Responding to New or Inactive Users

[CheckCar]

For those who’ve been on this site for a while, how do you feel about responding to requests for details about a masseur or escort from a user who is brand new to the site or has very few posts (based on the site-use metrics on their profile)?

I feel hesitant to share details with someone who doesn’t have a digital trail on this site that corroborates regular or semi-regular hiring. I’m trying to figure out if my caution makes sense. Would appreciate hearing thoughtful responses from others. Thanks.

 

 

[+ DynamicUno]

I think you can always give a rough idea about whether or not you had a good experience with the provider, without getting into blow-by-blow details.  "So-and-so showed up on time, looked like his pics, and we had a good time together."  If the person asks for more, I'd just say that I don't care to share more details.  If they persist, then I'd block them.

 

[maninsoma]

2 hours ago, CheckCar said:

For those who’ve been on this site for a while, how do you feel about responding to requests for details about a masseur or escort from a user who is brand new to the site or has very few posts (based on the site-use metrics on their profile)?

I feel hesitant to share details with someone who doesn’t have a digital trail on this site that corroborates regular or semi-regular hiring. I’m trying to figure out if my caution makes sense. Would appreciate hearing thoughtful responses from others. Thanks.

 

 

I share your concerns.  I'd gladly share more information with someone who has a history of posting here but probably wouldn't even respond to a message from someone whose account was just created.  Even so, I find the practice of reaching out for specifics a bit of a waste of time.  What I had to write about a session was either previously posted or submitted as a review.  There's no way I can give meaningful information about an encounter that occurred years ago other than to say whether I enjoyed the encounter or not which I obviously already did or the person would have no reason to send me a PM about that provider.

[+ azdr0710]

first thing I do when I get a PM from somebody I don't recognize is check when they joined the forum.....if it's been more than a year or so and if they seem to have a variety of posts and topics, I'll be a bit more specific and detailed in a reply........if not, very general answers......of course, "known and trusted" forum members will get all the dirt from me......  

[BuffaloKyle]

13 minutes ago, azdr0710 said:

of course, "known and trusted" forum members will get all the dirt from me......  

So this was from you in my driveway? Thanks a lot! 🤣

[ICTJOCK]

18 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

first thing I do when I get a PM from somebody I don't recognize is check when they joined the forum.....if it's been more than a year or so and if they seem to have a variety of posts and topics, I'll be a bit more specific and detailed in a reply........if not, very general answers......of course, "known and trusted" forum members will get all the dirt from me......  

Hey Mr. S... I like your dirt!    Thanks for including me last month when I was new.    I've been enjoying it!