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I only saw him dance a couple of times. (Baryshnikov was my favourite, “must-see” dancer) I spoke to Nureyev in the sauna, just ’small talk’, but he seemed happy to engage. Strangely both times, he was sitting alone. He had a good body and was well-hung so I didn’t understand why he wasn’t approached more.

I have no opinion on your preference @WilliamM but Nureyev certainly had an impressive cock. I encountered him naked, twice in a sauna (once in London, once in Paris).

You’re right @purplekow that is the easy option. I find it intriguing, however, that so rarely does the older man do that once the relationship turns sour. In this regard, I think especially of the ex-chief of BP, John Browne. Shortly before he was due to retire from BP, news emerged in the media of his escort-boyfriend. The young man had returned to Canada and being short of funds, he was interested in the offer by a major newspaper to pay for his ‘story’. Instead of helping him, Browne took legal action to prevent publication. In the course of this, Browne was found to have lied to the Court. He had to resign in disgrace from various boards, forfeited millions in stock options and bonus pay from BP etc. Yet if he had helped the young man to make a new life in Canada (by renting an apartment for him, giving him an allowance for a year, paying his tuition fees etc), it would have cost him only a few thousand.

Whatever his age, isn’t he severely underweight at 115lbs/52kg?

Again, thinking back to my late teens/early 20s, I was encouraged to enjoy alcohol with food and in the company of others. So for me, alcoholism is not just drinking to excess but also connoted by drinking in secret, drinking alone, drinking instead of eating etc

Fair question @MikeBiDude Over the years, I’ve known several as acquaintances and socially met a couple. A few have confided in me and I’ve witnessed the messy behavior of others. I know it’s an addiction but I just do not want to be involved with them.

I agree with @augustus but I simply avoid spending any time with alcoholics. As to the other behavior cited by the OP, I’m grateful now that the maxim “moderation in all things” was drummed into me by my old-fashioned parents. It was also lucky for me that (with them being quite middle-aged when I was born) their habits became ingrained in me: eating regular meals at the dining table, no eating between meals, a healthy diet of fish, meat, fruit and vegetables with sugary items being limited, and no eating outside the house except in proper restaurants. As the sage writer on food, Michael Pollan advised “eat only food that your grandmother would recognize”.

If I were suffering as you are @Big Sur, I’d visit an excellent chiropractor. S/he may be able to resolve the problem in a few visits, but at least their interventions will lessen your pain.

No info…but you have good taste @Kevin Slate

Strangely @lop23 (using the link provided) on the section “About Me” he says ‘NO’ to Kissing 🤨

I blame that Netflix series on the subject (of which I was previously unaware). The young man was foolish to be in such a hurry - he should have waited until he’d had a trust fund established in his favour. Good to see that “old money” still has clout. Tell me @robberbaron4u has this story been picked up yet by The New York Post?

From his profile: “I have the memorial affect on people. I create memorial moments with anyone that crosses paths with me.“ From the first sentence, I assume he’s stony-faced. From the second sentence, I assume he has a Dick of Death.

I heard that once too. The guy had a great physique and had been the cover model on 2 fitness magazines. He was versatile and he’d sucked me off to completion. We were talking in bed afterwards when he suggested I could invite him for a weekend away. I described what I expect and asked if that was all OK. He replied he hated sex in the mornings; I countered with ‘then let’s play each day before lunch’. He said ‘No, evenings were best’. I actually voiced, politely, what @HoseMaster thought. I appreciate your point of view as I too value the BFE. But it’s why I prefer a short ‘test drive’ before a longer engagement. I’ve slept with a lot of good looking men, some magnificent physical specimens, but I’ve found that some guys cannot make conversation and lack any interest in cultural/intellectual matters. A short date with its emphasis on sex is fine with those men but a longer date would have strained my patience mightily.

Both profiles now suggest he’s in the LA area.

I never hired a guy for an overnight without first having a couple of short dates with him. Before inviting him to stay overnight, I need to know that he and I are sexually compatible and that he can readily meet my physical needs. And @Luv2play is correct: dynamics differ on an overnight date - is conversation easy over dinner, does he snore in his sleep, does he jump out of bed on waking to quickly shower and freshen his breath before we have morning sex? Like @tassojunior I’ve had this experience. I had very successful short dates, 2-3 hours, with a goodlooking blond muscleboy 23 (a greedy bottom and an avid cocksucker) before asking about an overnight. He quoted a very high rate. I asked why. It turned out that he had done only 1 overnight date before….with a 30year old who fucked him 5x with only snatches of sleep. He knew I was top-only, fit and in my 50s so I explained my ideal date - full sex session before eating dinner in a good restaurant, shorter session before bed, sleep for 7hours, and getting oral to completion before breakfast. He immediately lowered his rate to a normal level, and we had a very good time together.

I very much agree as @Pensant’s experiences mirror my own. Physically glorious young men, who were eager and versatile in bed, charged upto $350 an hour back then. I did not haggle as they readily offered lower prices for longer sessions. $1000-1500 for an overnight was generally appreciated. Once I even paid $3000 for a week of fun with a young guy as the two of us really connected.

That does seem like high pricing in the US. I use the generic form of Cialis (tadalafil) and at a pharmacy in the UK, 30 tablets (20mg each) cost $20

I agree with @Gymowner That is a goodlooking man. I’m not particularly into blonds but for a few years I did date a blond mid20s muscleboy-bottom. His physique, looks and submissive nature combined to make me really aroused. In turn, that brought out my dominant streak…Oh, the hours I spent tying him up and putting him to good, hard use

I’m glad that @robberbaron4u is so excited by the “alfa stripper” but then I doubt that he’s hiring him to participate in a spelling bee 😎

I think @Rudynate is correct as long as you ask in a private message. I was a modeliser a few years ago. I always asked politely: male models get paid very little but they get hit on often. So I began with a compliment and stated I was generous and discreet, before asking if they ever met a man for “some fun in private”. IME those not interested at all didn’t bother to reply, but a surprising number did respond. Some had ludicrous notions of how much they wanted but quite a few were very down-to-earth (in terms of what they were prepared to do versus what help they needed).

Why do you want to understand this @jeezifonly ? I’ve always considered it a profoundly odd form of sadomasochistic relationship. I’m not judging your personal desires and if you want this type of relationship, a quick search on Twitter and OnlyFans will show various ‘doms’ who will take your money.

And you could end up in a world of legal problems. @Tygerscent is correct. Please get legal advice on this. At least, study the legal contracts and release forms that are used by the photographer you assist.

I’m glad to see that @Gymowner has a long-standing hard-on for the guy. Who says that romance is dead?

What more do you need to know @Gymowner? If you need to know his cultural interests or his views on climate change, you might send him a private message via Twitter. I guess you might even mention your generous nature and express your desire to meet privately 😎

Some years back, when I lived in SF, it seemed that guys who played bottom were everywhere. As a top with a dominant streak, I was popular.