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Is Reno Gold the new Bryan Hawn?

in most aspects of life, don't forget that..... 
We Reap What We Sow

Thanks for the link @KrisParr It’s always good to witness how Leo maintains his avowed ‘straight’ status 😊

My view @xyz48B is that it would have been better to state in your original post…”I’m not looking for advice or helpful suggestions. I just want to vent”.
 
Then I and others would not have bothered to reply and tried to be of help.
I have one further observation - and I apologize in advance if you find it not helpful - but in this thread (and others where you’ve posted similarly) you are very detailed in describing what you feel you lack in your life and what you want/don’t want. I wonder if you are personally inflexible and too rigid in your thinking? Perhaps if you were more open to possibilities, you might find what you seek.

Depressing topic 

That’s unfortunate. Sure that happens, if I’m made to feel like an ATM I move on. But I’ve had (and continue to have) many that appreciate our time together. A couple seeking.com meets over the years that are obviously not with me for the 💰.

You’re welcome?
Baby, that’s true for every single human being on this planet.
And it’s not even that. None of us appeals to everyone. 
As a bitchy friend once said to me "don’t worry, some guys
are into skinny, anemic, southern, white guys."
Bitchy? Yes. True? Thankfully, also yes. 
Learn to look past the ones who aren’t into you.
They’re meaningless and you’re missing the forest for the trees.
It’s sad if that’s all you got from my post. Oh well, I hope it helps someone else. 

Just have to comment - don’t ignore the suggestion of “killer wardrobe”. A few years ago, I had several “appointments” with a terrific 30-something provider. One evening at my place, he made a comment about his real job working in an upper class men’s store.  One thing led to another, and I took the plunge and updated my wardrobe completely except for one ratty frat-sweatshirt I will never throw out. He really forced me out of my comfort zone - I started getting compliments like never before, and even got hit on a few times unexpectedly which turned out nicely. Yes, it was a serious financial investment, but has paid off handsomely. And yes, it’s time to drop the GQ subscription once you hit 50. 

Whenever I’m at a bar and someone is crying into their beer
that no one likes them, I usually observe several things…….
A) no one wants to be around someone who’s feeling sorry for themselves,
so the behavior is a self fulfilling prophecy. Buck-up butter cup. 
B) the pity party host, is usually fixated on the "perfect 10’s" in the room and 
ignoring the other 99% of the room. Look around with your eyes wide open.
There are usually several interested men sitting right next to you that
you’ve overlooked. 
C) alcohol never helps the situation. 
D) if you really think you’re that much of a shit show that no one wants to 
be around, (you’re not but let’s assume you honestly feel this way) then start
taking inventory and start changing the things about yourself that you can.
None of us is gonna get new genes or win the lottery, but we can all improve
our bodies and start being more responsible with our spending. Baby steps.
E) non-arrogant self confidence is sexy as fuck. Learn to project it. Personally, 
having a killer wardrobe helps me pull this one off. But find whatever gives you
confidence in being you, and use it to your advantage. 
F) escorts are a temporary fix but looking to them to solve this problem is delusional.
They're like crutches. There’s nothing wrong with crutches when you need them, 
but they’re never going to help you fly. 

True. I was out from a young age. And it was perfectly natural: we were both preppies. 

It is a great song @Charlie. I’ve always liked the lyrics by Blane (Martin was the composer). 
 
I’m very fond of the song. I first heard it in full many years ago, when it was sung at a party by a dashing young teacher at Williams College. He finished it by standing in front of me. How could I resist? 😎

True. I was out from a young age. And it was perfectly natural: we were both preppies. 

It is a great song @Charlie. I’ve always liked the lyrics by Blane (Martin was the composer). 
 
I’m very fond of the song. I first heard it in full many years ago, when it was sung at a party by a dashing young teacher at Williams College. He finished it by standing in front of me. How could I resist? 😎

"I just adore him, So I can't ignore him..."

You got me! The guys who got away haha. He always had a thing for him. He is so prolific now. I just saw his videos. Jeez. 
 
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There’s no such thing as a “going rate”. And I must say I’m perplexed @xyz48B by your response to @goosh69’s answer to your earlier question. It’s a process to find a boyfriend and it’s not as simple as hiring a guy for a date. 
 
I was on Seeking some years ago and it worked out well for me. I had a lot of messages and before it became serious, I took the contact with guys offsite using WhatsApp and email.
 
I had numerous dates with a series of attractive young men. Some had inflated ideas of what their company was ‘worth’ but I’d argue that those who are serious (about meeting an older man, and wanting more than a date) were realistic in their demands. I invited a lot of guys to dinner and a few stayed for breakfast. I also took the most promising guys on trips for a long weekend at first, then overseas. 
 
Over time, I must have spent thousands. But I have money to spare, and I had a great time with some handsome young men with nice bodies so I don’t regret my spending. 
 
But if you must have a specific figure @xyz48B I’d say that Seeking and a ‘sugar-baby’ are not for you unless you have a spare $25-50k a year to spend on this process.

Scott Adler--there's a name from the past on this site that I had forgotten. Whatever happened to him?

In fairness, I dont think most non-New Yorkers understand what these street closures mean and how it impacts city residents and workers. The day before the funeral a 15 block section (from 42nd to 56th) is closed for traffic, usually from 11am until 8pm for the wake. The day of the funeral a 20+ block section (from 34th to 56th) is closed for traffic from 6am to 2pm - and make no mistake; when I say traffic it also impacts pedestrians.  That includes public transit, emergency vehicles, sanitation etc.  It is no small thing. 

Again…
Maybe it’s just me…
But I’m not excited about putting anything that’s been inside my ass – whatever it is – in my mouth. I’d be likely likewise concerned if my coital partner wanted to too.

There’s no such thing as a “going rate”. And I must say I’m perplexed @xyz48B by your response to @goosh69’s answer to your earlier question. It’s a process to find a boyfriend and it’s not as simple as hiring a guy for a date. 
 
I was on Seeking some years ago and it worked out well for me. I had a lot of messages and before it became serious, I took the contact with guys offsite using WhatsApp and email.
 
I had numerous dates with a series of attractive young men. Some had inflated ideas of what their company was ‘worth’ but I’d argue that those who are serious (about meeting an older man, and wanting more than a date) were realistic in their demands. I invited a lot of guys to dinner and a few stayed for breakfast. I also took the most promising guys on trips for a long weekend at first, then overseas. 
 
Over time, I must have spent thousands. But I have money to spare, and I had a great time with some handsome young men with nice bodies so I don’t regret my spending. 
 
But if you must have a specific figure @xyz48B I’d say that Seeking and a ‘sugar-baby’ are not for you unless you have a spare $25-50k a year to spend on this process.

There’s no such thing as a “going rate”. And I must say I’m perplexed @xyz48B by your response to @goosh69’s answer to your earlier question. It’s a process to find a boyfriend and it’s not as simple as hiring a guy for a date. 
 
I was on Seeking some years ago and it worked out well for me. I had a lot of messages and before it became serious, I took the contact with guys offsite using WhatsApp and email.
 
I had numerous dates with a series of attractive young men. Some had inflated ideas of what their company was ‘worth’ but I’d argue that those who are serious (about meeting an older man, and wanting more than a date) were realistic in their demands. I invited a lot of guys to dinner and a few stayed for breakfast. I also took the most promising guys on trips for a long weekend at first, then overseas. 
 
Over time, I must have spent thousands. But I have money to spare, and I had a great time with some handsome young men with nice bodies so I don’t regret my spending. 
 
But if you must have a specific figure @xyz48B I’d say that Seeking and a ‘sugar-baby’ are not for you unless you have a spare $25-50k a year to spend on this process.

There’s no such thing as a “going rate”. And I must say I’m perplexed @xyz48B by your response to @goosh69’s answer to your earlier question. It’s a process to find a boyfriend and it’s not as simple as hiring a guy for a date. 
 
I was on Seeking some years ago and it worked out well for me. I had a lot of messages and before it became serious, I took the contact with guys offsite using WhatsApp and email.
 
I had numerous dates with a series of attractive young men. Some had inflated ideas of what their company was ‘worth’ but I’d argue that those who are serious (about meeting an older man, and wanting more than a date) were realistic in their demands. I invited a lot of guys to dinner and a few stayed for breakfast. I also took the most promising guys on trips for a long weekend at first, then overseas. 
 
Over time, I must have spent thousands. But I have money to spare, and I had a great time with some handsome young men with nice bodies so I don’t regret my spending. 
 
But if you must have a specific figure @xyz48B I’d say that Seeking and a ‘sugar-baby’ are not for you unless you have a spare $25-50k a year to spend on this process.

I’m sure the ‘Visit PV tourism office’ would applaud this thread…but the OP is asking about working men - seeking BFE with uncut tops.
 
Surely some posters here can help him?

I’m sure the ‘Visit PV tourism office’ would applaud this thread…but the OP is asking about working men - seeking BFE with uncut tops.
 
Surely some posters here can help him?

Let’s hope it leads to @NYCgymfitNEW having an affectionate and very stiff “good time”.