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@Jarrod_Uncut I can understand your need to vent when your time is wasted and clients prove difficult, but how does this post (and other previous complaints) enhance your business prospects? I’m not being sarcastic but if this line of work is so uncongenial for you, wouldn’t it be better to consider another occupation?

I too was surprised at the reopening. It’s definitely good news for expats and Aussies who have been stranded overseas. The BBC reported that the Federal government had said it was “working towards welcoming tourists back”. Personally I won’t visit until all the States reopen their internal borders as I like to travel around when I visit Australia. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-australia-58757888 I wonder how Aussies will react when/if, even at 80% vaccinated, COVID cases surge. The UK is at 90% vaccinated but the number of cases increases daily - of course, those hospitalised are overwhelmingly the unvaccinated.

After six months! You definitely overthink this @Evan123. Go ahead and meet a guy - you deserve to have some fun!

That sounds a bit fanciful to me @CuriousByNature. Soho (London) was laid out and had some smart houses built around Soho Square by the late 17thC.

I agree with what @nycman and @Charlie wrote. I only invited men to dinner AFTER we’d played together (IME bottoms prefer to eat after being topped) so I can’t comment directly on your plan @sjmuktop except to say it’s much safer and better to pay at the conclusion of your dinner-date (and discreetly have the cash in an envelope). I did once invite a handsome young Italian escort/model to dinner. He and I had 5 dates and a lot of fun over many hours in bed before he stated he wanted to be my boyfriend. So the next time he came over, very smartly dressed, we played and then went to a very good restaurant. The food and wine were good…but he had zero conversation skills. I found it a tiring experience, and not in a good way.

From London to NYC, London to San Francisco, Cape Town to London… Historically I’ve flown various guys with me on vacations overseas. But generally speaking, I like to eat locally 😎

IMO @BonVivant nailed it. FWIW I went to 2 parties about 15 years ago. One was in Palm Springs and the other was in Ibiza. At the time, I was fit and in my 50s but I had a goodlooking younger boyfriend who had a superb physique. He wanted me to go dancing with him, so I agreed. The party in Palm Springs was more of a pool party with group sex happening in hotel rooms. The party in Ibiza was more of a long event with sex happening in public (we saw guys fucking in the bathrooms, and there was coupling near the dance floor). I was generally ignored and there was some comment (along the lines of I must have a big cock and a big wallet to have landed my boyfriend). It didn’t bother me and I had a good time. At both parties, I wore a linen shirt and smart shorts. In Ibiza, I gave my boyfriend the tiniest swimbrief I’d bought for him earlier. It looked as if it’d been spray-painted on him. Especially when he was asked to dance on a dais, he attracted a lot of attention. I didn’t mind in the least as we left soon afterwards, and had tremendous sex when we got home.

Why hide it @alrajee? The male model might have been aroused and happy to use those feet to bring you off ☺️

Wasn’t there something similar 20-30 years ago? IIRC it was essentially frottage, popularly known as the Princeton Rub. The origin of the activity was alleged to be two young men, keeping their ‘tighty whities’ on, while rubbing against each other until orgasm resulted. Of course, they weren’t homosexual or even bisexual! It was just fit, horny young Ivy League men helping each other out 😎 Allegedly some parties were organized so that larger groups of men could be ‘helped out’.

You’ve had excellent advice from various people here @HoseMaster. Stop thinking about this disaster and all the details of how it happened. If you’d been robbed by a stranger, you wouldn’t be thinking about how you might have negotiated better with the robber. This guy simply abused the relationship you had with him. His motto seems to me to be ‘Maximum $ for Minimum Effort’.

Consider @jtmick that on an overnight you may have to make conversation with him and he may not be sparkling company. Certainly the overnight rate is better value. So why not go for that? Just be sure you have enough energy and lust to keep him fully occupied in bed. And if it matters to you, specify in advance that you expect to be fully serviced the next morning too.

I find this thread to be a really interesting exchange of views. My planning ahead is piecemeal. It mainly consists of having a much younger partner and deciding 20 years ago to move into an expensive but very full-service building in a very good location. Within a short walk, we have tennis courts and a swimming pool, grocery stores, gyms, theatres etc. I have good help in that I’ve 2 drivers I use regularly and a physiotherapist I see weekly. My planning was influenced by my parents’ refusal to plan ahead. Both are now dead, having lived until their mid-90s and outlived their friends. I was able to dissuade them (when in their early 80s) from moving into an apartment but rather to go into a swanky assisted living complex. Both were astounded to find on moving in that they were the oldest residents! They enjoyed and used the facilities. After my father’s death, my mother used to go out 2x weekly for lunch and a shopping trip with another widow. Luckily both my parents had ‘good deaths’ after brief illnesses.

I have no experience of Henry @jetlowbut his profile is clear and straightforward, and he looks attractive. So why not take him for a test drive?

One question @jetlow: Why, are you a masochist? One answer: Just don’t. But if you go ahead and buy him an expensive dinner @jetlow and it’s a disaster (because he’s off-the-clock and just not into you), please post all the gory details here afterwards

Congrats @Coolwave35. I feel sure that you “had a hard time”😎 Seeking is for a continuing arrangement, and in the past I did the same as you. Being direct, I simply asked the young men what they wanted and how I could help. When they demanded outrageous gifts, I passed. When their requests were reasonable, I was often over-generous but it meant that my desires were readily met. Being fair meant that no-one felt exploited.

For me, he’s too short, too slight of build and too young. I can’t even imagine what conversation an older client would have with him.

I’ve known this once in my life @davebk I was topping a muscleboy - at his request: on his sofa and taking him from behind “doggy style” - and after pumping his ass for a while, he moaned loudly and asked me to withdraw. I was surprised but did so. I hadn’t climaxed so I asked to finish another way. He said No as I’d “brought him to orgasm”. There was no sign of that, but he said we were done. I chalked it up to experience. He looked good but he was a lousy hire. He was very highly praised on here, so I concluded that guys can have “off days” and other clients may have different desires and be more easily satisfied (as in ‘Your mileage may vary’).

You have good taste @Dchan He's an attractive man tho I’ve not met him. But did you check his profile in detail? He says he’s versatile, but he doesn’t kiss and he won’t swallow loads. When hiring, I could live with some limitations but NO to kissing would rule him out straightaway.

I wonder why they left dont see many I agree with @kaboom35 I have a strong feeling that some 12-15 years ago it was relatively easy to find such guys in LA and, to a lesser extent, SD. By “such guys” I mean handsome young (21-26), fit-bodied guys who are versatile and enthusiastic in bed. I can only speculate as to why that has changed. Maybe the guys have found other, more private ways to make the money they always seem to need. Maybe it’s easier to gain financial support from a small number of men if they are ‘exclusive’ and don’t advertise.

I appreciate ‘a la carte’ pricing in restaurants only. With a paid companion, I take an ‘all-you-can-eat’ approach and I prefer to know in advance the price of the full buffet.

As he lists Jocks, Muscle, Daddy and Bondage on his profile, @burtjohn did you ask just what he does with men?

Baring his chest as he straddles me on the sofa and kisses me deeply…gets me very horny every time

Thrust…repeatedly

Just a cautionary note but last week, Greek police officers were busy enforcing the pandemic regulations. Be aware that Greek police officers often operate in ‘plain clothes’. We were always masked when entering a taverna, so we were untroubled. We did, however, meet 3 people who forgot this rule: they were caught by the police and had to pay an on-the-spot fine of €300 each.

I strongly suspect that title was self-awarded. I know tastes vary, so no disrespect is intended @sydneyboy…but he’d have to pay me.