carnalvore

What a helpful response 

he is real and is very good.

Wash your ass

One thing I think that our community, in particular, must deal with in our new reality (or at least just me), is reassessing safety as regards to both casual and intimate methods of contact. For the past quarter century, we've known that certain intimate behavior like kissing and even oral sex is very low risk for HIV transmission, so we're accustomed to viewing those acts as "safe" or "safer" as compared to anal sex. COVID-19 turns all of that on its head because exposure to droplets of saliva and/or nasal mucus appears to be its chief mode of transmission.
 
Kissing can now be a higher-risk behavior for a potentially lethal disease than anal or vaginal intercourse. That's hard to wrap my head around. Plus, it's unlikely that we'll have an effective and widely available vaccine before early to mid 2021, at the earliest, and the U.S.'s mass-testing infrastructure has been woefully inadequate. Given this current status, how many of us can really stay 100% celibate as to all sexual and/or intimate acts for a year or longer?

What is different is that your risk taking likely affects a lot of people. IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU. You must not care if you kill your aunt, or work colleagues, or some random person who happens to be near you when you sneeze. Or you might end up taking a ventilator needed by someone else. The ones who want to "open up America" should be tracked and forced to go to the end of the line if they get sick.

What is different is that your risk taking likely affects a lot of people. IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU. You must not care if you kill your aunt, or work colleagues, or some random person who happens to be near you when you sneeze. Or you might end up taking a ventilator needed by someone else. The ones who want to "open up America" should be tracked and forced to go to the end of the line if they get sick.

What is different is that your risk taking likely affects a lot of people. IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU. You must not care if you kill your aunt, or work colleagues, or some random person who happens to be near you when you sneeze. Or you might end up taking a ventilator needed by someone else. The ones who want to "open up America" should be tracked and forced to go to the end of the line if they get sick.

You’re more likely to get helpful responses if you help people out rather than having them take extra steps.

This guy is legit https://rent.men/travis_thailand

His first name is Travis, but I don't know his real last name, @@carnalvore.

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Sounds like a Trump rant.

If you're there to fuck and you have an inkling of not being able to perform, take a pill beforehand.
 
We're hired for many reasons, but a soft dick is rarely one of them.

@Mocha - I am not saying escorts should give up their privacy. What I am saying is both sides should be equally respectful of each other's privacy and understand that both sides have a very valid reason for wanting to protect it.
 
I was a whole lot more sympathetic and understanding towards your side of it until that one escort came along and almost ruined my life with his blackmail attempt and threats against me, telling me he knows my name, he knows where I work, he knows where I live (and so much worse that I don't care to re-live) It was a living nightmare for me and one that I will do whatever it takes to never repeat again.
 
So as far as privacy issues go, I give an unequivocal NO to the idea that clients should be forced to shoulder all of the risk in these situations and that is what some of you seem to be feeling entitled to. That is not ok. especially if we are going to meet for one hour in a hotel room. All you need to know is that if I make an appointment with an escort, I am going to show up, like I always have and like I do for all my obligations and commitments that I make.
 
I also want to make it clear that as the relationship between the escort and client grows, so will the trust. I had an escort who I trusted enough to come stay with me for 2 weeks while I recovered from surgery. He drove me home (in my own car) while I was still groggy from anesthesia, and I even trusted him with my opioid RX after my surgery. We shared real names, phone numbers, and I allowed him to stay at my home while I was away at work etc.. without any fear of him doing anything. But that trust is earned and given mutually - not demanded - and not from day 1 hour 1 of meeting him.
 
Also. I wanted to share that a different escort was the one that got me to start using Google Voice in the first place. Yes, it was his advice and suggestion. As far as I am concerned, VoIP saves lives.

Yes you can compare the two. Smart, sensible customers care deeply about their privacy. I know I do. Escorts make a HUGE mistake assuming their privacy is more important than the customer's. I would put the two on equal footing. A customer who doesn't care about his privacy is probably thinking with the brain in his cock, not the one in his head. If that's the kind of customer you want, then be careful what you wish for.

Sorry guys, all the muss and fuss... I decided decades ago it wasn't worth the trouble, plus the fact that I never enjoyed getting fucked. I wish the stigma of "you are gay, you need to get fucked" would just go away. You can find pleasure and sexual satisfaction WITHOUT passive anal.... Trust me !

Seriously, $%&* you. I did not haggle. I responded to his question -- duh. He asked me my budget and I told him. You clearly don't have a goddamned clue what haggling is. I told him my budget and he said ok.

I would not have responded to the boyfriend's email …

Just to be clear, every single person on this forum is a thirsty ho. That's kinda the point.

unnecessary, deceptive, and melodramatic title.....

have to totally agree with tenderloin on this one. there seems to be some arrogance or elitism in kurts reply. for $300+ per hour, overnights in the thousands and weekends much more, one should have to deal with such minor pittances.
 
i understand there are a lot of flakes out there. i truly do. we arent talking minimum wage here. this is attorney level pay. many attorneys give out free consultations in the beginning to get business. i dont see how taking a few minutes, even with whack jobs is asking too much for this sort of pay.

Gee, forgive me for pointing out that your comment makes you sound...ummm...a bit full of yourself. Those of us who have been burned in the past have legitimate grounds to request some form of verification. That you will not deign to address the concerns of potential customers in an industry full of scammers, hucksters, and frauds says a great deal. So by all means, please put me on your blacklist now.

Yeah, I refer to myself as a 'porn character actor'.
 
Kevin Slater

Do you get discounts for buying in bulk?

Do you get discounts for buying in bulk?