SoFlGuy

Incredible weekend last week.   This one is a little different with the 80's disappearing,  replaced by chilly temps and less than advantageous  weather outside.
Normally very active outside,  but spending a few minutes with the beagles and some great gym time.    Will be working too.
How is your weekend looking?

After watching Dahmer, the only precaution I take now is to stop watching Ryan Murphy shows.

The picture of his dick is the exact same picture of a fake that I actually posted about on here a while back named Magicmikemiami. There's no way this guy is real. Please be careful with this one. 

He must mean 13.5cm 😅

For me, it's making scrapbooks of my travels and/or reading.  I love just sitting for hours reading a good novel, or a play (I have close to 800 in my collection), or my New Yorker magazine.  

I’ll give you my opinion on this once you send me a donation (details below). 

Each morning I...
 
Tumble out of bed
And stumble to the kitchen
Pour myself a cup of ambition
And yawn and stretch and try to come to life Jump in the shower
And the blood starts pumpin'
Out on the streets, the traffic starts jumpin'
For folks like me on the job from 9 to 5

A client insisting that the guy cums is like the team manager insisting that the striker in a football (soccer game) scores every game. Sure, he’s there to score goals but you can’t force him to.
In fact I find that the more insistent the client is that I cum the more difficult it becomes. Especially when they say they want you to cum inside there’s something about the pressure to perform which makes it more difficult to perform.
My advice to clients is, by all means ask, but the best way to get what you want is to avoid being prescriptive and demanding. Most providers will very quickly work out what you like and will deliver it. 

So this was from you in my driveway? Thanks a lot! 🤣

A pleasant surprise for sure.   Glad they took the responsibility and made things right.     
In this case,  perhaps they were of a different mindset or didn't know... or maybe it was a rough day,  none of which is an out for the earlier behavior,  but glad to know they gave you the consideration.

You can disagree with the op without being a shithead. 
Calling him 'she' and 'brown-noser' makes you look like the asshole, not him.
I've been around here a lot longer than you and the anti-drug sentiment is popular here for good reason.  It's a fucking dead-end road.
As I always say, you do you, but don't besmirch those with a different viewpoint.
 
 

I concur with much of the discussion.   The client can't control the perceptions of his looks,  but he can his cleanliness.     If he is presentable,  I think professionalism should rule and do what has been requested.     

Though the question is directed at clients, I'll echo the request from clients to not wear antiperspirant. This is probably the most common request I get from clients, so nowadays before an appointment I'll shower so I'm clean, but don't apply antiperspirant or cologne. Some clients request smelling stinky, but most just want clean but not scented.

I met him about a year ago while visiting NYC. Fantastic time - he's very skilled at what he does, wants to please, and sexy AF.  I just wish I lived closer to him.

I met him about a year ago while visiting NYC. Fantastic time - he's very skilled at what he does, wants to please, and sexy AF.  I just wish I lived closer to him.

And, just because it's the first thing that came to mind when reading the headline...
 

One person said the same about me.  I did book just not them.  😉 

Knockout used to advertise in ATL before he moved. I always liked that picture of him sitting in the chair. But he just looked like too much to even try to handle. 

Perhaps true.
But most 20 somethings live in a fantasy world of social media pages.
They seek constant validation and ACTUALLY meeting up with someone doesn't allow them to use the necessary glamor filters to achieve the full effect.

I've met him several times, although it has been at least 3 years since the last visit. I always found Tommy to be a gentleman, nice, sexy, and always up to the job.  He never disappointed, unlike others. 

I've met him several times, although it has been at least 3 years since the last visit. I always found Tommy to be a gentleman, nice, sexy, and always up to the job.  He never disappointed, unlike others. 

A few months ago I had a meeting set up and he was a no show. He had confirmed an hour before we were scheduled to meet. He never responded to texts or phone calls inquiring where he was/what happened. Very frustrating but who knows - maybe I dodged a bullet!

Reading through this thread, I cannot imagine putting a needle into my dick unless I'm at gunpoint.
Fucking is not important enough to me for that.
As for the nasal spray, I was picturing someone spritzing their dick using the actual bottle.
I guess I was wrong on that one.
 
 
 

That’s really messed up. I’m sorry he took advantage of you. It’s commonplace the whole bait-and-switch, then try to extort you in person routine. Many don’t give a massage for the whole time, say 10, 15, 30 mins tops, much less a quality massage. Or even a massage at all!
Thank you for reporting him here. He won’t last long if he’s treating people this way. For every one of you, there are probably a handful of others who give in to the extortion tactics, sadly. Otherwise there wouldn’t be a motive or market for this kind of provider behavior. Eventually it will catch up to him, it always does.
He’s not a masseur. From his RM profile:
“Fitness Model & Content Creator”
Be wary of ads like this. They are MODELS, not masseurs. That’s the service, not massage. You’re paying to be in close proximity to someone pretty and/or an influencer somewhat “famous” (not really). He’s similar to a stripper in that sense, except these guys don’t dance or even create a fun atmosphere. He’s used to being put on a pedestal online for his content creation which he curates no doubt together with other hotties. It’s a narcissistic echo chamber. Nothing wrong with creating content and getting paid for it. But there’s a great deal wrong with marketing yourself as a masseur and offering nothing resembling that service, and extortion for promised but not provided services to boot.
Seems a stretch to say he doesn’t do xyz. His profile has hole flexing videos for crying out loud! Apparently everything is on offer, but probably only for outrageous prices, I’m sure. Any idea what he was charging for typical escort services?
If you’re in San Diego again, come see me. I will give you a high quality massage, be upfront about everything, and follow through on it. No games, no guesswork, no pressured upselling nonsense. FYI I’m moving back there in a few months, in August 2023.

Re #1: ditto
Re #2: no that’s not what it means at all. It means I will pay you for services actually delivered, not those I have no indication of if you are able or willing to provide. And it also means I don’t want to leave a paper trail.
Re: #3: paying you a deposit does not guarantee you are making plans for me, or plans for me in the way that I want and am paying for. I have no confirmation of that until we meet.
Your concerns are legitimate and there may be a happy medium. But your positions are not absolute truths like you keep making them out to be. Or rather, your absolute truths are matched by those on the other side. I can empathize with you, I hope you can with me as well.