MscleLovr

I have no experience of Henry @jetlowbut his profile is clear and straightforward, and he looks attractive. So why not take him for a test drive?

One question @jetlow: Why, are you a masochist? One answer: Just don’t. But if you go ahead and buy him an expensive dinner @jetlow and it’s a disaster (because he’s off-the-clock and just not into you), please post all the gory details here afterwards

Congrats @Coolwave35. I feel sure that you “had a hard time”😎 Seeking is for a continuing arrangement, and in the past I did the same as you. Being direct, I simply asked the young men what they wanted and how I could help. When they demanded outrageous gifts, I passed. When their requests were reasonable, I was often over-generous but it meant that my desires were readily met. Being fair meant that no-one felt exploited.

For me, he’s too short, too slight of build and too young. I can’t even imagine what conversation an older client would have with him.

I’ve known this once in my life @davebk I was topping a muscleboy - at his request: on his sofa and taking him from behind “doggy style” - and after pumping his ass for a while, he moaned loudly and asked me to withdraw. I was surprised but did so. I hadn’t climaxed so I asked to finish another way. He said No as I’d “brought him to orgasm”. There was no sign of that, but he said we were done. I chalked it up to experience. He looked good but he was a lousy hire. He was very highly praised on here, so I concluded that guys can have “off days” and other clients may have different desires and be more easily satisfied (as in ‘Your mileage may vary’).

You have good taste @Dchan He's an attractive man tho I’ve not met him. But did you check his profile in detail? He says he’s versatile, but he doesn’t kiss and he won’t swallow loads. When hiring, I could live with some limitations but NO to kissing would rule him out straightaway.

I wonder why they left dont see many I agree with @kaboom35 I have a strong feeling that some 12-15 years ago it was relatively easy to find such guys in LA and, to a lesser extent, SD. By “such guys” I mean handsome young (21-26), fit-bodied guys who are versatile and enthusiastic in bed. I can only speculate as to why that has changed. Maybe the guys have found other, more private ways to make the money they always seem to need. Maybe it’s easier to gain financial support from a small number of men if they are ‘exclusive’ and don’t advertise.

I appreciate ‘a la carte’ pricing in restaurants only. With a paid companion, I take an ‘all-you-can-eat’ approach and I prefer to know in advance the price of the full buffet.

As he lists Jocks, Muscle, Daddy and Bondage on his profile, @burtjohn did you ask just what he does with men?

Baring his chest as he straddles me on the sofa and kisses me deeply…gets me very horny every time

Thrust…repeatedly

Just a cautionary note but last week, Greek police officers were busy enforcing the pandemic regulations. Be aware that Greek police officers often operate in ‘plain clothes’. We were always masked when entering a taverna, so we were untroubled. We did, however, meet 3 people who forgot this rule: they were caught by the police and had to pay an on-the-spot fine of €300 each.

I strongly suspect that title was self-awarded. I know tastes vary, so no disrespect is intended @sydneyboy…but he’d have to pay me.

I find most public apologies, especially for historic transgressions, to be insincere. Just as individuals going into rehab seems to be a part of public redemption, insincerity seems to me to be the hallmark of many statements. I don’t care whether they are film stars seeking treatment for addiction, or greedy lawyers charged with misappropriation of funds, or Meghan Markle complaining of not being accorded the status and public funding she demanded - I find all these individuals tedious.

True @sjmuktop But (as you will know) so that others are not misled: various related activities remain illegal in the UK (eg soliciting, kerb crawling, pimping, trafficking, running a brothel etc)

Some years back, I dated a 24 year old in Manhattan. We went to bed on our first date. He was gainfully employed and extremely physically attractive. And on our third date, he told me he’d hired escorts in the year before we met. When I expressed surprise that he would do that, his response was Why not? If I’m hungry, I order food in. I was horny - I didn’t want to spend hours trying to meet someone - so I hired a guy to do what I wanted.

I certainly dislike seeing a man with painted nails, especially if the nails are long. I find it odd. I much prefer to see a man with carefully tended nails that are clipped short.

Bearing in mind how much an individual interaction with a guy can vary, it bemuses me that when there’s no info on a thread, so often people give it a ‘bump’. Surely it’s simpler just to hire the guy. Either he appeals to you or he doesn’t. I intend no disrespect to other posters here, but like the similar threads on rates, it’s ultimately an unproductive discussion.

Muscle, especially gay muscle, has been a rare commodity in San Francisco for years @Sedtruik. When I lived in SF, I often flew in a hot young man from LA for an overnight date…and if we got on well, later for a weekend. I found that muscleboys in LA, WeHo and San Diego were keen to spend some time in SF.

Why so skeptical @Fcfs? I find it quite charming that @7829V has been able to find his soulmate on Grindr. My only concern is whether the young man will refuse to move out now that he is accustomed to @7829V exercising his ‘droit de seigneur’ on a regular basis.

Some possible good news for would-be travelers to (and from) Australia. I had a email from Qantas on Monday stating that they hope to resume flights mid-December 2021 between Australia and Singapore, Japan, the US, the UK and Canada. Further routes are planned up to mid-April 2022. As is to be expected, Qantas says this will be dependent on Government decisions in the months ahead.

Short answer @PinkyPie: extremely pleasurable. But I’m a lazy, selfish top with a dominant streak. So I enjoy muscleboys who like to please and have a submissive streak. For me, it was about kissing and cuddling one muscleboy while having my cock sucked by the other muscleboy. Then I’d enjoy topping each of them in turn. I always got more pleasure from a 3some than a 4gy or small group. Generally speaking, 3somes are easy to arrange while groups take a lot more time and trouble to organise.

….or if you’re a movie star, like Nicole Kidman 🤨

I can’t help with current recommendations @silvdilfbttm but I’ve done this in the past. I found the easiest way to approach this was to date one muscleboy and then ask him about his friends. Even if he is discreet and doesn’t want his friends to know, he may well have gym-buddies he can ask. If you’re bold, you and he can go out on a date and maybe pick up another guy at a bar. I did this a couple of times. It worked because being an older in-shape man with a hot young muscleboy excited some comment and attention, even in a mixed bar. When asked if we were a couple, I was direct and said Yes but we’re looking for a 3rd guy. You never know who may be interested in a 3some until you ask. My general advice would be twofold: 1. It’s best to have a date with the second muscleboy (just you and him) before you have a 3some. This will ensure you’re compatible. 2. Be very clear about what you like to do and enjoy having done to you. I never met a muscleboy who was a mind-reader.

I had to Google this to remember the 3 people who died. In case others can’t recall: https://edition.cnn.com/2020/07/13/entertainment/glee-cast-deaths/index.html