 
 
Haven't seen Jose before, sounds like a nice experience if he does share it all...

This sounds silly as over the years the guy I had been seeing on and off for a few years progressed to a quality massage with mutual touch, HE and he let me go down on him. But I was VERY caught of guard during one session when I was on my front, hard, and he climbed on top of me and sat on it. I was so caught of guard that I was almost instantly done. LOL

Not much…and this is possibly why: I’m very careful about initiating contact with clients after their session. I assume people want discretion and not to have their provider send an unsolicited message…even if it is to say “thanks for the tip”. Golden rule…never contact clients unless they have contacted you and expect a response. Your guy was probably being discreet for you. 

Most anything with a gift card is going to be a scam. I work for a major corp and they made a whole page warning of that stuff. He could be honest but prob not. Love you 

"I’m a professional Erotic.... Masseur, who specializes in deep tissue massages."  Several cock and ass with cum drops...go figure.

I'm not sure what's confusing, but you've already been given all the advice you really need if you want to pursue becoming a masseur.  Get certified in your state if you want to be a certified masseur.  If you just want to do massage and not become certified, hopefully you'll at least get some basic massage training unless you aren't even intending to massage anyone and just focus on the "happy ending" part because one should know a little bit about doing a massage if one is offering that service.  The advice to hire someone advertising on Rentmasseur in your area is a good one, if you haven't done that already.  Hopefully the person you choose will be willing to give you a bit of information about how they operate after you've had a successful appointment with them.
 

You mean I've been giving blowjobs to my dentist as part of an oral exam for all these years, for nothing?

It depends…..
In NYC….I never hire visitors.
They are almost always overbooked, worn out, and exhausted before you even start. 
In Vegas…I rarely hire locals, they are almost always flakes. 
YMMV

Average uncut semi. Nice tho.

I respectfully disagree with you. Completely. 
You are running a business, and it should be run with the standard business model western society is familiar with. Or get questions/concerns/issues/pushback. Or people who refuse to use your services.  
FYI: I practice what I preach.  I'm a physician in private practice & run my business (clinic) all by myself.  I see patients in my clinic and I love what I do.  But whether I'm running a primary care clinic or an accounting firm or law firm or whatever, the same business principles apply to me. To you too, as well.
It's not uncommon for me to see patients on a Saturday.  I hate putting patient requests for appointments too many weeks in advance.  Patients want (need) to be seen sooner, not later. It's their health.  So I offer on occasion a Saturday here & there to keep appointments a reasonable amount of time from when they request it. Which means I gotta ask my staff to come in on their weekend and work. And PAY THEM OVERTIME.  It's quite costly & frankly, a negotiation with my staff & a logistical complexity.  My patients know nothing about that. Nor should they, they just seek care. 
But my fees for being their physician needs to cover everything that entails the cost of providing the patients medical services: its gotta cover my staff salaries, overtime,  rent, utilities,  malpractice etc & ultimately my paycheck. So escorts asking clients to pay for an Uber just looks bad. 
And guess what? Sometimes I have no-shows just like escorts. Escorts seem to think they are the only ones who experience no-shows. But I get them & it frustrates me a lot.  Sometimes its even on a Saturday, dang it! And sometimes it's a patient I've never seen before who no-shows ON A SATURDAY.  But no-shows are part of the reality of being in business.  And my fees need to take that into account,  meaning I expect a certain (small) percentage of my appointments to end as no-shows (therefore no money for me). 
Therefore, an escort asking clients to pay his rate PLUS an Uber is ridiculous.  An escorts hourly fee should encompass ALL of the expenses (including transportation costs), which should include allowing a percentage of no-shows.  Demanding me to pay for an Uber makes the escort seem unprofessional. When I start sniffing "unprofessional" I refuse to book. 
Unprofessional is also this maybe-I'll-offer-a-better-time-if-they-take-care-of-me mentality.
No matter how much my patient pays me, whether I like the patient or not, whether I'm tired, bored, busy, sick whatever, the ultimate in Professionalism is ALWAYS giving my 100%. Did you know that physicians by law are NOT allowed to accept "gifts"? Sure, we can (gladly!) accept a (small) plate of cookies or something of very marginal value,  but anything of value is a HUGE no-no in the medical profession.  The agreed upon fees that are paid to me are the complete reimbursement for my services. I cant give one patient one standard of care, and another one a different (higher) standard (cuz he bought me opera tickets). The reason why gifts are forbidden in my profession is if allowed, patients might think, "oh, he wont take good care of me today cuz I didnt bring him a nice gift".  A patient gets my 100% cuz he's my patient,  not cuz of a gift. My fee, which incorporates the cost of my overhead & my salary,  is the complete reimbursement for all my services.  It's called Professionalism. 
So yah, no Ubers for me.  Sure, I've been asked a few times. And always declined. And ALWAYS found a guy who doesn't ask for an Uber. 
 

As opposed to all the charitable non-profits giving out free massages with happy endings to the community?

I wish sites like RentMasseur would put caps on the prices based on where they are advertising. Like if they do put down for $200 for an hour in-call, and the average rate in the area otherwise is $120 that they need to provide more amenities etc. be bumped down, or referred to the sister site of rentmen.
Totally agree with the 'Ask Me' has to go. 

I would really love to be a customer in this spa. To have a glimpse of what’s happening next door and just lay back and enjoy. 

A good (but not very good, as you'll se below) therapeutic massage & stretching by a straight guy. Who also happens to be completely clueless about what checking the "sensual" and "erotic" boxes on rentmasseur means to potential clients.
 
No hint of sensuality during the massage, avoidance of the glutes (important to me, a massage cannot be very good if this is an issue), fully dressed all the time. I guess there is willingness to give a very mechanical and sudden HE at the end but what's the point? Sorry, I can get a better therapeutic massage for $50 less.
 
I commented on what I call "the American hang-up" before, the difference between straight American and Russian/Eastern European dudes (who have their own hang-up) is fascinating. But I think I am done with straight masseurs, period.

Yeah, he's had the green pic shirt for at least 10 years. I remember seeing his ad years ago and he was not charging what I'd call 'therapeutic' prices.