DrownedBoy

I strongly prefer providers who handle it themselves, even if it's with an increased fee. You ever order someone an Uber, then send screen shots so they know the car and license plate? Or have a provider miss the car (since they're not paying, they don't care about cancellation fees)? PITA. I'm not paying, as someone said, to be someone's social secretary. If a provider is from out of town, I prefer they adjust their fees accordingly. It's a hard stop for me if someone agrees, then only later demands an Uber. I just cancel- that's the same as demanding extra money at the last moment. Common scam. Also, extra Uber fees should only be for established, reliable escorts. I've encountered kids with no reviews who think they're worth 300 plus Uber. One of them thought that if he held out, I'd get horny and agree to his Uber an hour later. Cute. As far as "cheap" is concerned- how many times has someone said it? If I pissed away my money like that all the time, I wouldn't have money to hire. And it's more about my self respect than the money.

Reese too.

I'd love to hear how you hire on Grindr safely and anonymously.

I have a friend who also hires. He's straight, but it's fun to exchange stories.

Everyone and their brother is doing OnlyFans right now, but that's just posting videos. It seems like some OF people also don't have any demos, so you have to pay for a month just to look.

....and once more....the Pink Pistol fires a shot at me...

Too skinny for my tastes. If I'm paying a large rate,, he better be a body builder.

Well RM updated my original to one star, and for the first time, I wrote Daddy's Review ad (need to do that for my favorite regular one day soon) in case the Admin erases the above links. More data, I checked the other users on RM who gave him 5 stars. These are the "clients" who did: And yes he's a new escort, started in March. Not for much longer I suspect. I need to add this to my list of lessons learned and people to watch out for. I was always suspicious of people who list themselves as "straight," and this is why - they can't stand being around gay men.

Damn, any of these guys could carry me in their muscular arms and give me mouth to mouth any day!

Yup. Either he decided to burn bridges and take the money, or he planned to try and hold me up for extra cash by threatening to leave. Either way meant I'd never hire him again, and give him bad reviews. I did just as you suggested on Rentmen as well, and explained the situation. He's blocked everywhere. I don't know if this will get removed, but his links are: @Quincy_7 are you that guy with a different name or something? It's an outcall, so he knows my phone and address, but not necessarily my full name (although I know his...or at least the fake ID he's using). I grew up around here, and my whole high school class knew about my fetish (not that weird - I'm into lifeguards). He didn't so much make a veiled threat as just make fun of me as he walked out. There were a number of warning signs, but they came only after he took my money. First, he tried to get me to let him play a video game the entire time. I vetoed that, but let him pick out a movie while we snuggled. Then he kept taking texts and phone calls, getting up to do it. At the second meeting, he was really lousy. At least I can spend more time with my regulars. Which he could have been, if he had kept doing this.

Sorry, but I 'm into roleplaying, so I need someone with a good command of English to follow instructions. I once hired a guy who didn't speak English, and it was a lousy session.

We actually met before, for the same fetish, and the meeting went fine. This was the second time and it caught me off guard. I yelled at him and called him a thief, which is more than within my rights. I've already reported on his Mintboys and Friendboy sites, but I already blocked him on RentMen, so I'm not sure if I can alter my original good review.

He looks great, but after a few texts, you can figure out his English is lousy...and he loses his temper if there's a misunderstanding.

Well, doing the math, he in total only stole 102 dollars in time. After I lost my temper, he threw 70 of it back as he left. I left it on the table. He picked it up at the beginning and pocketed it. 3 out of three times, when the escort pocketed my money beforehand, it turned out to be a scam. It's too bad you don't see that until they have your money. Not worried about the police. In the town where the guy (supposedly) lived, I spent 2 years working with the current police chief while we were in high school. But I'd only deal with police if the runt was stupid enough to try to blackmail, though I'm not sure I'd let him know that.

There's an escort - I don't know if I can post a link here- with Good Reviews on RentMen who cheated me out of half a session! I hired him for 2 hours, and half an hour in, stopped, laughed at me, made a veiled threat about revealing my fetish, and left! What could and should I do? I'm about to remove my 5 star appraisal of him that he gave for the first meeting!

There's no way Biden/Harris will do anything about F/S for awhile because they'd be accused of being soft on crime, one of the issues in the campaign. Maybe later, since even Republicans have to admit their leader hires escorts. I refer to "high class" travelers, who advertise, act, and charge as such. I never could stand that attitude.

In Chicago at least, he doesn't do outcalls, only incalls at his downtown hotel. 300 / 550 1/2 hours. Too high IMHO.

Damn I feel young.... From RentBoy in Summer of 2014.

As I warned before, that's because of the Covid recession kicking in. I have 2 well paid friends who got laid off, and you never know who's next. Personally, I'm saving up money in case my firm needs to cut expenses. Not likely, but I have no plans to starve. I am starting to hire regularly again, but I'm staying away from the high priced people visiting Chicago, who are charging as if there's no pandemic. I'm sticking with locals who need the money - there are a lot of people hurting right now who need help with the rent and bills, now that eviction freezes are over. They charge less, and I'd rather have the money go to people who need it than "stars" who have enough money to travel. It's not exactly philanthropy, but I'd rather have the money stay in the area, with potential regulars. Kamala Harris has been of two minds on F/S and decriminalizing sex work. However, since she was picked partly to present a "law and order" face to the "threat" of police defunding, those chances probably fell to 0, since Biden is living 50 to 60 years in the past.

I don’t like being imposing so I actually set a timer for n hours when they arrive. There are times I ask escorts to leave early, after I blow my load. Others I want to stay and cuddle with. If they want to leave when I want cuddling, I get unhappy.

What If they approach you for something other than sex, like a fetish? I started before 40 for this reason. Got tired of weirding out bfs and potential hookups.

Something tells me there's a high correlation between people judging hiring clients, and people who can't really afford to hire.

Kept thinking "XYZZY," which fellow computer geeks would recognize. When you only visit a city for a single day (which this guy tends to do), don't expect clients to change around their schedules for you. That, combined with the "same day only" rule, makes me suspicious, but he has too many positive reviews to be a scammer.

I've been wanting to hire him for awhile, and he does come to Chicago on a regular basis. But, he's too pricey for a Covid recession hire. Maybe when things pick up again.

I've been waiting out the pandemic in rural Wisconsin since March, working from home until my office in Chicago reopens. I returned to Chicago twice during pandemic and hired. You can't find providers in Trump farm country. But I decided to return to Chicago at the end of August for a few weeks at least. I need to visit some regulars.