DrownedBoy

Always look up a country's LGBT record before you visit. The Dominican Republic isn't a good place. LGBT rights in the Dominican Republic - Wikipedia

Yes. I hired one of them off RM accidentally. Not a fun time at all.

I've met very few escorts who wouldn't at least listen to me talk about my "regular" sex life. Only a few of them counseled me back, though. One minor warning - don't get dependent on hired companionship, even if you keep it as a hobby. And try not to hire when you're depressed.

When one of my long-term regular providers went over by 10-15 minutes, I sort of awkwardly grabbed some 20s from my wallet and gave them to him. I did so without him asking, as I have a good business relationship with said provider, and try to keep him happy. Plus, I don't like being in the position of owing someone something. However, if it was a situation like described here - first meeting, not very good, only 10 minutes and at the end - @excelntsvc is correct - " I'm sorry, I thought you were watching the time" ... end of discussion." You have no motivation to pay more, since you'll never see the guy again.

I've done some short smartphone videos of my particular fetish with regulars. One only consented once I arranged it so his face wasn't visible. Since my face is visible, I'm taking those small MP3s with me to the grave.

If the OP can't, via rules, post the escort's identity here, can he reveal it to people who PM him? I don't give a damn about "proof " of transmission or stigmitizing. If there's even a small risk, I avoid it. Sucks to be him, but that's life in the big city. HIV can be hell on you if, like myself, you have other preexisting conditions.

Ach du lieber, I'll have to visit someday.... ...like others said, when they get more talent. These guys need some meat on their bones.

Guys who add the flexed bicep emoticon: 💪

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This guy is visiting Chicago, and is a bodybuilder who offers worship options. https://rent.men/XxXJOHNSONXxX He also has an OF page: https://onlyfans.com/xjohnsonx Has anyone here met him? I texted him, and though kissing isn't listed on his ad, he claims to be ok with it. Also, his rate is significantly lower than you would expect from a European bodybuilder, so I wanted to check.

Let me know if there's any pain infliction involved.

No....any financially prudent person budgets. Even when you make 6 figures, you can't throw your money around without paying attention to how much you're spending. My budget has a line item for (ahem) adult entertainment. It's in the "luxury" category, and can be adjusted if needed. I never met a self-made wealthy person who didn't budget...

For the past month it seems like many escorts have been raising their rates in Chicago by 50 an hour. I'm not going for it - most of them are n00bs who want a quick buck. Once the post pandemic horniness dies down, unemployment bonuses end, and the eviction moratorium ends, I'm sure the market will change.

The oldest dilemma. First rate body with a third rate mind.

I have a straight friend who hires, and he enjoys going to brothels, ranging from legal ones in different countries to "hidden" ones in Chicago. Does anyone know of any "hidden" male brothels in the States? Nevada doesn't have any openly gay brothels, and the only one I ever heard of was in the Netherlands.

Can it cook?

Agreed. But that video did remind me of Sedaris' essay on naked house cleaning. Which I admit wasn't one of his better ones.

Sex dolls are way too low tech as of today. I need active partners who taste and smell and kiss like a human. That being said, growing up on Star Trek, a holodeck would satisfy pretty much any urges I have.

Gave out 2 deposits, one of them to a regular I had known for 2 years. Bye bye money. So....hell no.

Reminds me of a David Sedaris essay. If he knows how to write, it would be better than over saturated BJing.

Ah. So he's nice to people who pay his price, but "self important " to those that don't. Imagine that.

I've noticed that the number of advertisers on RM is still lower (roughly 20 %) than pre pandemic levels. Combined with the increased demand after a year of fapping, I'm sure that explains the temporary rise in opportunity. In the US at least, though, I doubt it will last. It will be interesting to see what happens when eviction moratoriums end.

300 is my limit for an established escort, and that includes Uber fees. If an escort has no reviews, that drops to 250 (wasted too much money on flakes and cheats). I have been willing to go over my limit if the provider is a massive bodybuilder who is willing to do what I want. Unfortunately, those guys are few and far between.

By mutual agreement- ignore each other in public, if forced to talk, we don't know each other.

I'd stay away - he seems to have problems. When he was in Chicago, I texted him to see if he was interested in a 1 or 2 hour session. He told me to f- myself. Either he really hates me without ever meeting me, or he was on something.