DrownedBoy

We're looking for providers, not boyfriends.

That's what I was wondering.

Yeah...I could afford that....maybe once a year..... ...or I could just travel to where hot escorts are. It would be more fun and probably cheaper....

Are there any links to updated information on this gentleman? I found what I think was an old RentMen site, but it had been taken down.

Several people mentioned good factors. It's expensive to bodybuild The pandemic shut down many gyms/bodybuilder events (not to mention potential day jobs) Most practitioners are straight Honestly, I've been to several bodybuilder sites, but have yet to find any who would be interested in anything more "intimate" than muscle worship. Surely, there has to be a place for the "schmoes" to hang out and find aspiring bodybuilders looking for a few hours well-paid work....

Okay, I'm guess I'm not wealthy enough to know: How much does it cost to fly a boy in and spend time with them? For how long?

In my gay circle, "faggot" is a term we use. Usually noted to depict an immature, overly-emotional, whiny gay man. Our prerogative to use that word. And yes, hotels don't care about this stuff, and if an escort tries to create a scene in a hotel, security will "escort" him from the building. Personal experience.

He seemed a little weird when I texted him. He asked for 1K for only 1-2 hours, and also asked for a personal picture. Probably trying to get out of a session after he asked me what I was into....

How do you qualify for the strip search? Or the body cavity search?

One thing I learned the hard way: If you agree on a price, and the guy later says he wants more, CANCEL IMMEDIATELY. 1. If you turn down their request, the session will be lousy or a lot shorter than expected. 2. If you pay them more, they've pegged you as a sucker, and will keep asking for more. This is a business deal. You don't offer more money when buying something.

You've been scammed. Write up a review somewhere to warn the rest of us.

Depends on context, the guy, and his reviews. It can sometimes backfire. The last guy I met mentioned the Uber was more expensive than he thought, so for the next session, I offered him more to cover it. An hour before the almost-second session, he complained that Uber was "more expensive" than the last time. It's sad that the good ones are often so stupid....

Absolutely not. I just read a profile for a visiting provider. In his ad, he announced he was very "selective" about who he met with, and required a full-body photo. I just blocked his ad as a precaution....

I had a question for providers and clients, but probably more on the provider side. I've been openly gay in this area, ever since college, but there's one thing I've never done - march or appear in the Chicago Pride Parade. I belong to 2 gay groups that march there (one connected to work, the other more social), but I've turned down any invitations, citing an obsessive ex-boyfriend I'm worried about meeting. However, although that "ex-boyfriend" exists, it's not my real reason. Of course, I'm worried about seeing providers I've worked with. I can only think of one that might cause a scene (he did cause a scene once, which was why I kicked him out of my place, and made him even angrier - he tried texting angry messages at me weeks later using someone else's cell phone), but it would only take one scene to complicate my, say, work ilfe. For escorts and providers - have you ever had any problems at Pride Parades, with such call-outs?

That's kinda what it looked like to me....

https://rent.men/timlaurenz The guy looks massively hot, but has no reviews and claims to be visiting from Germany. Anyone recognize this Aryan superman?

This. Not enough price signals being sent. In my experience, it takes a few texts before I can get a rate quote from an escort, and quite a few won't respond to an initial direct question about their rates. So both my time and the provider's gets wasted, because I'm still going to turn down a price if it's too high. One selling approach is to try to get the potential customer to invest something first (like half an hour of waiting on texts). That doesn't work on me, or anyone else with a few brain cells.

I've only seen that 350 rate with traveling escorts who are models. Unless they're a professional bodybuilder, I tell them it's currently out of my budget.

Yes definitely set expectations, and make sure they have something they want to do. My vacation with an escort bombed when he decided it wasn't fun and took off 2 days in, even after I switched resorts so he had a gym.

On RM, you can have a profile as a client. But I never heard of an escort browsing those pages, or if they even can.

In a different thread (that 80+ page one for SA), an older man who often has young men stay with him said that Brazillian guys tend to be more polite as guests. I'm guessing they're more obliging too. However, I've seen that in most Latino hires.

I'm not a fan of used underwear, but I have a good use for my underwear when they get worn out. After a final wash, I use scissors to cut them into nearly ribbons. Then, when I hire an escort, I have them rip them off me.

I defended one of my regulars once, but that was because the complaint was coming from a guy who never met him (and was simply pissed off that the guy wasn't doing free sexting). Otherwise, my tastes and practices (fetish only) make it rather hard to compare with other clients. It drives me nuts when people ask if a guy "tops" - I'm not into anal!

It seems rare that people are into Asian guys, or to find Asian guys on RM. I have a slight preference for Asian guys, probably because since I came out in college (and in the CS department no less), I was surrounded by Asian guys, and my college boyfriends were a majority Asian. On RM, though, it's hard to find muscular ones. I hired one I've been meaning to try for awhile, but the muscles in his photos had shrunk...

Muscles are a must. The more the better. I definitely like younger guys in their 20s. Twinks aren't my thing, but I love twunks, but can't seem to find too many. Reasonably tall (5'10 to 6' min, unless they have something else going for them), good deep kisser, and never any facial hair.