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I am one of those bottoms too. I never get hard during anal and for me that means I am really enjoying.
But that doesn't mean those who get hard not enjoy. Each bottom is different. 
Few providers have asked me during session with concern, if I am not enjoying because I am not hard but I tell them it is the exact opposite.
I don't think I have ever cummed during anal but I have when my nipples gets sucked. For some reason Nipple play arouses me 😅

I really like Lagoa. It has great selection of men.
of course! 117 and 202 has even better but Lagoa is not too far behind IMO.
the thing with me is that i find 117 and 202 so dirty and old whereas Lagoa is much cleaner than those two and a lot more modern.
just because of that i choose Sao Paulo over Rio for a sexcation. 

Thank you so much for the kind words everyone. That helps a lot.
this is such a tough journey of my life both physically and mentally. I am really hoping to get better soon. It is so sad to see that once an independent person that could walk anywhere now struggles even to go to the restroom. 
 
I am really hoping all of this gets better. 
 
you are guys are right about the gay part. Sex with multiple is risky for both gay or straight people. 
 
i just wanna get done with all of this 😭

Thank you so much for the kind words everyone. That helps a lot.
this is such a tough journey of my life both physically and mentally. I am really hoping to get better soon. It is so sad to see that once an independent person that could walk anywhere now struggles even to go to the restroom. 
 
I am really hoping all of this gets better. 
 
you are guys are right about the gay part. Sex with multiple is risky for both gay or straight people. 
 
i just wanna get done with all of this 😭

A rough break, to be sure. Best wishes for a complete and speedy recovery from disseminated GC infection. That complications, for example, for women may include pelvic inflammatory disease culminating in infertility supports the ideas above that such diseases transcend orientation, gender, etc. Whereas young people are often failed in terms of prevention and surveillance education, it’s unfortunate that you have had to do your part filling in some of the gaps, but it is valuable and appreciated. 

Many pleasures in life come with risks. Sex is one of them.
STDs are not specific to gay people so NO you aren't being punished for being gay.
Your brain is going to question your choices for a while but your misfortune is not so common that you need to abstain forever. You will heal and so will your spirit.
 

Hello everyone,
I am writing this with a lot of sadness and pain.
I am in my late 20s. And i got my first ever STD. Long story short a week ago I woke up with a fever and then the next day all of my joints were hurting. They hurt so bad, it was a pain I have never experienced before. I cried a lot.
I was admitted to ER for a week and recently got discharged. I was diagnosed with Gonococcal Arthritis. The pain is better  now but still there and hurts. I still cannot walk. I have to take IV antibiotics daily for a couple of weeks along with pain medication.
The whole experience has traumatized me. 🥲So many mixed feeling even to the extent that I question if being gay is actually wrong. Maybe i just have to be celibate. 
 
I am not exactly sure what direction I want this thread to go. But I guess I am looking for words of wisdom, inspiration or maybe someone who has been is my situation can chime in. Or anything related. This experience has really shook me. Please tell me it gets better. 🥲

Hello everyone,
I am writing this with a lot of sadness and pain.
I am in my late 20s. And i got my first ever STD. Long story short a week ago I woke up with a fever and then the next day all of my joints were hurting. They hurt so bad, it was a pain I have never experienced before. I cried a lot.
I was admitted to ER for a week and recently got discharged. I was diagnosed with Gonococcal Arthritis. The pain is better  now but still there and hurts. I still cannot walk. I have to take IV antibiotics daily for a couple of weeks along with pain medication.
The whole experience has traumatized me. 🥲So many mixed feeling even to the extent that I question if being gay is actually wrong. Maybe i just have to be celibate. 
 
I am not exactly sure what direction I want this thread to go. But I guess I am looking for words of wisdom, inspiration or maybe someone who has been is my situation can chime in. Or anything related. This experience has really shook me. Please tell me it gets better. 🥲

I almost got scammed on Grindr. Suprisingly it is a popular scam but I had no idea.
A very good looking guy (in the pic) contacted me saying he is arranging an orgy. He asked for my email to send the details and stupid me sent my email. Then he asks you to pay on some cam website and I was like waittt..this seems fishy.
I search on google about this and there are multiple discussions about this on reddit 😅 

I don't even know why he advertises. He is so rude. I wonder if he gets any client.

I really like Lagoa. It has great selection of men.
of course! 117 and 202 has even better but Lagoa is not too far behind IMO.
the thing with me is that i find 117 and 202 so dirty and old whereas Lagoa is much cleaner than those two and a lot more modern.
just because of that i choose Sao Paulo over Rio for a sexcation. 

I really like Lagoa. It has great selection of men.
of course! 117 and 202 has even better but Lagoa is not too far behind IMO.
the thing with me is that i find 117 and 202 so dirty and old whereas Lagoa is much cleaner than those two and a lot more modern.
just because of that i choose Sao Paulo over Rio for a sexcation. 

OMG! Ft. Lauderdale & Key West has been on my list but whenever I go to expedia to check hotels. Goshh!! So expensive! 

@Simon Suraci
Thank you for your detailed post. Though I would never agree on $400 but your post made me see things from providers perspective. I respect that. 
 

As much as I think that complaining about higher rates is pointless, I understand that many clients simply don't have the budget for $400 guys.  So they gotta get creative.
Yes, your total cost is higher abroad, but you're also killing 2 birds with 1 stone: vacation to a great place and plenty of chapero ("escort" in Spain, don't know the word in Brazil) good times.
As @tassojunior points out, rates are much lower in Europe.  Find a cheap flight, cheap eats, opt for non-posh hotel, and hire to your heart's content.  To think, in a great city like Barcelona, you can hire 6 chaperos at Thermas and buy tickets for Parque Guell+Sagrada Familia for the cost of 1 escort stateside!

In my humble opinion $400 is too much. Heck even $300 is too much tbh. $250 should be the cap. I haven't hired in the US for almost 2 years now. I take trips to Barcelona or Brazil  etc. (I understand that the cost is more in total) but I get more bang for my buck.
I am no stingy person. But the reason I do not agree with these prices is because we talking about RM here. I can only speak from my experience, majority are not outclass, excellent providers. We are talking 400/HOUR here. You can only do the deed and leave. There is no "experience" so to speak. 
Now I understand someone who is pornstar material or is one can probably charge that but not just anybody.
I really like someone here mentioned that high cost does not equate with high equality in this industry. This is so true!! 
It is slowly become rare to find a provider that is excellent quality, some want money upfront, cut the time short, do not follow what agreed upon etc. etc.

In my humble opinion $400 is too much. Heck even $300 is too much tbh. $250 should be the cap. I haven't hired in the US for almost 2 years now. I take trips to Barcelona or Brazil  etc. (I understand that the cost is more in total) but I get more bang for my buck.
I am no stingy person. But the reason I do not agree with these prices is because we talking about RM here. I can only speak from my experience, majority are not outclass, excellent providers. We are talking 400/HOUR here. You can only do the deed and leave. There is no "experience" so to speak. 
Now I understand someone who is pornstar material or is one can probably charge that but not just anybody.
I really like someone here mentioned that high cost does not equate with high equality in this industry. This is so true!! 
It is slowly become rare to find a provider that is excellent quality, some want money upfront, cut the time short, do not follow what agreed upon etc. etc.

In my humble opinion $400 is too much. Heck even $300 is too much tbh. $250 should be the cap. I haven't hired in the US for almost 2 years now. I take trips to Barcelona or Brazil  etc. (I understand that the cost is more in total) but I get more bang for my buck.
I am no stingy person. But the reason I do not agree with these prices is because we talking about RM here. I can only speak from my experience, majority are not outclass, excellent providers. We are talking 400/HOUR here. You can only do the deed and leave. There is no "experience" so to speak. 
Now I understand someone who is pornstar material or is one can probably charge that but not just anybody.
I really like someone here mentioned that high cost does not equate with high equality in this industry. This is so true!! 
It is slowly become rare to find a provider that is excellent quality, some want money upfront, cut the time short, do not follow what agreed upon etc. etc.

Or, 100 Swiss francs, which is fairly close in value to the euro (currently, slightly higher in value than the euro).
Although the euro is often used in Switzerland, the official currency in Switzerland is the Swiss franc.

Thank you so much everyone for an amazing and informative input.
I am thinking to do Mexico or Colombia but now I gotta choose the city and the program.
I really love Barcelona and would love to learn their but I dont want to learn Spain's spanish 😂. I prefer Latin American Spanish. Idk if it's because I live in Texas and I am so accustomed to Mexican spanish or it's my love for latin american music since childhood. I am not a complete beginner. I can do small convos in Spanish.

Better is relative...It can be more thorough when used right, but you have to be careful to avoid using too much pressure or getting too much water inside for you to eliminate easily.  They're also less convenient for travel use, though I've seen some guys do it before.  An enema bag with hose is relatively discreet for travelling.  I personally don't like the bulbs.

Just don’t have sex until you are fully healed. 
even if you’re not conducting any oral action, your facial expressions from sex can impact recovery within your face.
 
Just consider this to be a point of temporary celibacy. 
 
Sex will always be there. 
 
Congrats on the surgery!!! 

I’m in absolute agreement with you!!!

Ditto. I’m always impressed when someone takes such bold steps to improve their looks. I had a large Adam’s Apple that had some loose skin around it and got that taken care of. Since I’m a compulsive work-out and cardio kind of guy, the compression mask I had to wear was a bummer but at least I could go on 5 mile walks.

This is a really interesting and good topic.
I will be 30 soon and I am so bad at saving. Self-control is something I need to learn. 
One thing that boggles my mind is that the base pay for now is usually $300/hr in the US for escorts. To me thats crazy. I have been to other countries and none of the escorts havd ever charged $300/hr. On top of that it's like taking a risk what if the session does not turn out ok.
I was celibate for almost 4 months and then decided to go to Barcelona and be a hoe especially at the thermas sauna (men are for hire there). My Barcelona ticket was $600 from Dallas that equals to 2 escort sessions in the US. I got more bang for my buck in Spain. I havent hired anyone in the US since almost a year. But yes this has been all possible because I earn US Dollars, i just wish it a little less expensive (escort wise) in the US too.
I really do need to put a escort fund aside for my retirement, if i cant travel much at that age.