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On 5/21/2023 at 5:57 PM, Coolwave35 said:

This is why there is Bloomingdales and Wal Mart. Look in the windows at bloomies then go be happy with your discounts at Walmart. 

The funny thing is that Walmart does not  offer sales. Bloomingdales often does 

1 hour ago, Lucky said:

I hope he is not gay.

He may be gay based on the innuendo in the WP article today.

15 hours ago, dcguy20 said:

Not sure about his posted age of 28. I hired him a good 6 years ago, and I doubt he was 22 then  as that's not an age I would go for in a provider. 

Don’t you know that you shall not ask a lady’s age and if you asked, the answer would always be 28.

5 hours ago, Axiom2001 said:

What's up with Facebook?  I ask this question because I've been posting candid words at Forums that feature handsome and hot men that are part of this site.  Since doing this, I've received warnings and have had my hands slapped.  

A few minutes ago, a photo appeared of a handsome, hot man who was bare chested, wearing a pair of slightly loose jock shorts and holding a skillet that had his encased jock hanging inside.

In my response to this, I posted a huge rainbow tongue that I'd obtained from Facebook's collections of symbols.  Afterwards, I went downstairs and did a few things.  When I returned to my study and to my screen, there was an enlargement of the tongue that I'd obtained from FACEBOOK's bank of symbols and had posted in conjunction with the photo that had been submitted.  Along with this came their warnings, etc.

What friggin' hypocrisy hails there!  

A similar thing happened to me last year when Twitter froze my account.  A hot guy continuously posted the most candid photos of himself almost daily.  I reacted by writing some encouraging words to him.  Well, lo and behold, Twitter discontinued my using its services because the guy or someone had complained about the words that I had written.

Men, what's your take and advice?

How could you get flagged for a largely benign photo whereas a fisting video had been circulating and generating thousands of views on Facebook last week? The enforcement of their policy by Facebook is more random and inconsistent than the VAR of the Premier League.

1 hour ago, Unicorn said:

Is that real snow in the background? Or you have too much time in retirement so you find a new hobby in photoshopping?

15 hours ago, colonexstacy said:

Did I say it's rocket science? I don't recall saying that you're going to have to remind me. I didn't look at that section of what he is into. I never even think to look at that damn section because I know what I'm into and if I'm paying them then you get them to me. That is another science called biology and physical chemistry. 😂

😂 

I apologize for asking too much, on behalf of Jarrod.

58 minutes ago, colonexstacy said:

I do not understand your message or the one from the gentleman in front of you. What are you guys talking about? I am missing something. Please clarify thank you

It is not rocket science 😂. The only thing listed under the “into” section is nipples. Nothing else will be on the menu.

I started meeting one of my regulars in 2013, and another one in 2016. I pay them what I feel is the fair amount:-). Both are happy so far.

49 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Well I'm never going to be a premium member again. I'd be ok if it went up to 10.99 or 11.99 but double what it used to be all of a sudden is not right.

The sudden huge increase in membership may be a sign of financial stress and a lack of sustainability of the current business model.

There are too many free hookups and too many drunkards in such big events. The downside seems to be too much for a professional.

6 minutes ago, newdad said:

Apparently, I don't. lol

Just set up a new account and select an alias as username. You can literally be “Donald Duck” or Micky Mouse. Venmo will only display the username to other users.

1 minute ago, newdad said:

This is what's good about CashApp. You can hide your name and make an Alias. unlike Venmo or Zelle.

You can use alias in Venmo. 

I am sure that many on this forum have been catfished so it is just a learning experience lol. 
You can certainly set up a pseudo name for cashapp or Venmo, so your real name will not be exposed next time.

25 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

I seem to remember that as I’m writing and submitting a review, there is a check-box like “make review visible on my profile” of something similar to that? 
 

Edited: yes as I remembered:

The reviews are still public. It just will not show up on client’s profile page. 

I sincerely hope that the venom that was contained in the Political forum will not spill into other parts of the forum. Without its regular outlets, the danger of a spillover is real.

2 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Do you send a message along with your request to see their pvt photos or are you just assuming it's your age because 40 is not old at all! Most providers won't unlock unless you are seriously considering booking.

I doubt that there are enough under 40 clients out there, and the providers who restrict themselves to such unicorns would last long in the business.

3 hours ago, Walt said:

For every profile you look at? Thanks. (I see it on a couple, but definitely not many.)

Actually most US profiles don’t have rates listed. I checked 10 and only 2 showed rates.

It shows in RM7 without the use of VPN

4 hours ago, NJF said:

Is the conference in Ft.lauderdale? 

Not at the conference but I follow the guy on Twitter. He is funny and often has interesting to say.

The rate information is very spotty. Only 2 out of 10 profiles that I checked listed rates. The rates listed on one profile is significantly lower than what the provider told me 3 years ago. So my suspicion is that these rates were the old ones that existed in their database.

2 hours ago, Unicorn said:

I recently attended a medical conference, and one of the keynote lectures was given by an ophthalmologist-comedian and his wife. The message of the lecture was to pay attention to family members as well as to the patient, and I get it. However, the way in which it was presented gave me somewhat of an awkward feeling. The issue came about when the ophthalmologist suffered a cardiac arrest and his wife had to do CPR. He was in a coma for almost 2 days and came to in the ICU. The wife complained that no one asked her about how she was doing. As the husband said "The whole episode was easy for me. I just went to sleep one night and woke up, a bit confused, in an ICU 2 days later. My wife was the one who suffered all of the trauma." Yes, it's true that someone should have shown support and asked the wife if she needed some help. On the other hand, it felt as if the husband almost died, but the wife came off as "It's all about me!". I guess it was the statement "my wife suffered ALL of the trauma" which made me feel awkward (she seemed to agree with his statement). At no point did the wife every say "Well, you must have had some anxiety and fears, too!" Thoughts?

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Is the conference in Ft.lauderdale? 

Michael Jackson’s glove had been auctioned for an huge amount of money. I guess that panty you mentioned was also bought as a collector item by someone. It may not be a wise investment but there is few good options right now if you have a lot of cash to invest.

1 hour ago, TT3690 said:

I think a lot of it boils down to the purpose of communication. Many escorts only want to be contacted when the client is ready to book, while many clients see communication as another source of information to determine potential compatibility and whether it's a good "investment".

I understand the thought process for a lot of clients who want to do “research” before making a “commitment”. However, I personally don’t do it for several reasons. I have a general parameter of what I am looking for. I only contact a provider after screening for fake ads and safety checks. I only ask for availability for the time window that I am free. The satisfaction level of an encounter really depends on the chemistry, which no amount of “research” can truly predict. There are also more fun in exploring and experimenting.

1 hour ago, wsc said:

A few years ago, I attended a presentation on Fermi's Paradox, a question posed by physicist Enrico Fermi that asked: considering the size of the universe and the likelihood of lifeforms other than human having developed elsewhere, why have we not encountered them or at least found evidence of their existence, past or present?

I recently viewed a YouTube video entitled "Born This Way: The Science Behind Being Gay."

Predictably, [spoiler alert] the final conclusion is that there are a lot of factors, and no one knows for sure. But the research was interesting to see. The connection in my mind to the Fermi Paradox is from the way the presenter first formed the question: if homosexual people have existed in every society and generation of humankind, but are, by-and-large, unlikely to reproduce, why are we still here? Wouldn't evolution have dispensed with an element that contributed virtually nothing to the human gene pool generation after generation? I found the postulated possibilities interesting.

 

 

There is a school of thoughts that argue there is an advantage for homosexuality in  natural selection. I can only vaguely remember the details. Basically, you need to step back from individual level and consider the familial group. A gay uncle is advantageous for propagating the familial genetic heritage.

14 minutes ago, coriolis888 said:

And you believe this?

One of my regular had a pretty scary situation last fall in Charlotte. He was threatened with violence and did not get what was agreed upon.