DrownedBoy

I met him. He's a meth-addicted con artist. Stay away.

I took the plunge and tried him, after deciding I judged his tone too harshly before. Personally, I loved the experience. He's an excellent kisser, and muscular to boot. He's also extremely nice if you're nice to him. Drawbacks would be his limited English (luckily Google Translate smoothed it out), and that certain habit of forgetting to fully charge your phone before arriving, which makes you more likely to let him go after you blow your load. Since he got me to blow my load for the first time in awhile, I really didn't care about letting him go 90 minutes into the 2 hours.

That's what happened to me. Despite the fact I'd hired this guy 6 times before, he just kept playing games and saying he "made a wrong turn" until I cut him off. Late is one thing; making the provider think you're coming when you're not is another.

I suppose I've been too lenient, because my regulars are arriving way too late (1 to 2 hours). How can I politely, but firmly, make clear that I need them to be more punctual? Once, I reluctantly cancelled a provider after he was 90 minutes late, and he was so angry at being "rushed" that he blocked me. If I kept making last minute changes with a provider, I'd be ashamed of myself. How do clients do it so easily? Punctuality is one trait I've never encountered.

On RentMen, Chicago's unfortunately lacks such providers (unless they're visiting). If anyone knows other sources, please let me know.

Also, it's becoming more and more likely that a recession is coming. If history is a guide, it might be like the one during the late 70s and early 80s, the last time they had to stop high inflation with big interest rate hikes. Recession = fewer clients and more deperate providers.

I wonder if it's the same guy I encountered, who used to post in this forum. His ad has popped up and down quickly in Chicago before, and I'm forgetting his name. African American with muscles and a bit of facial hair. I booked with him too, then days later, a few hours before the session, he asked for a deposit. I immediately canceled the session. You have to have a complete lack of brain cells and self control to fall for a scam that old.

Yes. Some really popular and in demand guys, like Uriel, use deposits to weed people out. Otherwise their fees are reasonable. If you see escorts with no reviews or only a few demanding deposits (which I've encountered), just walk away.

I wonder how many clients besides me are observing an "embargo" on escorts who act proudly Russian 😁

Yes on the politeness. Before asking for an ETA, ask if everything is ok and if they're still coming. If they do end up ghosting you, just post a warning here.

Hopefully better with the Italian language than the English....

I've noticed something weird in my hiring. While there are good kissers out there, a lot of guys who list "kissing" don't want to really French kiss, even if I confirm before the meeting. For some reason, those guys have absolutely no problem shoving their tongue down my throat; they just don't want my tongue in their mouth. Anyone else notice that?

https://rent.men/Uriel Uriel used to be based in Chicago, and I'm really kicking myself for not hiring him then. He kisses so well I don't even mind the beard. Anyone know good Chicagoan kissers? A lot of them say kissing "isn't their thing."

As a client, I have to mention one thing. If an escort doesn't let people he's visiting for the weekend ahead of time, he's going to lose a lot of potential clients.

Haven't been invited yet. Too bad. I like being the naughty little guy...

Oh, there are reasons to make that up, as I learned. A certain escort was traveling to my city. I tried setting something up a week ahead of time, but he told me to wait. Once in town, he told me he was totally booked, but would squeeze me in....if I paid a higher and outrageous rate. I stopped responding immediately. If you're going to try and scam me, have the decency to use something original and believable.

I loved how, with Mike, when I asked, "Do you have a blindfold?", he just reached into his bag and grabbed one.

I only know one instance where this happened. According to a regular, a guy tried a bad bill, but it was so obviously counterfeit that he rejected it on first sight. Most counterfeit bills look pretty crappy. I am worried, though, what will happen if you have a stash of older, 1980s hundreds (which use an older design).

Met him twice so far. I enjoyed his company, and he's a nice guy with a good body, but travels a lot, which makes setting up appointments somewhat difficult.

It's not a tip, but after seeing a regular for 5 years at the same rates, I insisted on giving him an "inflation adjustment" after the past year. Mainly because he owns a car and drives to me, and gas prices have exploded.

I recall an escort who was really full of himself (he thought he was a professional model). Really lousy session. At one point, he started laughing at my Asberger's and saying, "You're like Sheldon on Big Band Theory!" This reminded me of a comment I had earlier read on this board - an overweight client got told, "You should be on The Biggest Loser." Gotta admire these lovely attitudes, guaranteed to result in repeat hires...

I was going to say he's "still muscular," then I realized it's been at least 6 years since our only session...

In terms of response time - I was wondering. If some guy was a regular who you knew well and trusted, would you be willing to do an outcall "immediately" if they asked?

This. One reason I don't spend much time chasing high priced visitors is because they apparently think that if they're worth that much money, they're better than everyone else. And they brag a lot, which is a bone killer for me. I still recall a guy who got some photos published, so he thought of himself as a professional model. I kept my mouth shut as to his probable career prospects.

Ditto. On RM, I went to give a visitor 5 stars, but found I was blocked. I figured he was either weirded out by my RP fantasy, or he was afraid he did a bad job and was heading off a bad review. Too bad if it was the second option.