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Wolfer got a reaction from themsg in Strangest or unique request you've received or given
Apparently asking for real, good, full body cuddles has been overwhelmingly strange to most providers when I ask for them. Almost all were not very good nor comfortable at cuddling and could only do it for about 5 minutes before getting bored or uncomfortable.
And yes, I do explicitly make it very clear that cuddling is really important to me when enquiring about a provider's services.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Charlie in Strangest or unique request you've received or given
I haven't been so fortunate. Where I live the overwhelming majority are focused on providing the "no strings attched, treat you like dirt" dominant top fantasy. And I love (and long for) intimate, sappy, gazing in each other's eyes, cuddle sessions with cute, insatiable bottoms.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Charlie in Strangest or unique request you've received or given
Apparently asking for real, good, full body cuddles has been overwhelmingly strange to most providers when I ask for them. Almost all were not very good nor comfortable at cuddling and could only do it for about 5 minutes before getting bored or uncomfortable.
And yes, I do explicitly make it very clear that cuddling is really important to me when enquiring about a provider's services.
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Wolfer got a reaction from DunwoodyGuy in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
I think that's full sex service and that's usually between 150 to 200 euro for one hour. Though I think 90 minutes or 2 hours would be better if you want to combine it with a full massage.
The guy I would recommend has his profile expired and hasn't logged in for a while, so not sure if he's available.
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Wolfer got a reaction from VersOral in Barcelona 2024
It's a sauna so yes, correct, as a client you are also expected (required actually) to wear only a towel. (whether you wear underwear under it or not is up to you. Most don't).
You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before).
A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline.
Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting).
You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry.
After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there.
The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna.
Hope this helped!
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Wolfer got a reaction from DunwoodyGuy in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
I shared this in the other Barcelona thread but it seems this thread is the one where all info is kept. Here's my info on sauna Thermas:
You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before).
A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline.
Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting).
You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry.
After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there.
The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are (usually) Wednesday, Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna.
Hope this helped!
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Wolfer got a reaction from thomas in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
Providers will actively approach you and propose their services. I've been going for years and I've never had a problem identifying who were the providers. The gorgeous sauna goers tend to go to the non-escort saunas in Barcelona. Barcelona is rife with gorgeous men all fucking each other for free so they don't go and pay at Thermas, as far as I know. The only time I've seen such guys at Thermas was after the Saturday party and the party goers had stayed around. They weren't being clients though, they were just hanging out and having drinks.
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Wolfer reacted to Zippo5 in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
Have been in Barcelona for a few days and leaving tomorrow. Hadn’t been to Thermas on a Wednesday before, and can confirm that it is a very busy night. I’d already arranged to see Angelo there on Thursday, but he now works there Wednesday as it’s so busy.
Thursday was quieter, but not hugely so. Friday was as busy as Wednesday, but the sauna was closing at 7 for a private party. When I asked Angelo what this was he said that it happens occasionally, and that this time it was for a lesbian party.
Hoping to enjoy more fun tonight with some familiar faces but some new finds this time include Alex from Colombia (quite short but not where it counts), and Gabriel from Brazil (glasses with a sleeve tattoo on left arm-not into tattoos but it suits him).
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Charlie in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off
I love both. I'm 6' and I love it when a guy is a lot shorter than me or taller than me. Interestingly I don't meet a lot of men who are around my height, but I love those too.
I just love fucking men.
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Wolfer reacted to Tico in 411 on Azat in LA?
Okay, here's the 411 on Azat.
I met him in San Francisco. He's been living in the Bay Area for less than six months, but he told me he prefers Los Angeles because he finds people there friendlier.
For anyone wondering, he's from Turkey, not Iran, despite what someone else claimed in another post. He's apparently single and works as a personal trainer. When he's not seeing clients through the RM site, he drives for Uber.
His English isn't very strong, so there were several times when he misunderstood what I was saying, and communication could be a bit challenging. His stats on the site aren't accurate either. His stats were too flattering on the RM site, but one can pretty much notice that by paying attention to his pictures. Despite being willing to share basic information about himself, he's generally very private and quiet.
He required a two-hour minimum, and his rate isn't cheap. Many reviews describe him as a nice guy, and I'd agree—he seemed a kind person. He doesn't drink or smoke. He likes to take care of his body.
Would I see him again? No.
He answered all of my questions before we met, so I thought I had a good idea of what to expect. He describes himself as bisexual, though I came away with the impression that he may be more interested in women. That's just my personal impression, not something he explicitly said.
He only plays safe, so if that's not what you're looking for, he's probably not a good match. Aside from kissing, he doesn't enjoy giving other forms of oral. He only receives it. He enjoys having his body worshipped.
In the end, neither of us reached the proverbial "happy ending." He seemed interested in conserving his energy for other clients later, and I found myself turned off by some of the limitations I mentioned above.
Hopefully this helps anyone who's considering spending time with him in the future.
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Wolfer got a reaction from thomas in Experienced Masseur in Barcelona, Spain
I had some fun with Riki years ago in Barcelona, I did his hourlong Tantra massage. Friendly and very interactive. But it seems he no longer offers therapeutic massages anymore (he used to) so he may not be what you're looking for.
https://www.gaymassage.es/
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Wolfer reacted to andrewlawrence in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
So my trip finished. I went to Thermas for three days Tue, Wed, and Thu in the hot week of July 2026. 3/4pm to 7/8pm.
In terms of being busy, Tuesday was the most quiet, but still had a decent selection of good-looking providers. At 5-6pm there were around 15-20 providers and the same number of clients. Wednesday was by far the most crowded day among these days, with multiple hot providers to choose from. Easily 30+ providers. Many clients too. Thursday was better than Tuesday, but cannot be as busy and bustling as Wednesday.
In terms of the providers, I was pleasantly surprised! they are absolutely gorgeous! A lot of them are very fit or muscular, masculine horny young men parading around talking to clients and showing off their impressive "manhood". No feminine providers . Most of them have nice long thick fat gorgeous manhood that can get hard within split second! They're quite easy going . Some would go around flashing or swinging their manhood. Some would give you a little preview of it. Some would let you touch and rub it. Basically look, touch, and try before anything further is the best thing in here that the traditional platforms like RMen or Hqz can't offer. I've met so many guys on RM that were essentially catfishes or couldn't get hard (or maybe I wasn't attractive enough who knows) etc. I was able to avoid all these problems visiting here.
Some memorable booking experiences. I booked one super sexy fit Venezuelan / Dominican guy whose face somewhat bears a resemblance to Wentworth Miller - only more handsome IMO, and whose passion and force in our session was borderline aggressive. I appreciated his style, I had no problem with it, but he may run into trouble with other clients for it. Couldn't give him advice as I don't know any word he speaks. Then there was another super muscular Brazillian gentleman with thick shouders , pecs and a big thick fat tool. Still got horny thinking about how heavenly it felt sticking your mouth on his mountain of pecs and nipples.
An overwhelming majority of providers are Latinos (Brazil, Venezuela, Dominican Republic). Some are black. Didn't see any local Barcelonian providers. If you were primarily looking for white Caucasian men / daddies / bears, you'd be disappointed. This is Tue Wed Thu, not sure about weekends. During my three days I only saw 1. one tall Russian gentleman that I booked a session once. He has very slim body with beautiful face, foxy mesmerising eyes and gorgeous hair (think David Gandy but slimmer) - totally can be a cover model for any magazines or shows. 2. One middle-aged Romanian who's probably drug addicted. and 3. two sexy Greek providers with big tools who are Hispanic not scandinavian white. Clients, however, are predominantly Caucasians aged 60+, probably not the Caucasians you'd be looking for. Occassionally there's a client or two worth landing your eyes on, but that's about it.
Pricing-wise, I never asked the providers how much they'd charge, but I followed the advice here and proposed either 50 or 60 EUR for a session. In total I had fun with approx 7 providers there and they accepted this pricing instantly - no one ever asked for more. Very good price for intimate service.
In terms of cleanliness, Thermas doesn't disappoint. Staff regularly cleaned the rooms and bathrooms.
Looking into future, sincerely hope Thermas will always be there for people to come and enjoy the excellent service of gorgeous men especially those from Latin or African backgrounds. But to me its existence is not without a threat. Most independent escorts in Barcelona knows about Thermas and while Thermas has kept their pricing down to more competive levels, I don't think they are very happy with it and some may have reported it already...
Can't wait to visit Thermas next year for a full week!
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Wolfer got a reaction from andrewlawrence in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
Providers will actively approach you and propose their services. I've been going for years and I've never had a problem identifying who were the providers. The gorgeous sauna goers tend to go to the non-escort saunas in Barcelona. Barcelona is rife with gorgeous men all fucking each other for free so they don't go and pay at Thermas, as far as I know. The only time I've seen such guys at Thermas was after the Saturday party and the party goers had stayed around. They weren't being clients though, they were just hanging out and having drinks.
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Wolfer reacted to andrewlawrence in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
Anyway I’ll be in Barcelona next week excluding weekends. I’ll share my experience.
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Wolfer got a reaction from andrewlawrence in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
Here's my info on sauna Thermas:
You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before).
A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline.
Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting).
You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry.
After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there.
The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are (usually) Wednesday, Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Jacob_b in How to bring up more with your masseur.
Because I desire both an excellent quality massage and sex in the same session. Most escorts I've been with that offered massage were often just a rubdown.
I broach the subject in my first contact with a masseur. Masseurs I've had contact with have been open (and willing) to discuss these things upfront (but then sexwork is completely legal where I work).
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Wolfer reacted to thatsjhonmanuel in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
Just don't visit during holidays or events, it's a hit or miss. I have not been here for a while but it seems some guys already left.
I went on the 23rd June, which Eve of San Joan so there is literally five providers there. Lol. But I end up with a new favorite guy named Mario says he's from Romania. Hot body and striking face. Like that man is working, lol. I enjoyed my time with him.
Funny thing on Wednesday there are more visitors that you get confused who are the providers unless they really offer it. I end up hooking up with two visitors from US.
I tried coming in Thursday but I came in 6pm, Andrey from Colombia is already leaving. Hooked up with another Colombian named Alexandro who has a hot body but terrible didn't tell me he prefers to bottom. And Alejandro from DR which is okay.
So my 3 day stint is kinda disappointing except for new client favorite Mario.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Jacob_b in Swallowing Yes/No
STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not.
As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it.
I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Yellowrod in Swallowing Yes/No
STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not.
As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it.
I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Swallowing Yes/No
STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not.
As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it.
I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Swallowing Yes/No
I don't know if there's been actual studies done on this, but I've always been told by healthcare professionals that swallowing is actually safer than spitting since the cum stays in your mouth a lot less longer. Unless you immediately spit it out without even grabbing a napkin or running to a sink.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Swallowing Yes/No
STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not.
As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it.
I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it.
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Wolfer reacted to maninsoma in Escort rates
The problem with inflation calculations is that the more expensive something is, the greater the overall added cost will be if the same percentage is applied.
For example, say a client made $30 per hour working full time in 2000. That would have meant an annual gross salary of $62,400. At that time, typical escort rates were $150-$200/hour where I lived, and lower priced escorts were easily found on sites like Craigslist. Just calculating the higher cost option, the difference between the escort's hourly rate and the client's hourly salary was $170. There's been about 95% inflation since then, so assuming the client has the same job and his salary has only increased the rate of inflation. That would mean his salary is currently a little more than $58/hour while the escort's is about $390. That's a difference of $332. Most people actually get raises more than typical inflation (whether due to changing jobs, getting a promotion, etc), so let's say the client makes three times as much as he did in 2000. That's still only $90/hour, which makes the difference between the escort's hourly rate and the client's salary about $300. Looking at the math in this way, it's easy to see how hiring has become more expensive for a middle class or working class person in terms of share of their disposable income.
I didn't post the above to argue that escorts shouldn't be able to set their own prices but rather to explain why some clients' perspectives might be that, at current rates, many providers aren't "worth it" for them. Cost isn't the principal reason I drastically reduced my hiring, but I'll admit that as rates rose and my experiences were generally diminished (probably somewhat due to me being less attractive as I aged but also, frankly, more providers entering the market simply to make a buck with seemingly no motivation to actually focus on the clients' experiences) I started feeling like most of my hires simply weren't "worth it." Paying someone hundreds of dollars an hour should result in more enjoyment than one can have with one's own hand.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Wings246 in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off
I love both. I'm 6' and I love it when a guy is a lot shorter than me or taller than me. Interestingly I don't meet a lot of men who are around my height, but I love those too.
I just love fucking men.
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Wolfer got a reaction from thomas in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off
I love both. I'm 6' and I love it when a guy is a lot shorter than me or taller than me. Interestingly I don't meet a lot of men who are around my height, but I love those too.
I just love fucking men.