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I could sympathize with your expressed difficulties @Aces but I don’t feel that is what you need. I think you need to start living your life on your own terms. Regret is a terrible thing, but you are now middle-aged and you need to take action. I suggest you join a gym and take regular exercise: you will become fitter over time, and you will be in better health. This will help improve your self-image. Also, if there is a gay group in your area, you should definitely ask them for advice and help.

Very interesting. I hadn’t heard at all of girls introducing their handsome male friends to Seeking. We should be grateful to these young women. I welcome anything that expands the dating pool of hot young guys for nice older men.

Astounding. I’m always surprised at how people can turn some useful but humdrum medicine into an addictive means to pleasure.

Thanks for your detailed reports @SirBillybob on SP and Rio. Also I was glad to learn about Zurich currently. At least being in Zurich has spared you from the torrential rains in Brazil - I see that at the weekend Paraty had 6 months of rain in 24 hours!

I’m a serial monogamist so I have only had numerous boyfriends in the intervals between partners. I’ve no idea of the actual number. But like @Epigonos I keep photos as a record. I have digital photos of about 140 guys.

I don’t doubt it @bigjoey I’ve been on safari in Africa several times. My Abercrombie underwear performed well and was often admired. I never killed anything on safari. I did shoot copious loads but then I was always accompanied by my trophy-boys.

I believe it @Poincare. I was dating a young man when he became an Abercrombie cover-model. There was a competitive casting in NYC and he won a fat paycheck. And he related in detail to me how he had to show his gratitude the next evening and overnight.

I’m keen to see this on Netflix soon. I wonder how it’ll handle all the rampant homoeroticism of the branding then. Although it was some 20 years ago, it now feels like another era. https://variety.com/2022/film/news/netflix-white-hot-abercrombie-and-fitch-documentary-1235220471/amp/

I’d say the usual ways work. Be polite and succinct in your message. I used to say something along the lines of You must work hard to stay in great shape. I enjoy spending time with a hot guy. I’m very discreet. When you’re next in (name city) I’d like to invite you for drinks etc Most hot guys have been complimented by men before, and understand what’s intended. My experience was that guys who are interested in extra income invariably respond well.

In response to the thread title: No, not at all.

In Germany, there has been for some years a social movement to encourage men to sit down when they urinate.

Yes. I met guys there (but did not have sex there). Also I’ve encountered guys on the street, much to my initial surprise. I’ve heard of that sex-party but not been. I was told it’s your demographic @cotedeazur (guys who are 30-35 and in good shape) but FWIW I was told there was a lot of barebacking.

Yes. I mention it upfront. I can only recall one Aussie muscleboy telling me he didn’t like the taste of cum.

I’ve always stayed in hotels on numerous visits to Latin America. I like having the hotel services and getting extra towels, clean sheets etc whenever I need them (and Yes, the local housekeepers really appreciate getting tips - especially in dollars). I’m not sure why some guys dislike registering their guests at Reception. I’ve never had a problem doing that; if traveling alone, I just book a room for 2. I feel it’s good security too in that Reception checks the guy’s ID (so you know he’s of legal age) and it avoids potential problems of robbery etc. If you’re nervous about taking a guy back to your room, then consider using a sex-hotel (or ‘telo’ in BA) for a first date. Gays and heterosexuals use sex-hotels readily. I can’t comment on SP but there is a useful generalization that Argentines like to talk a lot about sex while Brazilians like to have a lot of sex. (It was first told to me by a young blond Argentine). So in BA be prepared to chat to an attractive guy, invite him for coffee or a drink etc. I found it was easy to meet attractive guys on the street, in dance-clubs but the best place was in the gym (Megatlon being seen as ‘upmarket’ and the branch in Alta Palermo Shopping, a popular mall, was quite cruisy).

So true @jeezifonly I like my guy in tight white briefs. So I can explore his bulge with my tongue - probe, lick and even lightly bite - to get them excited before I strip them. I only have one request that I routinely make: suck me slow and lovingly, suck me dry, take all my load and swallow, now lick my cock clean Some men might consider it unusual, but I’m environmentally aware and I like guys to recycle.

That’s a shame @davebk Talking afterwards while relaxing is fine by me, but I too find a ‘chatty Cathy’ to be a passion-killer. San Diego has always mystified me somewhat. Lots of attractive young men around - I’ve had good dates with several ‘amateurs’ and newbies - but I feel there ought to be more reliable guys working there.

That’s true @DTCG82 in general terms, especially comparing to US rates. If you’re a visitor, it helps to speak Spanish well if you are to negotiate politely. Argentine men are often attractive but those with model good looks and great bodies will ask much higher rates. On my various visits, I dated two muscle gods and a local heart-throb several times - I was asked for and paid US rates, but in return I received full service for 2-3x the time that would usually buy in the US.

In my view, that’s a very generous interpretation @Leyte2019. I’d take it at face value when he stated: I knew of someone very similar a couple of years ago. I was friendly with a hot personal trainer (I was interested in him but hadn’t done anything). I mentioned him casually and a friend of mine confirmed he was ‘gay for pay’ but cautioned that the trainer had said that he found “having sex with old men repulsive”. There are too many guys, not just on OF, who don’t want to work hard but expect others to pay their bills. I’ve no problem with a hot young man trying to monetize his physique, but he better be very friendly and perform well if he wants my money.

I can’t help you @Andy2 but for me, the most appealing manoeuvre by a gymnast is when he tucks his ankles behind his ears.

You have not read, or you have misconstrued, what I wrote @Unicorn. I was NOT discussing the appropriate dosage for pain relief in a medical setting. I simply stated my surprise that such a tiny amount as 2 milligrams of fentanyl is potentially fatal if ingested or inhaled. 2/1000ths of a gram is a tiny amount; 1 gram = 0.0022 of a pound. I quote the DEA website: “Producing illicit fentanyl is not an exact science. Two milligrams of fentanyl can be lethal depending on a person’s body size, tolerance and past usage.” Also, to put that in perspective “Drug trafficking organizations typically distribute fentanyl by the kilogram. One kilogram of fentanyl has the potential to kill 500,000 people.”

I was startled to learn (from the longer article in NY Post that I read) that a tiny amount, just 2 milligrams, of fentanyl can prove fatal if inhaled or ingested.

To my certain knowledge, rates in several countries where sex work is legal (and there’s gay equality) were rather low compared to rates prevailing in the US and Europe. Of course, I have no knowledge of how those rates might have been in the years before sex work was legalized. My feeling, @DrownedBoy in answer to your question, is that if the US were to legalize sex work, rates would fall due to an influx of newbies and part-timers seeking extra income.

No @xyz48B I thought you might answer my (rhetorical) question. I genuinely hoped you might accept some advice to view life and its vicissitudes more joyfully. Your many complaints here about others suggest that you are miserable.

My old-fashioned parents were sticklers for good manners and etiquette. One of the rules they drummed into me was “Not every thought has to be voiced”. Have you ever considered @xyz48B that life would be easier for you, and those around you, if you were not always so sanctimonious?

His stage name was Yves Carradine. He was on a working vacation in London with another guy.