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He is very active on onlyfun. 

1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

Yeah, they have to register as sex offenders 

19 minutes ago, coriolis888 said:

You pay the premium membership and noticed no changes!

The entire site has changed. 

 

All photos of providers that formerly showed pubic areas of providers are now deleted.  That is a major change to the site which is quite obvious to all who look at the current rentmen forum.  

"no changes" = = = = = = = =

It seems that rear view of naked body is fine. Is this a ploy to favor bottom providers?

2 hours ago, Vin_Marco said:

                                * C H I C A G O * 

I'm interested in hearing about people's experience with the Windy City .... I have quite an interesting take  and experience with  the city that has been fighting with Houston Texas as the nations 3rd largest city.

It is a big city with a lot of things to offer except high quality providers. On my last two trips to Chicago, I failed to find a suitable provider. However, I had a lot of luck on hookup apps.

The DA described Davis as the mastermind of the shooting and his nephew as the actual shooter. The new evidence is his book.

4 hours ago, Archangel said:

No. Disagree. Vehemently.

Pay shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable? Escort quotes me $1800 for an overnight, I say I’ll pay it, but show up with $1500. What matters is that I’m a nice guy, right?

Lunacy. The idea that lying is somehow understandable and acceptable! 

Ok. Now tell me you always strictly observe the speed limits and obey every laws and ordinances 😂. I had a classmate just like that. 

1 hour ago, Archangel said:

Bringing up a resume is apt. Lying (“embellishing”) on a resume is unethical and fraudulent and if an employer found out, wouldn’t hire the applicant or would fire them. Because its wrong.

 I suppose it’s fine for a provider to embellish that they are STD free and on Prep too, even if they’re not! 

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

Cash App is like all other online payment systems and there is always a risk of fraud. There are ways to safeguard your account. 

BDSM and humanATM. He got some delightful hobbies 😂 

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

Should he advertise as a 60 years old or shave his age to 45? 

If he still looks like this, I would go with 40 😂 

2 hours ago, soloyo215 said:

Thanks. I didn't know. I wonder how long that app has been around.  Do you know?

It started around 2013.

No first hand knowledge but have been following his social media for a couple years. He seems to be a nice guy. No need to worry about his size and it definitely is not for the inexperienced 😂 

6 hours ago, Archangel said:

Tangential remark –

A lot of the “21-year-old guys” are actually much closer to 30 than they admit in their ads because youth sells. I know this for a fact. Two regulars of mine shave several years off their ages for their RM ads because they can pass for younger. Is that akin to saying you’re 9” when when you’re actually 7”? Maybe. I’m sure some here will disagree or justify such “fudging,” but the fact remains it happens. In more ways than one. The “product” is misrepresented in order to make the sale.

Aren’t we all taking the 9’ as a real 7 and a 11’ as a real 8? I am not sure that I pay much attention to the listed age on RM either 😂 

I knew that a few who listed as 30 are actually over 40 years old. But they still look young 😂. So is that an outrage or not?

19 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

What about possession of control substance?

With that list you just took 50% of providers from your "hiring pool". 

 

You are probably right 😂 

1 hour ago, Nodalguy said:

I was able to find out the real first name of a provider once because of an online service he used to send me some info. Using just that plus the fact that I knew he had been arrested and the general area and rough time period, I was able to search through public records and find out his full identity and pull his criminal record (had to pay for the criminal record pull, but I used the info I got freely to request it). A couple other rentboy regulars I also was able to look up with just their real first name and pull their criminal records. 

I didn't do anything with the info at all, but I did want to confirm what kinds of charges they were prosecuted for (nothing that concerned me, just possession of controlled substances and DUI, that sort of thing). Nothing violent, no theft or robbery, no fraud.

I guess my point is just to be careful. Depending on the circumstances, even just a real first name can be really revealing.

I do background checks too. Speeding or DUI are fine. Theft and identity fraud are iffy. Assault and drug trafficking are deal breakers 

“Hotlanta” is the black gay Mecca or hoe central depending on how you want to look at it 😂 

On 9/1/2023 at 1:23 PM, caramelsub said:

I just hate how the lgbtq friendly cities tend to be extremely expensive. 

I guess the reason is gays have more disposable incomes 

33 minutes ago, edinbrooklyn said:

He’s epically skilled at using that. For me, very relaxed.  Just a bit queeny, believe it or not.

Cutler being queeny? I actually can see that

29 minutes ago, BonVivant said:

I loved reading all these stories. Very entertaining. We don’t have these problems in Manhattan……

But the constant constructions and detours can be problematic. 

13 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:
 

Like dude, I’m 36 now. Were you making the same at 36 as you were at 21? For fucks sake, recognize the value of the service. My services hasn’t gone done in quality. At all. At all. 

Age may be part of the problem. Gays are the worst ageists. One of my friends just posted on facebook that he felt like 58 in gay ages lol because he just turned 29

29 minutes ago, solacesoul said:

It’s now (new law as of 2021) a felony in the State of Texas — the second most populous state in the USA — to engage or offer to engage in an act of prostitution. First-time is 2 years in jail and a $10,000 fine. Second time is a third-degree felony with even harsher penalties.

 

I knew someone who was arrested in Austin for prostitution even before the new law in Texas. He just finished his probation last year.

1 hour ago, The Big Guy said:

My experience wit burner numbers is that when using one of the reverse number ID services, no information is available.   So I think that is why I sometimes get the no response from a provider.  Unless I am missing something is there another way to tell if it’s a burner number?  Also, I still tend to get a pretty good percentage of answered messages when using my burner number. I will probably continue using it for now.  

I vaguely remember that there is a website that will tell you which company provides cellular service to a cell phone number. A burner number will be identified by the company providing service. So a google number will be clearly identified as a google voice number.

11 minutes ago, dcman said:

Hard to book with and refuses to send a current selfie.  I have a feeling someone other than that in the photos will show up.

Those pictures are probably very old and they were used by someone on A4A for years. Clearly it is a case of catfishing

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

Maybe I’m crazy. I visited New Orleans earlier this year for a few days during Mardi Gras. I stayed in the French Quarter on Chartes Street. In the evenings, I walked out of my AirBnB wearing nothing but a jockstrap and tennis shoes. I milled around on Bourbon St between Lestat’s and the other end. As you can imagine, I earned a bunch of beads!

The drunk straight women were the most obnoxious out of anyone. They kept demanding I show them my hole lol. I declined, saying I’m already showing far more than most people. I took pictures with strangers requesting photos. It was fun. I spent the rest of the time in normal street clothes.

In my shoe I kept my ID and at most $20 in cash, often no $ at all. No room key since it was a keypad. I felt safe. I drank a little, but not even close to getting drunk. Made sure to eat as much as I drank and went long periods drinking only water. 

Quite a trip. I would go back. Next time to do more sightseeing, probably NOT during a festival. And then probably another time just for Southern Decadence.

As always, if you exercise an abundance of caution and stick to touristy areas, you should be fine. NOLA and Louisiana in general are no insular, homogeneous middle class suburb in the middle of the country. Treat it with common sense as such.

Mardi Gras is fun if you have never been to one. It would be too much to go frequently 😂