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Yes I do. Especially when visiting a hospital. And in crowded spaces. There was a recent survey (based on the last week in September) on this topic (UK Office of National Statistics) . It found that about 14% of those aged 16-24 did so. For those aged 70 and over, this rose to 43%.

Vacation bliss does not an ideal live-in companion make. If you’re set on doing this @glutes, advice here won’t matter…but please do a Search as this topic has come up before (and I’ve responded before). My advice is for you to be very clear and explicit about what you expect (including sexual favours), what you will pay for in running the house and what behavior you expect from your new companion.

No experience of him @MikeBiDude but surely a nice-looking boy that can spread his legs wide open deserves $350 an hour? Maybe he expects you to take him to dinner - and why wouldn’t you? Maybe his place is temporary and not so nice? Perhaps he would enjoy staying overnight in a nice place - and he may service you in the morning before you give him breakfast? I’d simply outline what you expect on an overnight, or ask him what he prefers to do. If your desires mesh, including the requisite hours of sleep, you may have a great time together.

Great photos, and it seems that he has a beautiful butt that could take a good pounding. If the guy in the photos is the guy who turns up at your door @Andy2, I think you’re going to have a wonderful time.

After reading the arguments in this thread, I understand completely why nowadays no intelligent and caring person would ever comfort a crying, or slightly hurt, child by putting his/her arm around them. Too often, the mere accusation of abuse is treated as proof. And I strongly reject the idea that multiple accusers make a strong case; to me, that’s the mentality of a lynch-mob. In the UK in recent years, the Police spent a huge amount of money and resources investigating detailed claims of a pedophile sex-ring involving various famous figures. The media were complicit in building the allegations into a frenzy of accusations. The main complainant was termed a “fantasist” by the judge and he is now serving a prison term for his false allegations. Various other people came forward to support the allegations and said they were abused - none of their claims were upheld - and some claimed significant financial compensation from their alleged attackers. One such man (a famous singer, widely thought to be gay) had his home ransacked by the Police and the raid was covered and televised by the BBC. The Police found that on the dates of the sex attacks in the UK alleged by the complainant, the singer was actually overseas performing on tour. The Police had to apologise (and it’s believed, pay compensation with a NDA) to the singer. At first, the BBC denied any wrong-doing but the singer sued at great expense and won in Court. The compensation he was awarded, along with his legal expenses, cost the BBC millions.

I know that impolite version too 😝 Nonetheless it remains “the 6 Ps”.

Remember the Army maxim @jetlow the 6 Ps - Proper Prior Planning Prevents Poor Performance 😎

Beautifully put @wsc. I recall that there was a study done in the UK (in the years 1998-2000) which found that young gay men suffered from body dysmorphia at the same rate as young women with eating disorders. FWIW I had a passionate relationship with a young Brazilian model in Europe for 3 years. We went to Madrid in 2005 to join the celebration of gay marriage equality being introduced. The model had introduced me about 6 months earlier to a muscled friend of his (also Brazilian) who was a popular escort in London. We stayed in a very good Madrid hotel where one morning we saw the escort (and a 2nd escort) accompanying a squat businessman to breakfast. The escort had mushroomed in size. The model told me his friend was unhappy about his earlier shape and, feeling escorting was very competitive, had decided to get bigger and was taking steroids. Alas he bought cheap Chinese oral steroids; he developed throat cancer and he returned home to his family in Brazil where he died a few months later.

Me too. I didn’t know that but the BBC TV News has shown a clip from Gaslight (with her speaking to Ingrid Bergman). It reported that it was AL’s first role at the age of 17 and she earned an Oscar nomination. BBC TV News also reported the great fundraising and support Angela Lansbury gave in the early years of the AIDS epidemic And tonight in London’s West End, all the theatres went dark, turning off all their lights at 7pm for two minutes, in tribute to the passing of AL.

No. Describe the ‘innocent’ behaviors 😎

Yes. Being a top only, I don’t really care about another guy’s penis. I’m relaxed about sucking cock from time to time, but if his penis is deformed or ugly, I find it a turn-off. I dated a beautiful muscleboy for a while. He had a superb physique but his cock was off-putting. When he became aroused, it was hook-shaped (I believe it’s called Peyronie’s curve) And to answer the question at the top of this thread: I find a ripped upper body (especially symmetrical pecs) and a bubble-butt to be major turn-ons.

Pietro Boselli doesn’t go anywhere without his personal photographer. And I thank the Lord that PB doesn’t concern himself with clothes.

IIRC over the years, I’ve played with 4 guys who worked for BelAmi. This Miguel is not one of them, but my suggestions/experience may help. 1. Ask to see clear, current photos. (The pics in his ad are from his BelAmi days which may be 7-10 years ago). He may look very different…and of course, he may look better as he’s older now. 2. Describe yourself accurately and check explicitly what he will do (and not do) with you. On film, he may bottom readily and greedily swallow the loads of other fit young men…but in real life, he may hate the taste of cum and want older men to fellate him. 3. Agree everything in advance - date, time, session duration and rate - and check that he knows in detail where/how to meet you. Confirm in the morning (or at least 4 hours ahead) in case he takes “a better offer”

I hear it often @sydneyboy on the East Coast of the US. I usually take it to mean the experience was neither good nor bad. I always take it to mean it’s NOT recommended.

Did you try this spa in the Zona Rosa? How would you rate the masseurs for skill and attractiveness? Was your masseur eager to please and “restore your balance” as the spa mentions?

I’ll respond. So you didn’t pay him upfront? That’s why he didn’t waste more time talking to you. AFAIK @Unicorn the sale of used underwear can be big business. A muscleboy told me about it years ago. It was surprisingly lucrative for him to sell sweaty briefs and jocks (and twice the price for cum-stained, as your guy suggested). The key was always to post them in sealed ziploc bags; otherwise there was a risk the Postal Service would intervene.

I see you’re very new on this site @athaddict so welcome! You may not have seen - but you should respect - the cautionary note under the title Spas & Masseurs: “Please be careful so as not to compromise their licenses.” It would be better (and more discreet) if you ask if anyone has had a good experience at a particular spa or with certain guys that interest you particularly

Interesting. My partner and I met him one evening in London (pre-pandemic so 2018?). We were both a little shocked that he’s even better-looking in person than on film. He kept his clothes on all evening, but he moves well and looks to have a very nice body.

I find some of the above comments a little harsh. He’s an attractive young man. It may be that he is a novice at escorting. He may only have viewed companionship/sex as a business very recently, and he may be uncertain how to translate the initial contacts into actual clients. Perhaps a nice older man will take the time and trouble to seduce him into bed. Once there, he can be shown what to do and how to please an older male repeatedly 😎

I hope you’ve packed for some rainy weather @Epigonos. The Summer that just ended is officially the joint warmest and driest on record. But this week’s forecast shows there is a cool front moving E from the Atlantic as well as rain moving N from France. Temperatures remain above the seasonal average.

This is very much NOT my experience. I’m a demanding and selfish top so I only hired muscleboys who would readily bottom. I had many passionate times with two men (then aged early 30s) who remain my friends. Each man is strikingly handsome and has a superb muscled physique. Both men were athletic in bed and up for anything. Both have good memories, never needed to be reminded of what I enjoy, and didn’t hesitate to initiate more action on overnight dates. One man is versatile and determined to please me (whether the couple of us or a small group I’d arranged). The other man is a true bottom with a submissive streak. He’s very compliant and eager to please, whether just me or a group. The largest group I’ve seen him service was 12 men - he sucked all the cocks, was spit-roasted and was the bukkake bottom.

I can only endorse the good remarks by others. He’s an attractive man. Not to quibble but if my memory serves me correctly, he didn’t show his face in his advert years ago. Perhaps he’s less shy now…😎

No disrespect is intended @Jarrod_Uncut but I feel that you are wildly underestimating how much time and effort the organisers of the Palm Springs event put in ‘behind the scene’.

Or use a good laundry service 😋

This brings back memories. He was indeed a model @Doe Be Doe. He didn’t “do porn” as far as I’m aware. Years ago, he was in great shape and I met him while I was visiting Australia, and he was there for work. Some hours earlier that day, a friend had told me how gay-friendly Tyler was, and that he was staying in my hotel. So when I ran into him in the corridor (we were on the same floor), I didn’t hesitate to say Hello. As I was single, I simply asked him for a date and we had fun that afternoon.