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Extremely handsome!

Extremely handsome!

1)Find ways to prevent that before it happens, don't jump right into the main action at the beginning of the session.

2)The main action isn't everything, there can be other parts such as cuddling, massage, etc... though it might be better to start the session with these things then move more into the main action.

You will have no problem at all getting what you want from the provider who fits your dream ideal. That is why the provider is there. Trust me. I know. 

Your dimensions are fine. It’s your wallet that does the talking. 
 
Go have fun. Now!

Sometimes, hiring can keep one poor.  Like drinking, gambling, shopping, smoking, traveling, etc., it all costs money.  It's not how much one earns, but how much one keeps, that makes a man wealthy.
Hiring may keep a man wealthy if it helps him avoid a rotten marriage and/or a financially disastrous divorce.
It's much cheaper to pay an escort by the hour than to pay a spouse by the marriage/divorce.

I enjoy that same scenario!  Some amazing things have happened!

I would definitely get out of my regular mode and switch to exploring overdrive for this fine gent!
I like a regular group of guys for many of the reasons presented!  It is always fun to chase a shiny new thing though!😈

I would definitely get out of my regular mode and switch to exploring overdrive for this fine gent!
I like a regular group of guys for many of the reasons presented!  It is always fun to chase a shiny new thing though!😈

He is definitely worth a go!

Looks familiar

Don’t over think things!  You are fine!  Celebrate your sexuality!  You will find so many gents that will enjoy someone just like you!!!

Don’t over think things!  You are fine!  Celebrate your sexuality!  You will find so many gents that will enjoy someone just like you!!!

I’ve spent a weekend with him.  I think he will meet and exceed your expectations@top12342781

Once was enough for me.   He'll do whatever you want but he has a strange personality.  No interest, no passion and more or less just went through the motions.  Definitely a YMMV hire.  

I agree with your observation.  He feels lifelike but it feels like having sex with a doll.

Don’t over think things!  You are fine!  Celebrate your sexuality!  You will find so many gents that will enjoy someone just like you!!!

Please take all the great suggestions from the previous comments on this thread! There is some awesome advice on this thread for you!
 
Welcome to the forum, @bigfattie! I understand your reservations, better than most. I have only been hiring for less than a year.
I am a virgin with men, not with women, so this has been a whole new experience for me. Having sex with men, has been an interesting and amazing journey. 
I am a much bigger guy than you. I am 6’ 1” and weigh 285 lbs and I am 64 years old.
I truly thought I would find one or two providers, who would give oral, rim, top or bottom me. To my pleasant surprise, every provider I have contacted was very supportive and willing to provide all the services that I was curious about. Even though I prefer being a Side, which for me entails, oral, rimming and other fetishes. 
 
The key to a successful and enjoyable encounters with providers is fairly simple. Most importantly, communicate clearly what you want and need. Also, be kind, pleasant and respectful, which you sure seem to be.  Of course, being really clean and hygienic, which you are. I also am always on time and give a tip for great service. 
 
If you follow these steps, I promise you will a number of great providers to choose from. You will be amazed how much fun and great sex you can experience! 
 
My only regret in exploring my gay sexuality is that didn’t start hiring years ago!
Get out there and find some great providers, who will give you the tools to explore and enjoy some awesome sex with a variety of guys! 

Welcome, @bigfattie,  I am a bigger guy as well and I’m pretty sure I was bigger than you when I first hired. I don’t know the exact number but I think I’ve had less than five guys say no based on my size or when I gave them my picture.  As @big-n-tall said look for profiles that are into ‘bears’ or that say ‘I welcome all shapes and sizes’ or something similar.  Have fun and be safe! 

When you do a search for providers (if you're using rentmen) in your area be sure to look for ones that have "bears" in their intos. Also read the ad copy carefully. Some guys will specifically state they are into bigger men.

Wow!  That sounds like so much fun!

Wow!  That sounds like so much fun!

Wow!  That sounds like so much fun!

Actually, he was inside me for 45 minutes but not fucking all the time....one interesting position was we were spooning and he was inside me but being still and not thrusting, however, every now and often, his hard cock would twitch and send waves of pleasure through me....think of a stone thrown onto a pond and the ripples spreading throughout 

Amazing some of these wonderful anal and prostate massage techniques these fellas have developed over the past several years!  Guessing this is a “side” session!  Whatever it is it’s a lot of fun and feels amazing!

“Side” can be much more than just oral. It really just defines as “non penetrative” sex. I for one love frottage, and consider it “side” play.
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side