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    Wolfer got a reaction from newdad in Barcelona 2024   
    Yeah so your feeling is correct: while on Friday and Saturday there are the most number of providers, there are also the most number of clients so it sort of actually feels like there's about the same amount available as on the other days, simply because more of the providers will be busy with clients so fewer provisers are wandering around (because the others are in cabins or in rooms with clients). Still, Friday and Saturday is still your best bet, simply arrive at 3:30pm and wait at the foot of the stairs and watch the guys arrive. 😉
    As for a number it is very hard to say as providers come and go. Maybe anywhere between 10 and 20?
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    Wolfer got a reaction from ndy25 in Barcelona 2024   
    It's a sauna so yes, correct, as a client you are also expected (required actually) to wear only a towel. (whether you wear underwear under it or not is up to you. Most don't). 
    You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
    Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
    If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before). 
    A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline. 
    Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting). 
    You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry. 
    After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there. 
    The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
    If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
    I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
    Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna. 
    Hope this helped! 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from DMICS in Barcelona 2024   
    It's a sauna so yes, correct, as a client you are also expected (required actually) to wear only a towel. (whether you wear underwear under it or not is up to you. Most don't). 
    You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
    Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
    If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before). 
    A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline. 
    Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting). 
    You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry. 
    After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there. 
    The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
    If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
    I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
    Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna. 
    Hope this helped! 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Fernandofisio in Puerto Vallarta   
    It's weird that he only lists therapeutic but then in his "about me" section says that he does Tantric massage... Which is at the very least sensual (since both the masseur and the client should be naked for it). It would make me wary of how much professional knowledge he actually has. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Harryinny in Fernandofisio in Puerto Vallarta   
    It's weird that he only lists therapeutic but then in his "about me" section says that he does Tantric massage... Which is at the very least sensual (since both the masseur and the client should be naked for it). It would make me wary of how much professional knowledge he actually has. 
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    Wolfer reacted to MikeThomas in 411 on AlexxOscar   
    Quoted me $700 for the two of them for an hour.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Recommendation needed for lube   
    My skin and mucous membranes are overly sensitive and I've found that all standard brands end up irritating in some form or another. 
    I've been using 99% Aloe Vera gel. Just the Aloe Vera gel with a smidge of preservatives (which are always needed, since otherwise the lube develops yeast and bacteria) with no perfumes or anything else added. To me it's the best of both worlds of water and silicone: it's slick and lasts longer like silicone, but washes off easily like water based. 
    I usually carry it in an unmarked bottle (I buy a big container and transfer it) and have had guys commenting on how they liked the lube and asked me where I got it, or if I made it myself. 
    I used to also make my own lube from golden flaxseed which is absolutely top tier, but a hassle to store and there is a bit of a (not unpleasant) smell. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    The ideal time for Thermas is always between 4pm and 8pm, on any day. Fridays and Saturdays are the most busy.
    Most boys arrive between 4 and 5 and around 7 many already start to leave.
    Glad you still had fun! 😊
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    The ideal time for Thermas is always between 4pm and 8pm, on any day. Fridays and Saturdays are the most busy.
    Most boys arrive between 4 and 5 and around 7 many already start to leave.
    Glad you still had fun! 😊
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    Wolfer got a reaction from EZEtoGRU in Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    The ideal time for Thermas is always between 4pm and 8pm, on any day. Fridays and Saturdays are the most busy.
    Most boys arrive between 4 and 5 and around 7 many already start to leave.
    Glad you still had fun! 😊
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    Wolfer got a reaction from m4same in September in Europe. Where should I go?   
    Correct. The base rate is relatively cheap but only when you fly with a tiny bag with no extras and non-changeable flight. Adding baggage will quickly raise the rate (be sure to always add the baggage during the booking of your flight because at the airport it's double or triple that rate). And if you want a ticket that's refundable or can be changed it can easily double the rate. And they try to have you pay for a seat and be sure to check in online!! Checking in at the airport is crazy expensive (with Ryanair at least it is, they charge about 80 euro to print your boarding pass). 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Brussels, Belgium   
    Could you elaborate a bit more? What happened and where did you meet (or didnt)? He's in Paris now and this thread is about Brussels. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Websites to find providers?   
    In Europe the main site is Hunqz, the professional side of the gay dating site romeo.com (it used to be called GayRomeo, then changed to Planetromeo, now it's just Romeo). 
    You need to create an account on Romeo first before you can view the Hunqz profiles. You cannot view the profiles without being logged in (which is possible on rentmen) 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Brussels, Belgium   
    I thought it was probably the settings. From the articles I don't see where they will block the sites. It seems one provider has developed a suite of tools for parents to have more control over the internet acces in their house. There is mention of blocking known phishing sites, but not of adult sites. I'd be very surprised if any actual blocking were to happen since both escorting and adult movies are legal in Belgium. 
    Only one website ever was blocked by providers after the government forced them to and that's the original PirateBay, a site that distributed ways to download movies and tv series without paying for them. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from musclestuduws in Websites to find providers?   
    In Europe the main site is Hunqz, the professional side of the gay dating site romeo.com (it used to be called GayRomeo, then changed to Planetromeo, now it's just Romeo). 
    You need to create an account on Romeo first before you can view the Hunqz profiles. You cannot view the profiles without being logged in (which is possible on rentmen) 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + robear in Transition to Masseur?   
    At those rates you may be cheaper off getting a massage course in Thailand. I've heard very good things about them. Is the high cost because of the certification? Or is it just USA prices? Where I live in Europe you can get a full course (12 lessons) for about 900 dollars. Masseurs don't need certification or a license though where I live. 
    When I look for erotic massages, I take any claims of training in the profile with a grain of salt. Having said that, I do think being actually trained and good at massage will make it more likely to get repeat business. 
    When I book an erotic massage, I really do also want to get a good massage. I usually don't go back to someone who gives me a bad massage, even if the erotic elements were fun. So I think it's good to at least get SOME training. A lot can be learned by just doing a one day workshop or a weekend training. I'm sure there are options like that that don't cost 8k or upwards. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from liubit in Websites to find providers?   
    In Europe the main site is Hunqz, the professional side of the gay dating site romeo.com (it used to be called GayRomeo, then changed to Planetromeo, now it's just Romeo). 
    You need to create an account on Romeo first before you can view the Hunqz profiles. You cannot view the profiles without being logged in (which is possible on rentmen) 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Transition to Masseur?   
    At those rates you may be cheaper off getting a massage course in Thailand. I've heard very good things about them. Is the high cost because of the certification? Or is it just USA prices? Where I live in Europe you can get a full course (12 lessons) for about 900 dollars. Masseurs don't need certification or a license though where I live. 
    When I look for erotic massages, I take any claims of training in the profile with a grain of salt. Having said that, I do think being actually trained and good at massage will make it more likely to get repeat business. 
    When I book an erotic massage, I really do also want to get a good massage. I usually don't go back to someone who gives me a bad massage, even if the erotic elements were fun. So I think it's good to at least get SOME training. A lot can be learned by just doing a one day workshop or a weekend training. I'm sure there are options like that that don't cost 8k or upwards. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Transition to Masseur?   
    At those rates you may be cheaper off getting a massage course in Thailand. I've heard very good things about them. Is the high cost because of the certification? Or is it just USA prices? Where I live in Europe you can get a full course (12 lessons) for about 900 dollars. Masseurs don't need certification or a license though where I live. 
    When I look for erotic massages, I take any claims of training in the profile with a grain of salt. Having said that, I do think being actually trained and good at massage will make it more likely to get repeat business. 
    When I book an erotic massage, I really do also want to get a good massage. I usually don't go back to someone who gives me a bad massage, even if the erotic elements were fun. So I think it's good to at least get SOME training. A lot can be learned by just doing a one day workshop or a weekend training. I'm sure there are options like that that don't cost 8k or upwards. 
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    Wolfer reacted to Luv2play in Clothing Options Requests   
    I’ve never actually had that happen to me. Only once did I feel an escort not wear the appropriate outfit and that was in NYC with a guy who was doing porn for Lucas Entertainment at the time. 
    I had met with him previously in  Montreal and we had several dates set up for my trip to NY. It was our first night together and I had told him where we were going, to an upscale restaurant close to my mid town hotel.
    He showed up in cut off jeans and a tank top. Of course it showed off his gorgeous physique so I just went with the flow.
    At the restaurant the maître d’  placed us at a table discreetly tucked away near the rear with quite subdued lighting.
    But we got excellent service with all the male waiters responding to our every request and even unspoken desire. They were especially solicitous to my date. When the time came for the check, they didn’ t bother to ask but just handed it me. 😂
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Redwine56 in What are you doing New Year’s Eve?   
    I bought all my favorite foods and am staying in both binge eating while binge watching tv 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + BobPS in What are you doing New Year’s Eve?   
    I bought all my favorite foods and am staying in both binge eating while binge watching tv 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Simon Suraci in What are you doing New Year’s Eve?   
    I bought all my favorite foods and am staying in both binge eating while binge watching tv 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from MikeBiDude in What are you doing New Year’s Eve?   
    I bought all my favorite foods and am staying in both binge eating while binge watching tv 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Jamie21 in What are you doing New Year’s Eve?   
    I bought all my favorite foods and am staying in both binge eating while binge watching tv 
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