HornyRetiree

Well, after promising to give more details about my, hmm, "guy friend," I apologize for not doing so, but I will. In the meantime, an update on quarantine in my house. All the boys were home after spring break, and while I was happy to be all together again, I know Older Brother and Navy Twin were pining for their girlfriends. OB's gf got the word that GW will be online only for the fall semester at least, and after telling us that, he went to his room and stayed there for a long time. I think he's miserable missing her. DePaul Twin has no gf now but was playing the field in Chicago a bit, and I know he misses that. Despite my growing connection to my buddy, it's still been online for various reasons. So we've been a household of four very horny men for several months. I know I've been having Skype sex, and I don't think I'm alone. I imagine the amount of masturbation in the house has been prodigious.
 
With just us at home, there's been a regression to some old behaviors. I think weeks went by with no one wearing a shirt except when we all ate at the table-- I mandated that when they were still little boys. When they were teenagers we all referred to their end of the upstairs hall as "The Zoo, " and despite Navy Twin's fastidiousness, that name kind of applies again. Less horseplay than back then but still not very civilized. Everyone but Navy Twin got pretty shaggy, including me, but eventually DePaul Twin came downstairs having buzzed his head and shaven, so the twins again look exactly alike. The twins cook a lot, Older Brother gardens a lot, and I enjoy it all.
 
In terms of their attitudes toward me and this guy, they each have their own, as I've mentioned before. Older Brother is happy for me, but in his view it's none of his business, I should do what feels right. As mentioned above Navy Twin wants this settled, commit to him or move on. DePaul Twin, always the most sensitive, is the most curious about what it felt like to be in denial for so long, when did I first admit it to myself, how did I know, and without coming out and asking, I sense he's curious about when I started actually having sex with men. I told him that as a teen and young man I simply refused to acknowledge any attraction to males, and that led to my promiscuity with women, of which I'm not proud. I said my only real regret is that there were other boys, teammates or classmates, who made me uncomfortable or nervous, and so I avoided them as much as I could. Now, I look back and realize we could have been friends but I blocked that possibility. We were sitting on the den couch, and he paused and said, "I'm sorry." I said it was okay, and he took my hand and said, "No, it's not." And we didn't say anything for a while, just sat and held hands.
 
We are down one. Two weeks ago we drove Navy Twin to Quantico, VA, where after quarantine he has begun a training program called Leatherneck, where he'll train with the Marines to see if he wants to be one, and the Marines will see if they want him to be one. DePaul Twin has elected to do distance learning for the fall so he'll be here. His Irish roommate is stuck in Ireland so wouldn't have been back anyway. I suppose some of what drives DT's curiosity is his roommate's admission of bisexuality. At all events, we carry on.

Nothing wrong with saying "I'm not into you" in a polite way.
 
We all have been turned down and we have turned down others in our lifetimes.

"Thanks, not a match."
 
If they want to get offended that you've somehow invalidated their gender identity, that's on them. There are myriad other qualities that could explain your lack of interest, which you smartly didn't elaborate.
 
Kevin Slater

In society, it's becoming increasingly more difficult to turn people down in a way that doesn't seemingly shatter their entire existence.
 
Bottom line, a 'thanks, but not my type' or 'not interested, thanks' should work.
 
If someone pushes past that and tries to make it an issue (as many now do), block them (if on an app) or just walk away. You do yourself no favors being wrangled into someone projecting their own insecurities in a feeble attempt to feel stronger or make a statement.

I'm curious as to why?

There should be a LOVE button! You are indeed a VERY special man!

Mine has 96 percent sensitivity and 99 percent specificity. It was a blood draw so much more accurate than the pinprick tests that some have been giving. They explained the 96 percent sensitivity (which could potentially give false negatives) as happening sometimes when people either don't develop a strong immune response or take the test too early after recovering from COVID. They are finding that you really should wait at least 2 or even 3 weeks after recovery for the body to develop enough antibodies to be detected by the test. However, the test itself actually has three categories: Not-detected, borderline and detected. They explained that many people who take the test too early (or develop a weak antibody response) come back as borderline. Basically, they have some antibodies but not enough to definitely say they had the disease and they recommend retaking the test in a couple more weeks. I got just straight-up detected, so it is very likely that I had COVID and developed significant, detectable antibodies to the disease. There is also a very small chance (less than 1 percent) that the test is detecting antibodies of another type of coronavirus. In my case, that is probably especially unlikely since the actual illness that I had was much more severe than the minor cold that you can sometimes get from other types of coronaviruses. My primary care physician believes that with the test results and my severe and long-lasting symptoms (high fever, cough and shortness of breath for two weeks), that it is almost certain that I had COVID-19.

There is a commercial 4 lane highway (2 lanes in each direction) near my home. I was running out to buy some dog food and as I was waiting for the light to let me cross and head northbound, two truck passed, each with a person in the back holding a Trump 2020 flag. As I entered, I noticed the flag from the lead truck fly out and the flag pole break through the windshield of the one behind it , causing the the second flag to go flying past my car. Once I realized I was safe, I just passed them and could not control my laughter, Is it wrong to laugh at the misfortune of others, even others who are completely reckless in their support of something or someone with who you disagree? Well perhaps not wreck less.
No one was injured as far as I could tell. Please try to keep to topic and keep this in the lounge.

An ad it's an investment. A regular saw you but I'm sure others did and they might call you later once they feel it's safe to get together with you within 6 feet. It's always worth having your ad on for advertisement, RM is 80 per month.
Bills and holidays happen to all of us clients and escorts, is up to us saving money and live within our means.
 
 
Have you thought about having an onlyfans page? It's a way for folks to pay to watch your pictures and videos while promoting yourself.

Do you really ask your clients (who respond to your ad) to pay money upfront?
 
If you read this forum often, you will see that the pay-in-advance policy is a "no-no" and that most clients rebel at such requirements. Most clients cancel.

No, that's too much...

Not ever personally arrested either but -
an escort that I used to see regularly when I had a long-ish term work project keeping me in Chicago....
the escort got caught in a sting by the law posing as a client....he got arrested pretty quickly after arrival at a hotel room....
not sure if I believed this part but he said that he was horny & he whacked off in his cell....

@Benjamin_Nichola - JUST discovered your blog and it is a perpetual erection creator! Not just a hard-on! the precum flows and the cum flies!
 
I have saved the link and will eventually get through it all. Wonder if password to locked pictures is hidden w/in.
 
Thanks for your HOT postings!!!

Not sure there was a Part 2 -- They BOTH shot their loads - part 2 would probably be just massage of front where HE already happened. Though when I cum midway, I also like to cum again at the end:)
 
only other video by this poster is this.
 
https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/erotic-massage-man-2-man-33202132

Not to be obtuse, but what does a straight guy do to a she-male that gay men dont do to each other?? ?

"Dementia" manifests itself so variably that one really needs to discuss individuals rather than the condition in very broad terms. I took a caregiver's education course two years ago after my spouse was clinically diagnosed as having Alzheimer's, but those of us in the course were all having such different experiences with those we were caring for that sometimes it felt like we were talking about very different diagnoses. Some of their patients were angry, even violent, at times, and others were very quiet and even seemingly disconnected. Some patients understood, accepted and tried to adapt to their changing states, while others were in denial or simply couldn't understand what was going on. I was warned to prepare for reactions like paranoid delusions or fear of darkness or water, none of which have developed in our case. I expected that by now my spouse would be fairly incapacitated, but in fact he can still drive a car and play Bridge quite effectively. His main problem is increasing loss of memory, both short term and long term, but even that is not very predictable from day to day, so it is hard for me to know whether to expect him to remember who someone is or how to work the microwave today. The one thing I can be sure of is that he won't be able to learn anything new, whether it is how to play a new game or why he needs to wear a face mask. Some patients' personalities undergo major changes, but so far I have been lucky in that his is no different than it was a half century ago. I am also lucky in that I have a model to work with: his mother, who underwent almost exactly the same changes at the same ages; by the end of her life, she didn't understand where she was and often didn't know who we were, yet she was still recognizable to us. I will still be lucky if that is the worst that happens.
 
Because our doctor was proactive when my spouse and I both became concerned about his memory problems, we were referred to a specialist, who was able to obtain a PET scan test that revealed the typical Alzheimer's dementia plaque on his brain, and then tried some of the drugs which have been found to slow its development. Different ones work differently for different people, and after a couple of attempts, he found one that seems to help without causing unacceptable side effects. But they do become less effective after regular use, and we are both starting to see that happen now. I believe that knowledge and professional intervention is worthwhile, rather than ignoring or encouraging the patient or the caregiver to ignore the signs of dementia in a loved one, uncomfortable as confronting it may be.

Not validating anyone's point, just trying to lighten the moods, but I can't stop the goosebumps when my boy hugs me from behind and whispers to my ear "I'm gonna destroy your pussy" OMG! ?? When did sex talk become a 'so serious and politically correct' topic? It's supposed to be FUN, not boring!

I've only encountered one escort who "needed" to do it. And he was. In fact, a very needy man, a badly damaged Iraq war veteran.
 
Every other one has been an impressive man who seemed very much in control of himself

@Benjamin_Nicholas is a blogger and knows the meaning of that word.
 
Pussy is a way to refer to women NOT men and most gay men would never use it as a way to refer to chasing sex.

Well said

I’m among the other 50% I suppose. The non-gay for pay type. I also think you may be focusing on the idea that escorts don’t chase guys who they desire. Just because someone is a professional, doesn’t mean that they don’t have a sex life outside of the biz.
 
Contrary to popular belief, very few are actually “stuck” doing anything in this biz. I’ve said this before regarding working during COVID. Point in case: More stimulus payments went out this week. So I certainly didn’t “need” to see someone, but the next day, I went ahead and did so anyway because I was horny and felt like it.

pussy is a metaphor for chasing sex but many and i would bet 50% of escorts for men are straight. and yes... when one is young and hot they run and "chase" others young and hot, ones they desire. never heard or seen of that before? having a dollar amount attached as the need to roll around with someone as old as their grandpa will def fuck up most.

Maybe it’s also the fact that a lot of guys over 45 simply have good ass.

It appears there are more bottom than tops in the general population, and don't about half if men over 45 have some level of ED? I'd guess their assumption is based on experience.
Older tops, being a rarer commodity, are less likely to need to pay for it in the first place judging from the number of thirsty young bottoms into daddies I see in Grindr...

For me fairly often when I am not busy with appointments. With women I love curvy girls and older women, and with men a thick cut cock. With both I value entertaining certain kinks. It's so annoying to me when people focus so much on looks especially facially. Yeah, a hot face is always nice to look at when cumming, but a steamy encounter and intense orgasm is so much more than staring at someone's face.