GymGuy

I have had good experiences with the following two guys in DC.  Ask them for their rates for various levels of service.  Both are resident in DC.  
If you are looking for a good full-body massage with a traditional HE I can recommend xDino [https://rentmasseur.com/XDino]  he offers a range of options.
Another option is JohnSaints [https://rentmasseur.com/JohnSaints].  He offers a range of options from therapeutic to highly sensual-erotic.  
Feel free to Private Message me here on the site if you want more details as to what you might expect from these guys.
 

Sorry this happened to you! In addition to what they recommend above I explicitly say when I reach out to them to say that I don’t party and am not interested in meeting up with guys who do. It’s direct but it helps set the stage in advance. Thankfully they’ve all acknowledged they either don’t party, or won’t party when meetings and it’s worked out for me (until it doesn’t) 

Check their ads for any keywords. 
 
PNP, Party, random G or K capital letters, clouds, smoke, crystal emojis or party hat emojis. “Long sessions” can also mean drug usage 

Not cowardly, and exactly the correct and safe and SMARTEST way to extract yourself from this situation. 
 
Two things - #1. Don't hire provide who list that they are involved with PNP. 
and #2 - while it is indeed a sad situation, it is not your problem to fix him, but it is best that you leave a review here to warn others of your experience. It is not unfair to help others not be in this situation as well. 
You yourself may have benefited from others leaving warnings of this kind of danger. Pay it forward. 
And what to do when they show up high? exactly what you did do. The only other thing you can do is make sure it doesn't happen to someone else.
Wait a few weeks if you don't want to leave a review that he can trace back to you. 

I have had good experiences with the following two guys in DC.  Ask them for their rates for various levels of service.  Both are resident in DC.  
If you are looking for a good full-body massage with a traditional HE I can recommend xDino [https://rentmasseur.com/XDino]  he offers a range of options.
Another option is JohnSaints [https://rentmasseur.com/JohnSaints].  He offers a range of options from therapeutic to highly sensual-erotic.  
Feel free to Private Message me here on the site if you want more details as to what you might expect from these guys.
 

“Side” can be much more than just oral. It really just defines as “non penetrative” sex. I for one love frottage, and consider it “side” play.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side

Jeez, that was pretty much every night during my junior year in boarding school.  

Reason #45 that I’ve never downloaded any of these dating/“hook-up” apps.

Oh, my poor, innocent young friend! You really think Grindr is a “dating” app?? 😆 The word you are looking for is “hookup”! 😉  

I’ve had many a torrid session with just oral and role play. 

That's great! I never knew I had a name before. I feel so welcomed 😌!

A “side” is a person who prefers oral only to anal activities (it’s a position like top, bottom, or vers).

That was one of my earlier sexual experiences.  Then in the last couple/three years it is often my preference, especially when provided as the grand finale of a highly sensual-erotic massage session.  Btw, several here have used the term "side."  Forgive my apparent wonderment, but I take it that being a "side" is slang for 69 or preferring oral?

With a masseur I ask for sensual when I schedule, then, when I’m on his table, I ask if he does erotic.  I figure that signals to him what I want.  What happens next is what he’s comfortable with.   If I hire an escort, the expectation of sex is pretty clear so being direct is easier.

Handjob is a happy ending. Blowjob is a VERY happy ending.

My local selection, although large, is full of rather unappealing providers these days. I can enjoy a vivid Jack-off session before falling into a deep sleep for free.

As prices have increased, so have my standards of what I’m willing to accept.
When guys want $400/hr they better be perfect and EXACTLY what I want. That rarely happens.  Ive found less expensive outlets to satisfy my urges

Over the last year or so I am finding myself hiring providers more for oral service, often 69 to mutual completion, rather than anal sex.  With me this trend began with a couple of RentMasseur providers giving excellent oral HE's at or near the end of the massage session.  Curious if many clients out there hire only for oral and if you providers have oral-only clients.

I'm mostly a side these days, too, and hire escorts accordingly.  Not that I don't like anal.  In my fantasy life I top and bottom until the cows come home.  However, at my age and diminished health, effectively topping is difficult even with pharmaceutical and mechanical intervention and I always liked the idea of bottoming more than the reality of it -- too much preparation and physical discomfort to enjoy it often.  I've never had an escort turn me down for a side-activities-only session.  In the moment, some escorts express a desire to go further (one way or the other), but turning them down hasn't affected the quality of the session.

The vast majority of my escort encounters (in only about 2 years of hiring) and hookups in general (in about 14 years of hooking up albeit rarely) have been oral only. In fact, the best oral service I ever got was from an escort who designates himself as a total top.

Over the last year or so I am finding myself hiring providers more for oral service, often 69 to mutual completion, rather than anal sex.  With me this trend began with a couple of RentMasseur providers giving excellent oral HE's at or near the end of the massage session.  Curious if many clients out there hire only for oral and if you providers have oral-only clients.

I find myself enjoying oral only play more and more as I get older so you're not alone.

Interesting.  The ones that have given it to me were RentMasseur guys who visit the DC area every few months and each had several "private" pics available on their ads.  In each case I did not request an oral HE.  They just provided one.  In scheduling the session I told them I wanted a highly sensual-erotic full-body session and they usually quoted fees ranging from $275 - $350 for 60min, the latter clearly being in the range of full escort fee.  A number of the RentMasseur guys also advertise on RentMen.  I've had four sessions with the same guy over the last six months, each time I never had to ask but always paid him $300.  Two sessions with another guy in the last 3 months who gave me one of the best ever erotic body massages (lot of butt attention) and in all of the "nice areas" with some edging before the grand finale--all for $350.  Both of these guys used very good tables rather than a bed, but clearly in the gray area between a sensual massage and escort service.

Over the last year or so I am finding myself hiring providers more for oral service, often 69 to mutual completion, rather than anal sex.  With me this trend began with a couple of RentMasseur providers giving excellent oral HE's at or near the end of the massage session.  Curious if many clients out there hire only for oral and if you providers have oral-only clients.

I'm more of a side as well! Not everyone is into anal all the time and it makes hiring easier sometimes