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I see that @asian sensatin left a review on Rabe so maybe he will be able to help you @johnh23 I wonder what Rabe charges for his services…

Fascinating: I didn’t know this. I’m certain @Epigonos is correct on this as I’ve never seen motorcycle cops do it.

Tasers? My God @Unicorn what’s wrong with you? You’re an American and you know that, as a good citizen, you’re supposed to have military-grade weaponry on you at all times. You never know: you could be driving your car when Mexico decides to invade or the British might want to reclaim their colonial possessions.

Gosh @wbtravis I haven’t heard Amsterdam talked about like this in many years. Other European cities now have a strong gay nightlife etc. Gay life in Amsterdam is very well integrated into the mainstream nowadays, tho there are some (mainly gay) bars and saunas. In the centre, Reguliersdwarsstraat is where a lot of the gay nightlife (cafes, bars etc) is to be found. A decent guide is www.travelgay.com

Interesting thread. I’m not surprised that someone seeks an outrageously high fee. Some people mistakenly equate price with quality. What does surprise me constantly is how much money some people will spend frivolously - whether it’s on a companion, a boat or on a party - and how rarely such people have, what I term, serious money.

I agree that @guru68 put it best. But the quote reminded me of how a too-big guy was described in ‘Queer As Folk’: it’s “like fucking a bouncy castle” I’m surprised that he’s so versatile. IME dedicated bottoms don’t make great tops. I did know one versatile guy (a musclebear) who liked to be topped by small guys and would only top much bigger guys. Maybe Chris Reid just likes to be topped by twinks? One of the online commentators summed up his appeal for me: “Nothing hotter than a muscular cock hungry bottom”

Congratulations @talktomeprodigy I do hope that @YOUNG_LA_DOM will use your post as a testimonial in his marketing of his dedication to customer service.

@Lucky I had a similar experience some 30 years ago. Not on a freeway but in traffic stopped by a red light ahead. The biker was angry that I changed lanes even though I’d completed the manoeuvre before he came near. Fortunately I’d already learned to lock all the doors when driving (as he attempted to open my door) and I accelerated away as the lights turned green.

He’s certainly a very handsome man. And quality always costs more. Rather than discuss his limits on a public forum @Huxley, why not ask him privately if you’re serious about meeting him? I often found that discreet individuals (who were reticent about what they’d do in private) became more engaging and interactive once they were comfortable with a man on a date.

To answer the question of @Luv2play: the first one I bought, I had for 12 years, and I’ve owned this second one for 10 years.

I have a Mercedes sports car and fuel it with regular, tho MB recommend premium. There’s been no noticeable difference in performance. By now, any problems would have shown up on the full service I have done every 6 months.

Please report back fully with too much information 😎

I remember him @Becket He was a blond, nice body and a big nose IIRC. I became fond of Scott after seeing him perform in a porn film with the young, dark-haired Hal Rockland. I think the pair were on a road-trip. For me, it was a particular scene that was intensely romantic. Scott was injured. He was in shorts and sneakers, resting on a bed when Hal visited to comfort him. They began kissing sensually, and then Hal began to unlace and take off Scott’s shoes before stripping him of his shorts. Scott’s burgeoning cock showed his appreciation of Hal’s tenderness. Hal then began to fellate Scott, first lovingly and then enthusiastically sucking his erect cock fully.

Please don’t judge me harshly: I think of myself as sociable but fairly vanilla. I enjoy passionate lovemaking (tho I’m only a top and never a bottom) with handsome, muscled young men. I have a dominant streak and nothing makes me more excited than finding a muscleboy has a submissive streak. My lived fantasies include one orgy, several 4gies where I directed the action and participated fully, lots of 3somes where I topped both men and also twice including a handsome voyeur whose ‘price of admission’ was to suck me off afterwards The locations of these experiences were varied. I’ve played equally often at home as in hotels, twice outdoors in the wilderness, several times outdoors at the beach and once even topping a guy (we were both naked at a gay beach with large rocks) while several guys gathered to watch. My unlived fantasy is to rent a large house with a group of 6-8 versatile, fit-bodied young men for a Summer’s week of beach vacation. They’d be free mornings to work out, swim etc but we’d lunch together. Then I’d want to play in a group with all of them before we go to dinner as a group. I’d select 1 or 2 men each evening to play with me before sleeping and again on waking up. Besides the daily routine, I’d have two “rules” which would include (1) a dress-code and (2) a work-ethic. (1) The dress-code would be that, around the house, they’d be bare-chested and in underwear. At mealtimes, they could wear a shirt and shorts but at restaurants in the evening, I’d want them to dress formally but sexily (open dress or linen shirts and tight pants). For the afternoon group-play, they’d all have to wear tight white briefs - occasionally I might stipulate jockstraps or a certain colour for underwear. Anyone not compliant would be disciplined by the group; he’d be stripped and spanked before sucking all the cocks. (2) The work-ethic would include that in the group session, each man had to play with each other affectionately, romantically and sexually. Each man would be required to climax but they could climax ONLY when I was with them to see it, and after seeking my permission as to how (jerking, sucking, fucking) and where (on his face, pecs, abs) they were to orgasm. With my individual overnight sessions, guys would be ready to bottom for me and, after I tired of fucking, suck me off and one would swallow my load. Whoever I didn’t choose before sleeping would suck me off to completion in the morning. I hope this helps @Coolwave35

I agree strongly with @nycman I lived in SF for some years, but now I confine myself to brief visits there. The main reason for visiting is to dine at some favourite restaurants, especially Chez Panisse in Berkeley. When I lived there, some interesting research into crime in SF was published, using statistics for 2005-2010 (IIRC). In most US cities, crime is confined very much to so called “bad areas” (generally poor neighbourhoods) but SF is an outlier. The report showed that violent crime (including robberies and killings by a stranger) occurred as frequently in good areas of SF as in bad areas. I lived in a good area (Pacific Heights) and was never a victim of crime myself. I also walked a great deal in the city, even through the Tenderloin in the daytime. Yet an acquaintance of mine was killed by a stranger outside the main door of his building in Pacific Heights early morning. And 5 years earlier, a friend of mine was stabbed one evening while driving his convertible by Alta Plaza (also in Pacific Heights).

I understand @Wolfer but it’s impossible to rationalise. We all know that you can never be sure of what a guy is fantasising about in his head while he is servicing you (or being serviced by you). Similarly, you will find little logical coherence between what guys say publicly they do and what they’re willing to do privately either with another hot guy (possibly involving drugs) or with a generous paying customer (possibly offering more for specific acts).

I disagree with you profoundly @Luv2play There was a magisterial review of this exhibit in the Financial Times almost 2 weeks ago. I’ve always loved Matisse and his work but I hadn’t realised (before reading the review) how groundbreaking this painting was.

I still ALWAYS use condoms. I don’t bother about what the bottoms say they do. I protect my sexual health.

Why not set up a date with him @lanyc? You only live once…and he looks very attractive and may meet all your desires. Please report back here on how it goes.

I can’t help with info @Dchotasianguy but I congratulate you on your good taste in men. He’s nice looking and has a good body. And he rejoices in the very Australian name of Shane. I’ve always had good luck with Australian men. IME they make for a great time in bed being passionate lovers and uninhibited. My only advice for you is to be direct; state upfront what you enjoy. I’ve heard from various Aussie partners -paid and unpaid - how much they liked me saying exactly what I wanted (“I like deep kissing before I top you, and then I want you to suck me off to completion and swallow my load”) as opposed to other men being vague and messing them around.

Not porn but soft, delightful and romantic is Season 1 of “Heartstopper” on Netflix. It’s so good Netflix just decided to renew Seasons 2 and 3.

You must be calm @Coolwave35 and plan ahead. Order the beverages (and whatever else you may need) ahead of time. And pray the escort isn’t late. I’d hate for your order to be delayed and for your escort to be tardy. I can imagine you, in the heat of expectant lust, ravishing an attractive young Room Service waiter at 7pm…only for the escort to arrive 15mins late and assume he was engaged for a threesome!

I had no idea Henry Cavill was in Florida…

That seems sensible to me @keroscenefire The Spanish media are talking about a cluster of 31 cases in the Madrid region. They say it’s mainly linked to an unnamed sauna.

I completely agree @bigjoey I’m happy with my investments (all long-term holdings) and I see no point in trading them. As we age, I think there may be a further problem for single gay men with a good income. Certainly in the pandemic, I found myself saving far more than usual. Unless you have a dynastic impulse, why try to get richer? I always recall my grandfather’s dictum on investing “You never want to wake up poor”