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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from SouthOfTheBorder in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?   
    I think of OF creators like Seattle Dad who were denied entry intomporn but found a wide audience on their own.  Body positivity in porn doesn't have to embrace people who look, well, like me, but there is room for sexiness in multiple shapes and ages. Guys with tummies can be hot, guys with big bellies can be hot, guys over 60 can be really hot, guys without strong muscle definition can be hot, etc. 
    When I think back to the best sex I've ever had,  it has mostly been with average guys who couldn't make 25 cents in porn.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from liubit in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?   
    I think of OF creators like Seattle Dad who were denied entry intomporn but found a wide audience on their own.  Body positivity in porn doesn't have to embrace people who look, well, like me, but there is room for sexiness in multiple shapes and ages. Guys with tummies can be hot, guys with big bellies can be hot, guys over 60 can be really hot, guys without strong muscle definition can be hot, etc. 
    When I think back to the best sex I've ever had,  it has mostly been with average guys who couldn't make 25 cents in porn.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from + robear in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?   
    I think of OF creators like Seattle Dad who were denied entry intomporn but found a wide audience on their own.  Body positivity in porn doesn't have to embrace people who look, well, like me, but there is room for sexiness in multiple shapes and ages. Guys with tummies can be hot, guys with big bellies can be hot, guys over 60 can be really hot, guys without strong muscle definition can be hot, etc. 
    When I think back to the best sex I've ever had,  it has mostly been with average guys who couldn't make 25 cents in porn.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from thomas in Should gay porno embrace body positivity?   
    I think of OF creators like Seattle Dad who were denied entry intomporn but found a wide audience on their own.  Body positivity in porn doesn't have to embrace people who look, well, like me, but there is room for sexiness in multiple shapes and ages. Guys with tummies can be hot, guys with big bellies can be hot, guys over 60 can be really hot, guys without strong muscle definition can be hot, etc. 
    When I think back to the best sex I've ever had,  it has mostly been with average guys who couldn't make 25 cents in porn.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to pubic_assistance in Safety play question   
    Absolutely.
    PreP doesn't protect you from other STI's and too many pros are expected to bareback with random strangers on a daily basis. So I'm not interested in discovering how many of his customers had chlamydia this week.
    I always use condoms and always make sure to bring my own so I know they are good quality
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to Muscleking in Married to a Woman?   
    Is anyone else on here married to a woman? If so does she know about you getting massages or hiring male escorts? 
     
    In my case my wife knows but it’s not something we really go into detail about, before we had kids we used to do some Bi stuff with another couple but has changed since we became parents. We still have a great relationship and I have considered booking appts with her as a couple thing but apart of me doesn’t want to share the time as i feel it’s my time to just let go a bit, but I know she’d enjoy it. Anyone else have invited their partner to attend appts before?
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Anyone into large age gaps?   
    My partner is 18 years older than I. When I started having sex (at 32), I was so closeted,  I wouldn't share pictures with anyone.  So, it was always the older guys who took a chance to meet.  They taught me a lot about sex and I developed an attraction for older guys.  That is not to say that I don't enjoy guys my age and younger, but I really do have a thing for older guys.  I love porn with older guys too--Dallas Steele, Matthew Figata, President Oaks, Lawson James, Ace Banner . . . 
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to MikeBiDude in Anyone into large age gaps?   
    I have a regular good friend of 4+ years, I’m 68 he’s 23. Not a problem. He’s a bit unique (mature) for his age…he’s definitely attracted to older/mature. It does happen!
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from liubit in Anyone into large age gaps?   
    My partner is 18 years older than I. When I started having sex (at 32), I was so closeted,  I wouldn't share pictures with anyone.  So, it was always the older guys who took a chance to meet.  They taught me a lot about sex and I developed an attraction for older guys.  That is not to say that I don't enjoy guys my age and younger, but I really do have a thing for older guys.  I love porn with older guys too--Dallas Steele, Matthew Figata, President Oaks, Lawson James, Ace Banner . . . 
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to Danny-Darko in Jean Butts   
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Advice for an escort friend who had an ER visit!   
    Given that he doesn't technically have insurance,  $4200 is pretty good. I went in with pain that turned out to be a kidney stone about 12 years ago. I was in for 4 hours, had insurance with my own social security number, and that was about what I paid.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from spidir in Advice for an escort friend who had an ER visit!   
    Given that he doesn't technically have insurance,  $4200 is pretty good. I went in with pain that turned out to be a kidney stone about 12 years ago. I was in for 4 hours, had insurance with my own social security number, and that was about what I paid.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to Whippoorwill in Posing for nude photoshoots   
    In the mid-'80s, I was an aficionado of one of the jack off clubs that were popular in San Francisco at the time, intended to provide safe sex opportunities in the early days of AIDs. In 1984, Drummer magazine did a 7-page photo spread on the club, entitled "The Joys of Self-Abuse." I thoroughly enjoyed showing off my well-lubed meat for the cameras. However, unlike Lycrathong I have never been in great shape, so this was a once-off. If my bod had been better, it would have been a different story. 
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in ‘The Heart of Rock and Roll’: Huey Lewis’ B'way show is hilarious fun   
    There's a place for that as well.  This is something new and different.  
    As for Forbidden Broadway, it's coming back, this time to Broadway.  Expect a revolving door of theater stars guesting in the show on a nightly basis.
    https://forbiddenbroadwayonbroadway.com/
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to Whippoorwill in True travel sex stories. Any you're willing to share?   
    I have traveled a lot, and sex has always been an important part of my life. So many stories I could tell. Here's an extra special one. One evening, in my early 40s, I was in St Peter's Square, Vatican City, and there was a cute (turned out to be French) 18ish boy hanging around. We chatted, and quickly picked each other up. He was staying in a cheap hotel, and we went back to his. We hopped in bed and immediately were going at it. Soon there was pounding on the door and the Italian grandmother hotel-keeper screaming at the top of her lungs. She had seen us come in, and was irate that there were two people in the single room. She threw us out. He grabbed his backpack and we headed to my place. Through some unusual circumstances I was staying in a convent catering to pilgrims, right on the edge of the Vatican. Through a priest friend of mine who was stationed at the Vatican, I wrangled a front door key out of the nuns who ran the place, so we were able to sneak in late at night. We soon were in my single bed, fucking like bunnies. He stayed three nights with me, fucking our eyeballs out, until he had to return to Nice. Each morning we would leave with the morning crowd of pilgrims, and never got caught, and snuck back in nights when they were all in bed. I can still see him, laying naked on the bed in the morning sun, cock at full mast, in front of a window with St Peter's just beyond.
    He later came to study in the US, and for a couple of years we would call each other occasionally. Ah sweet youth. 
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to m4same in True travel sex stories. Any you're willing to share?   
    When I visited India in 2019, I went to a deluxe hotel in New Delhi. My first night there, I used Scruff and met a guy around my age (50s.) He asked if I would be willing to have a 3-way including his friend.  I agreed.  I knew nothing about this new guy, but I was willing to take a chance.  About 15 minutes before we were supposed to meet, I received a message from my contact saying that traffic was too slow and the he was heading back home.  So now I was set to meet a total stranger.  It actually worked out well.  He was friendly and attractive looking, and though it was awkward at first, we had a good time. Who would have guessed? Sometimes being flexible and taking a small risk pays off.
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in ‘The Heart of Rock and Roll’: Huey Lewis’ B'way show is hilarious fun   
    It was the very best of what a jukebox musical does.  
    And the '80s pastiche of it all was great.
    I liked that they didn't 'broadway' up the music too much.  They kept Huey's songs pretty straight forward and the vocal arrangements didn't come across as jazzhands and cheese. 
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from RyanDean in ‘The Heart of Rock and Roll’: Huey Lewis’ B'way show is hilarious fun   
    I am not a fan of jukebox musicals, but I am a big fan of Corey Cott's. If I was in NYC while he was in it,  I would see if. 
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to scholarathlete58 in Doctors office??   
    Once I had an electrocardiogram.  Nurse was a guy.  I lay back on the table, shirtless, pants unbuttoned.  He put those sticky pads and wires on your chest, groin, ankles, etc.
    I got a boner.  Nurse leaned up against the side of the table.  Crotch level.  My hand is there, too.  His cock gets hard.  Pretty soon it's in my hand.
    I'm an athlete, so my heart rate is low.  Before the cock action, my rpm was 45.  After, it went up to 85.  
    Fun times in the doctor's office.
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to samhexum in What's your Sexual Position?   
    My position is that I am definitely for it.
    Do you really think there are gonna be people here that are against it?
     
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to Danny-Darko in Jean Butts   
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from thomas in Men's Meat Up or Grope Room - Van Nuys, CA   
    I attended a couple Thursdays before the pandemic and a Sunday within the last year. What you wear doesn't matter as there is a clothes check at the entrance.  You pay your fee, then go through a door, where you can undress. Some guys wear clothes,  most are naked. They give you a plastic bag, and you put your stuff in that. They store it behind a counter for you. 
    I always brought the cash I needed and hid my wallet in my trunk 
    Most of the action takes place in a pitch black room. There is another room with a bed, a sling, and abench or something that also gets action and is more watcher friendly.  They're is another room with benches and an open space with a bed, neither of which got used often when I last attended.   There is also a sitting area with porn where people undress. There is a hallway with booths and glory holes too. Lube and tissues are around.  
    I went just to watch and touch. Most people do other things with multiple people,  it seems.  Lots of older guys. On some Thursday nights there would be a mix of guys. I realized it's not really my scene because I am too health cautious and it's hard to watch where most of the action takes place.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot got a reaction from Maxx00 in Men's Meat Up or Grope Room - Van Nuys, CA   
    I attended a couple Thursdays before the pandemic and a Sunday within the last year. What you wear doesn't matter as there is a clothes check at the entrance.  You pay your fee, then go through a door, where you can undress. Some guys wear clothes,  most are naked. They give you a plastic bag, and you put your stuff in that. They store it behind a counter for you. 
    I always brought the cash I needed and hid my wallet in my trunk 
    Most of the action takes place in a pitch black room. There is another room with a bed, a sling, and abench or something that also gets action and is more watcher friendly.  They're is another room with benches and an open space with a bed, neither of which got used often when I last attended.   There is also a sitting area with porn where people undress. There is a hallway with booths and glory holes too. Lube and tissues are around.  
    I went just to watch and touch. Most people do other things with multiple people,  it seems.  Lots of older guys. On some Thursday nights there would be a mix of guys. I realized it's not really my scene because I am too health cautious and it's hard to watch where most of the action takes place.  
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to + WilliamM in Patti Lupone talks about the "dumbing down" of Broadway, and more   
    I  saw Ethel Merman in Gypsy twice. On ce on Broadway and once on the road 🛣️ in Boston 
     
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    MaybeMaybeNot reacted to Massageguy99 in Unwritten "roommate" rule?   
    This reminds me of a time in my younger days where I hooked up with someone. 
    He lived with family but said no problem he was alone for a while etc. got the feeling he was discrete,.not closeted but on the dl. 
    Anyway we are hooking up in his room and all was good. I heard a noise like a car door. He runs to check and says oh everything is fine no big. 
    When we get done he stays in his room and I walk to my car. Parked right next to my car was what I assume to be a family member possibly older brother sitting in his car. 
    Dude gave me a look of total disgust and if looks could kill I would be dead. I felt absolutely so uncomfortable. 
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