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It’s definitely a good sign that you blew more cash than expected  

Ah, damn. I’m most likely going to miss the nude party. Can’t wait for the full report and PCow full house reply. 

A lot of us are tired of these political threads disguised as normal threads.  This thread needs to be deleted.  

Yes, this is a community. 

I'm not meaning to be in any way disrespectful or judgmental, but I'm genuinely curious, do you ever have a good day?

None of these guys seem to be from Spain

None of these guys seem to be from Spain

None of these guys seem to be from Spain

None of these guys seem to be from Spain

Yeah,  I agree with this. They’re already greedy enough without AI in full potential. Some of the residuals actors get from streaming are laughable. 

Yeah,  I agree with this. They’re already greedy enough without AI in full potential. Some of the residuals actors get from streaming are laughable. 

Too much whine and not enough wine it seems  

Too much whine and not enough wine it seems  

Too much whine and not enough wine it seems  

Too much whine and not enough wine it seems  

Yeah, money talk does the same to me 😄

I believe $600/hour deserves its own thread 

Yeah, money talk does the same to me 😄

Yeah, money talk does the same to me 😄

Here’s my tip. 
Money talks. 
If you can afford it, finding a regular is easy. If you don’t yet have the disposable income to taste A LOT of chocolate, I think it is much harder to find a regular. I have several incredible regulars, and we prioritize each other. It took a bit to lock them in and be a priority to them. What did the trick though?  Money. 
This is going to sound arrogant and pompous but it isn’t meant to. I thought everyone hired like me. I budget north of $150k a year for escorts and indulge a few times a week. When a session with a new guy goes south or is subpar, I don’t pay it much attention and just get excited for my the next one. When I click with a regular I wanna go the distance with, I don’t give up.
Only in the past two+ years from reading here, did I come to understand that that isn’t the norm, it’s the exception.  I truly had no idea because who did I have to discuss hiring habits with?  No one. 

I have since come to understand that the vast majority of clients hire a few times a year, budget for sessions and save up for them. They meticulously evaluate profiles and interview providers and gather additional information. Most can only hire when they travel. They carefully evaluate what a fair tip is and balance the quality of the session with the additional reward. Some expect a bit of aftercare. All of these factors affect your ability to find and secure a regular. Honestly, I have no idea how you would do that on a budget so I’m not going to be much help if that’s your situation.
I will share a little bit about how I do it with no regard for what it costs. When I’m into a guy, I go hard on the courting process.
I often meet guys at the Adonis nude party in NYC. If I am liking the vibe, I offer to match whatever they make at the party to go home with me afterwards. Sometimes a guy will make $700. Sometimes $2k. Psychologically, a guy knowing whatever he makes that night will be doubled by going home with me locks them in for the overnight.  Now I get to try them out for an extended session.  If we have a great time together, I’ll text them a week before the next nude party. If they’re coming I’ll ask them if they have a hotel. If not, I’ll offer to let them stay in mine the night before, the night of and the night after. I tell them I’ll get a two bed room and only be there the night of the party so they can use it to recover their travel costs and have a nice place to host. No one has ever declined this offer, and no one has ever not shown their gratitude by climbing in my bed after the nude party.  We all know what we’re doing.
The next month, the guy I am into commits himself to fly in knowing I’ll cover the room with the same offer and instead of me texting them if they’re coming, they text me and ask if I’ll be going. Really it means “are you gunna get my room” but I’m ok playing the game too. We banter a bit and I ask what flight they’re coming in on. Then I upgrade their flight. All of these guys fly the most basic economy ticket they can find. Often they’re tall and muscular and flying cheap sucks. I do this with the expectation that while the guy is in NYC, he will try a little harder to make time for me. They almost ALWAYS give me some bonus time as a thank you. They’ll invite me to dinner before the party or usually breakfast after, again knowing I’ll foot the bill and I’m ok with that. I get a quasi BF experience out of it and now we’re getting to know each other out of a king size bed. 
In between parties I’ll offer Venmo and cash apps for them doing silly things or sending me unsolicited pics and videos. It keeps them engaged throughout the month and the conversation flowing. We are getting to know each other and developing a relationship over text and I am keeping them engaged by sending a couple hundred dollars a week or sending shit from their Amazon wishlist.  Now the planning starts. They are more willing to come to nyc knowing they’ll make money with me. I’m excited to go to the nude parties because I don’t have to worry about kissing a bunch of frogs because I already have a hot guy that I’m into ready to spend the weekend with me. 
From here I offer a weekend trip. Once a guy gets to travel in a bit of luxury, they’re committed. Then the invitations get much easier and it goes to “regular” status. 
I am not sure ANY of this is helpful, but it is how I identify, cultivate and lock in the guys I want to consistently keep appointments with me and be regulars. 

You mean like most cartoon characters in the history of animation ? 

I believe $600/hour deserves its own thread 

I believe $600/hour deserves its own thread 

I believe $600/hour deserves its own thread 

I believe $600/hour deserves its own thread