DrownedBoy

Yes, Maxx is very hard to schedule - we've texted back and forth and nothing scheduled yet. I'll probably have to do an incall to get at him. Eliat, I've hired a lot too, but he's getting harder to schedule with - plus, he travels a lot, and unpredictably.

This is correct. The cops aren't going to listen to a single word the other guy says if: 1. You legally live there 2. You asked the gentleman to leave 3. The gentleman did not leave

Nope. He's a 300/ hour. With my tastes, he's too scrawny.

Too bad. I was studying Spanish on Duolingo, until the pandemic hit and removed my motivation. I'll need to retake the lessons. However, I can confirm that mastering the first 5 lesson groups didn't help at all when hiring 🤨

I did that once, to see if it would save time. It did. However, I have to admit, my RP is pretty weird, and I prefer to stick with providers who either comprehend English, or have enough education to understand my words.

I don't know how well Google Translate works, but I've tried to use this once, but with bad results. Has anyone else here been in this situation (as provider or client)? Since I'm into role-playing when I hire, I need to be able to explain complicated instructions.

Absolutely. There was a similar thread hair about facial hair.

Yes, Zelle is the equivalent of a bank transfer - your bank has to have an agreement with them, and transactions are treated like real cash withdrawals. I don't even use the Zelle app - my bank's app includes a Zelle option. It's not as anonymous, but: 1. It looks somewhat suspicious if you go to a teller constantly for large cash outflows (which in the U.S. can be investigated) 2. My bank's ATMs only carry 20s (and also have daily withdraw limits) 3. It's safer for the provider (you can't reverse a Zelle transaction if the other person's bank uses it)

We're looking for providers, not boyfriends.

That's what I was wondering.

Yeah...I could afford that....maybe once a year..... ...or I could just travel to where hot escorts are. It would be more fun and probably cheaper....

Are there any links to updated information on this gentleman? I found what I think was an old RentMen site, but it had been taken down.

Several people mentioned good factors. It's expensive to bodybuild The pandemic shut down many gyms/bodybuilder events (not to mention potential day jobs) Most practitioners are straight Honestly, I've been to several bodybuilder sites, but have yet to find any who would be interested in anything more "intimate" than muscle worship. Surely, there has to be a place for the "schmoes" to hang out and find aspiring bodybuilders looking for a few hours well-paid work....

Okay, I'm guess I'm not wealthy enough to know: How much does it cost to fly a boy in and spend time with them? For how long?

In my gay circle, "faggot" is a term we use. Usually noted to depict an immature, overly-emotional, whiny gay man. Our prerogative to use that word. And yes, hotels don't care about this stuff, and if an escort tries to create a scene in a hotel, security will "escort" him from the building. Personal experience.

He seemed a little weird when I texted him. He asked for 1K for only 1-2 hours, and also asked for a personal picture. Probably trying to get out of a session after he asked me what I was into....

How do you qualify for the strip search? Or the body cavity search?

One thing I learned the hard way: If you agree on a price, and the guy later says he wants more, CANCEL IMMEDIATELY. 1. If you turn down their request, the session will be lousy or a lot shorter than expected. 2. If you pay them more, they've pegged you as a sucker, and will keep asking for more. This is a business deal. You don't offer more money when buying something.

You've been scammed. Write up a review somewhere to warn the rest of us.

Depends on context, the guy, and his reviews. It can sometimes backfire. The last guy I met mentioned the Uber was more expensive than he thought, so for the next session, I offered him more to cover it. An hour before the almost-second session, he complained that Uber was "more expensive" than the last time. It's sad that the good ones are often so stupid....

Absolutely not. I just read a profile for a visiting provider. In his ad, he announced he was very "selective" about who he met with, and required a full-body photo. I just blocked his ad as a precaution....

I had a question for providers and clients, but probably more on the provider side. I've been openly gay in this area, ever since college, but there's one thing I've never done - march or appear in the Chicago Pride Parade. I belong to 2 gay groups that march there (one connected to work, the other more social), but I've turned down any invitations, citing an obsessive ex-boyfriend I'm worried about meeting. However, although that "ex-boyfriend" exists, it's not my real reason. Of course, I'm worried about seeing providers I've worked with. I can only think of one that might cause a scene (he did cause a scene once, which was why I kicked him out of my place, and made him even angrier - he tried texting angry messages at me weeks later using someone else's cell phone), but it would only take one scene to complicate my, say, work ilfe. For escorts and providers - have you ever had any problems at Pride Parades, with such call-outs?

That's kinda what it looked like to me....

https://rent.men/timlaurenz The guy looks massively hot, but has no reviews and claims to be visiting from Germany. Anyone recognize this Aryan superman?

This. Not enough price signals being sent. In my experience, it takes a few texts before I can get a rate quote from an escort, and quite a few won't respond to an initial direct question about their rates. So both my time and the provider's gets wasted, because I'm still going to turn down a price if it's too high. One selling approach is to try to get the potential customer to invest something first (like half an hour of waiting on texts). That doesn't work on me, or anyone else with a few brain cells.