DrownedBoy

The only prejudice I have in picking escorts (aside from the usual - they have to be more attractive than people I can get for free) is that they have no facial hair. Unfortunately, that knocks out at least half of all escorts on RM.

Damn right. The original "mental masturbation."

Yeah, cam shows don't do anything for me either. The RM ones are a particular rip off, with each credit worth about a dime, and 60-80 credits giving you 1 minute. I've never been into porn. It lacks the feelings, smells, etc. of a live encounter.

I see that in ads every so often, "college discounts." I'm guessing it means a discount if you're 22 or younger. That how it works?

This guy has no reviews yet and his ad is less than a week old. Probably hasn't had any hires yet. Unless you're an award winner bodybuilder or model, 400 is insane. In the middle of a global recession, and in Plague-ridden Texas....he's going to get a quick lesson in economics. And he doesn't even kiss?????

Have you considered pursuing a relationship with someone in your own age group who's not necessarily attractive? You can use that for mental and emotional support, while still hiring on the side.

So if I filter on Pros, who am I seeing, and what are they willing to do?

It depends on how close you are. If you're just Facebook friends and don't really meet in person anymore, I'd say go for it. It's not like he's going to share that with anyone else. You could approach him in a cute way, like confessing you had a crush on him in high school (even if you didn't), then bring up the ad. Make sure to act all embarrassed when you bring it up. He'll be flattered even if he turns you down. I had masturbation candy in high school, but the purest memories of lust come from junior high, when I started puberty. But neither they nor I can go back to being that young.

Ugh. Here I thought the Covid recession would force many wanna-be models, professional bodybuilders, and small actors into escorting. I never thought camming could generate decent money. Then again, I never tried a cam show before. All I know is that texting and sexting don't do it for me.

Why do I like underwear with PUMP on the band?

Weekday afternoon discounts? More like Senior Discount . Those of us still working need to wait for Friday and tbe weekend.

Does anyone here have experience finding escorts on Adam4Adam? It looks like it may be hard. I got banned once for using "gen."

Shit, I'd pay for all the data you collect.

This is the only post in this thread that addresses the truth of the issue, a scientific study with hard statistics. Anecdotes and personal feelings mean nothing. Yet people are ignoring the only solid piece of science here. Typical.

I'm not saying this attitude is correct. I'm saying this attitude is. A half dozen sociological studies don't lie.

Both on this forum, and in some ethnographic studies on male prostitution (a very popular thesis topic, apparently), escorts often say that they won't take Black clients because: They're less "generous" They're more "demanding" (in one example, the escort complained that Black men want to use the entire hour) Sad.

I've got a weird foreplay item that I occasionally use. I have the provider tear off my underwear....

Very occasionally, I'll make a last minute decision to hire someone new, and need a quick answer. Last time, I had to contact 4 people before one agreed to a deal. To be fair, half of them, there was no deal because I thought their donations were too high. And I wait 15 minutes to wait if they receive my text.

How long do you wait, if he doesn't respond, to looking for someone else?

For clients, I'm wondering; without your regulars, how many providers do you need to contact before you make a deal

So did my (female) cousin. Her brother and I made merciless fun of her. I guess I was mean....

Still a kid at the time, but God, how many times I dreamed of David Charvet carrying me in his muscular arms on the beach...

Honestly, I try not to think about it. I've had quite a few bfs I complimented on their body or techniques, but I didn't mean it. Especially as I get older.

What movie or comedian said it? "I bet you believe it when hookers say they like you."

The ratio of sugar daddies looking for male babies is like 1:20. If you're looking for real SDs who'd pay out at least 1k/month, it's at least 1:100. There's a lot of competition for very little money, and SBs need to be aggressive and decisive as well. And stand out. The Covid recession is skewing that ratio even more.