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The 9 worst restaurant chains... I just ate at an IHOP on Saturday on my way up North of NYC. Although the service is not what it used to be, my blueberry pancakes, eggs and bacon were delicious as always. No real complaints to be made. I continue to support this chain whenever I can.

This is ancient history..but when I was younger the action was always better later into the evening. There are too many "other people" around before 10:00 which forced a more discreet behavior among the local horny gays. By midnight everyone is there for the same thing so no point in pretending.

Your own failures don't mean that others arent more prepared emotionally to enjoy the company of men who seek a particular objectification of desire. Many men seek out escorts as a way to act out sexual desires that they wouldn't ask of their lover/life-partner. Thank you @DMonDude Absolutely. @charmasianman is NOT "being objectified" he is willingly OFFERING a fetish service for compensation. In no way is he a victim when he is in total command of his desire to be serviced in exchange for cash.

What "love" ? He wants to charge old men for the chance to suck his cock.

I dont think "fetishizing" ANYONE is a bad thing when it comes to sex4pay. Definitely something to avoid in romantic relationships where you are always being objectified. But sex workers are there specifically to BE objects of our desire. So if a man has a fetish for attractive Asians, I see no reason why @charmasianman shouldn't monetize that connection. His only real legitimate issues are privacy and legality.

Were they a romantic couple ? or a professional couple ? I dont watch a lot of porn, but I HAVE come across some of their performances..and I definitley enjoyed watching both of them. Very handsome men with great bodies. I remember a lot of making out so the relationship angle makes more sense now.

Dried shitake are great for simple pasta dishes. Just reconstitute them in a little water mixed with white wine . Pan fry garlic and shallots in olive oil, add the mushrooms, then simmer, add chopped parsley or basil. Serve over pasta.

That is a very good question. Logic would dictate that the discovery was not random. Secondly I would point out that this is NOT uncommon. I've read more than one discussion here about escorts being refused entry and banned for ten years or permanently.

I would like to caution you to keep this vivid language in private and in person. @Jamie21 is an experienced and intelligent provider BUT he is working in a country where escorting is LEGAL. When hiring in the United States you are always AT RISK of law enforcement if you get too direct in written form which can be used as evidence against you. Some of the gentleman here are very cavalier and will tell you "that rarely happens". Well...that may be RARE but do YOU want to be the guy that takes the bullet in a game of Russian Roulette ? You never know when a sting operation is following a lead or cleaning up a district with a local election coming up. Keep your conversation discreet until you meet and are assured you are not engaging law enforcement FIRST.

I read it clearly the first time. Maybe you should re-read MY comment. Your behavior is only going to make the situation worse with someone who sees you needing salvation. Personally I don't care what other people think about religion. so I smile and nod and walk away. Mission accomplished.

So what happens when the other person feels the SAME way ? 🤔

And you are ? 🤔

You can be self-righteous or you can be kind. The kindness get them to shut up faster. I prefer the efficiency of shutting down the conversation quickly.

Really ? Because "salvation" is always their goal...so disrespect is only going to make them feel you are in greater NEED of salvation. I find that AGREEING with religious people shuts them up faster than disagreeing. Give him an hallelujah and change the subject.

Thanks @56harrisond He's a beauty.

WHO is this beauty and where do I send an offer 🤑 ? 🔥

Tessa Majors was looking to buy weed before her murder: police union president Tessa Majors was looking to buy weed before her murder, police union... SHARE.GOOGLE Barnard College freshman Tessa Majors was allegedly in Morningside Park to buy marijuana when she was... This event launched a whole conversation about the dangers of Liberal color blindness, leading white girls into dangerous situations assuming that crime and color realites of Harlem don't exist if you pretend not to notice. I REPEAT- Never go somewhere on a hook-up if the locals tell you its unsafe. Anyway.. we are getting off subject. The question is about the appropriateness of asking an escort about foot fetish services, not just the appropriateness of navigating a sketchy neighborhood .... I would say that anyone working as an escort is fully aware that men have various kinks that they may be asked to include in a session. So even if the answer is "no"...I doubt anyone is going to be shocked or offended by a request for fetish-play. Your best bet, is always going to be the provider who includes the word "kink" in his profile interests.

If a LOCAL tells you it's not safe to travel somewhere after dark, it's a judgement based ON REALITY. People who LIVE somewhere KNOW where to go and where to avoid. Don't be like the Columbia University student who felt it was "racist" to assume black people are dangerous so she wandered in a dark park off campus to buys some weed from the local black boys. They collected her remains in a bag from the bushes the following morning. All pre-judice comes from pre-vious bad experiences.

My grandmother used to let people into her parlor from the various wandering faiths who send out missionaries to try and convert people. She would always rattle them by trying to convert THEM to HER own faith. I always found that to be slightly hysterical and to be a completely practical way of shutting someone down who tries to sell you on his own personal Jesus journey.

Tha'ts hysterical @ApexNomad. but in all seriousness. Although I don't personally like communicating anything sexual (where it can be proven that I am hiring someone for sex)...but if you must be descriptive, then I would suggest your first communications be about your sexual INTERESTS and leave the dirty talk for later. "Hi I am interested in your profile and wanted to know if you're free for a session on Tuesday at 10:00pm. I am a dominant top who's into oral, anal and spanking. Hope to hear back from you. thanks." Always keep it classy until your provider takes the lead in dirty talk.

Although at face these seem worthy goals...what you are ACTUALLY doing is living in an echo chamber and falling prey to emotional manipulation by a media that has absolutely no goal of solving the very problems of which you care about. The goal is to cause friction and distract the general public from the theft of our liberties and the wealth of the middle class.

No worries. "Swedish" tends more toward a light feel-good session, where Thai gets in there DEEP. Yes, knees forearms, even feet can be employed to move the muscle. There are other modalities that also employ deeper work too. It sounds like the this fellow does at least have training beyond the basic rub-n-tug that a lot of guys are selling.

There are definitley men who try and get masseurs to "go all the way" and have sex for the price of a massage. But its not the RULE. I have met many masseurs over the years and many of them offered sexual services once we had already established a friendly working relationship. It never occurred to me that their additional intimate offerings should be priced the same as a massage. Even the few times I've had a massage go full service in the middle of the session . ..I was always sure to pay what I would have paid an escort, by tipping exceedingly well. Massage is often a gateway to sex services but it may require you to get those men to RETURN for a specific escort appointment instead of trying to milk a $200 massage session.

Well...escorts ARE sexual commodities who DO charge according to how ripped their abs are and how "symmetrical" they appear. SO that said - ACCURATE photos are very IMPORTANT so I can know that these abs I am paying for actually show up at my hotel room. Its all very grand to talk about how "cruel" it is to "reduce" people to their appearances..but I don't feel that every provider who was gifted with good looks feels betrayed as a human because he's being objectified. Especially when hes being paid $500 or more for his good looks and naked company. You said it yourself - "gorgeous young bartender with an 8 pack". You didnt mention you brought him home for intelligent conversation or his piano playing. You brought him home for his LOOKS. So when shopping online whether its Amazon or Rent.men I think eveyone likes an accurate photo so they know what they're getting. Not everyone is sooooo wide in their tastes that they will fuck anything that walks in the door. PHOTOS should be accurate and updated bi-annualy when you're selling your looks.

What style of massage does he provide ? He lists "Thai" massage but I keep running into masseurs who claim to do Thai but only know Swedish