DrownedBoy

Both on this forum, and in some ethnographic studies on male prostitution (a very popular thesis topic, apparently), escorts often say that they won't take Black clients because: They're less "generous" They're more "demanding" (in one example, the escort complained that Black men want to use the entire hour) Sad.

I've got a weird foreplay item that I occasionally use. I have the provider tear off my underwear....

Very occasionally, I'll make a last minute decision to hire someone new, and need a quick answer. Last time, I had to contact 4 people before one agreed to a deal. To be fair, half of them, there was no deal because I thought their donations were too high. And I wait 15 minutes to wait if they receive my text.

How long do you wait, if he doesn't respond, to looking for someone else?

For clients, I'm wondering; without your regulars, how many providers do you need to contact before you make a deal

So did my (female) cousin. Her brother and I made merciless fun of her. I guess I was mean....

Still a kid at the time, but God, how many times I dreamed of David Charvet carrying me in his muscular arms on the beach...

Honestly, I try not to think about it. I've had quite a few bfs I complimented on their body or techniques, but I didn't mean it. Especially as I get older.

What movie or comedian said it? "I bet you believe it when hookers say they like you."

The ratio of sugar daddies looking for male babies is like 1:20. If you're looking for real SDs who'd pay out at least 1k/month, it's at least 1:100. There's a lot of competition for very little money, and SBs need to be aggressive and decisive as well. And stand out. The Covid recession is skewing that ratio even more.

I second that, but what hints can you find in a young guy's ad that indicates he's willing to respond to generosity? Browsing Boystown, I see only 3 or 4 ads specifically saying "looking for gen/daddy/etc." All the old codes seem to be changing.

I'd never pay 400 to someone with ZERO reviews. And I wouldn't pay anyone that hourly rate in the middle of a recession.

While it was sociologically amusing, I'm letting my SA membership expire. - 75 percent of responses are from other countries. - 20 percent of responses are "hi," but ghost you and don't respond to any attempts at conversation or questions after that "hi" - the 5 percent who do communicate are wishy washy or looking for money only Only 1 respondent got to the texting point, agreed to a initial visit with compensation, then ghosted. I think I'll stick to escort boards. At least they know what they're looking for. SA is full of confused kids who don't know what they want, and who get scared if anyone shows interest. I’ll let someone else corrupt them. I have neither the time nor patience to myself.

I have a "hiring profile" too but I'm scared to make an initial message. I'd prefer to get contacted and asked if I'm gen. The reason is because, first, you can really piss someone off if they're not willing, and get reported. Second, it hasn't been 3 months since those Georgia homophobe cops did a Grindr prostitution sting aimed at gen guys. Advice?

Whenever an escort says something like that to me, I immediately apologize and insist they keep their original plans. If they offer to change their plans, I categorically decline and insist they have fun. Kill them with kindness and refuse to accept a guilt trip. Let it backfire.

In my personal experience, THC makes me horny as hell, but you have to get off the high to orgasm properly.

How'd you get that? I had to pay 300 and Uber. Which is why I'm not hiring him again...

He's currently being aggressive about finding clients by reaching out with RM. But he's not my type.

When I met him, he was 400 an hour. I'm into RP, so he did everything I asked except deep kissing. He had a great body, but I have trouble enjoying myself with escorts who are clearly straight. But I don't regret trying him at least once.

I'm not offended, and actually more likely to text someone who's proactive. Unfortunately, none of these proactive guys did it for me. A few days ago, I RMd someone who interested me. A few seconds later, I got a message and started chatting, discussing what I'm into, even looking at dates. Then I checked and realized that it wasn't a reply from the guy I wanted, it was someone else who, at the exact same time, RMd me proactively. Embarrassing! I had to back pedal quickly...

In Chicago, the virus is under control, and I'll do another hire by end of the month. RM Chicago ads are nearly up to normal as well (at least 10 pages). Anyone see a reverse trend in Florida, California, or Texas?

In Chicago, the virus is under control, and I'll do another hire by end of the month. RM Chicago ads are nearly up to normal as well (at least 10 pages). Anyone see a reverse trend in Florida, California, or Texas?

If you thought younger guys are in trouble, just wait until the last week in July. In Chicago at least, both the unemployment "coivd" workmen's comp and the rent deferral is going to end. That is going to suck big time. I'm using my SA membership to just look, and am not talking with anyone unless they send a message first. But users might want to make sure their "sugar babies" aren't wearing a backpack and need a shower....

Your area?

Bumping this. It seems like Grindr is getting stricter - I've read people claim that "gen" and the usual emojis are off. Right now, I'm just saying that I "prefer younger" men and "realize their time is valuable." Would like to be obvious without getting banned. Is there any code that escorts and such use on Grindr to indicate they're for hire? I don't want to make the first move in case I get reported (or worse).