peter831

So when you approach an escort who says in his profile that he is into kissing, and tell him specifically that you are also interested in that, so you make the appointment only to find out that his idea of kissing is a lackluster dry kiss, you wonder why he didn't just say no to the appointment. This happened to a friend recently.

I respect that some don't want to kiss. I won't hire them though. Kissing is an essential part of the experience for me.
 
 

I think you have a great point here, @ThroatCummer . To me, no kissing is the absolute deal breaker in hiring. Furthermore, when I sense that my partner (paid or not paid) is not really enjoying kissing me, when he is not being truly responsive to my kissing, I totally lose interest and my dick goes limp. 

Also worth mentioning I hired a provider one time who had kissing listed on their ad as an "into" but when I was with them they informed me they don't. So I always ask and bring it up as I stated above. 

There's a lot of projection in posts like these. Speaking for myself, I am conventionally attractive, look ten years younger than my (middle) age, and am a lot of fun in and out of bed. But you - and a few others on here - seem to think most of us are hideous and obese.
A significant number of us hire, not because we can't find sex but because it's much more convenient. We're paying, so we don't have to spend hours on apps to schedule a hook-up. And "good looking" is incredibly subjective. I'd say 80 percent of the providers who get posted here by members looking for information, hold zero appeal for me. But most guys are salivating over them. 
Lastly, the "slavery" comment is just horrible. Not only do we have a history of chattel slavery in this country, but there are people all over the world, including the US, who are being trafficked to have sex against their will. And, they do not get paid. In fact, by definition slaves don't get paid. 
And that rimming is what set you off, feels very personal. It's a practice you find distasteful or abhorrent, so you cannot imagine someone enjoying it. So it's worse to you then "fuck me or I won't hire you", "let me fuck you or I won't hire you", "blow me or I won't hire you." Really, they're all the same. 
Lastly, no one should ever coerce a provider into doing something they are uncomfortable with. But if I hire someone who says they provide a particular service - and let's stipulate that everyone involved is pristinely hygienic - and they will not perform, I would let it go. But I also would not hire them again. 

I nominate Maus to compete in the rimming Olympics!  Got to enjoy his tongue and whole body twice a few weeks ago.
https://rentmen.eu/ShermanMaus
But by far, the best rim jobs I ever had were last summer in Vienna and Zurich.  I found it queer that almost every man I met in Europe insisted on using condoms but were willing to go to town on my ass with their tongue. 👅 🍑

Let the games begin!

If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.

Only ONE man I’d spend $1,000 to be with…
First Name: Neiman
Last Name: Marcus
 

A regular client eats lots of fiber

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

How do they know how many providers you’re reaching out to? That’s an assumption unless it’s said upfront. And then you’re just stupid. No one knows how many people I’m in communication in general let alone about services.

I think that "what are your massage services?" is too vague from a provider prospective. The professional massage therapist is not likely to go into explaining neuromuscular, deep tissue, and swedish techniques. The client would likely receive a response if they say what exactly they are looking for. The therapist can say yes I provide that or no I do not do that. And if the client is actually looking for more of a sensual or nude experience with mutual touch than they should ask for that. A professional therapist is not likely to just offer that from the get-go (even if they are fine with this type of service). They can imply a "yes" I offer that more discreetly if it is brought up by the client.

In a way, I’m glad when they don’t reply. It goes to show how they don’t care about clients.  They’re automatically taken off my list.

as you say you're doing, sending a text seems to be the preferred method these days, so you're good there.....whatever method they request in their profile
there are many varying reasons why you're not getting a good response rate:  the provider is very busy and can't reply to all inquiries, they are only fishing for replies to see if a trip to your city is worth it, they sense something askew in your inquiry and are spooked by it, they think you aren't serious, they prefer a date-and-time request in the first inquiry and aren't in the mood for chitchat.....etc., etc........not all providers are guilty of all of these possibilities, of course, but there are many possible reasons.......
you aren't the first one to lament lack of replies!!!!

 

There are a decent amount of options in Boston, for those who live in Boston - 1 hour South of Boston might as well be Virginia, and at "rush hour" 1 hour might be 3 hours.  You will have enthusiastic responses if you are willing to travel into Boston, you might also consider Providence or Provincetown on Cape Cod (fewer options, but less daunting then driving into Boston).  You may consider taking the train (MBTA) to/from Boston.   There are options on RM to search by towns - try Plymouth or Fall River to see who is located South of Boston.  If you offer to pay for travel time you might have better luck, good luck!

OP said in his question that he wanted to know what orientation would generate interest from the greatest number of clients. OP is having a tough time drumming up business with no kissing, no bottoming, and charging $350/hour.  He wants to know if changing his advertised sexual orientation would attract more customers willing to pay the price for the company he offers.
Consensus on the replies is that changing his advertised orientation to "straight" is likely not the solution.

I have a bit of a fantasy of being with Twins or maybe brothers. 
 
Anyone know of any providers that do this? 

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.