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I prefer to pay in cash the first time I meet a provider. I like to make sure he sees me put the money on the table then excuse myself to the bathroom. This allows him to count it or not while I'm out of the room. Once a provider miscounted/undercounted the amount and asked about it when I returned to the room. I said it was correct and I asked him to recount, awkward.

I met a new friend this week!  When I walked in he did the traditional behind the door opening!  He was fully clothed and I could tell he was a bit nervous!  We chit chatted for a bit and he started to relax somewhat!  I was eager to get things rolling just in case he was a clock watcher!  
I started to undress and he took his shoes off!  A first for me he asked if we could move to the couch and visit some more!  I said sure!  We started talking sports and he told me about his track and football past and shared mine!  The ice totally melted!  He asked if I wanted to see his running legs!  “Why of course I do”
Boom!  It was all fireworks after that!  Can’t wait to see him again! 

I met a new friend this week!  When I walked in he did the traditional behind the door opening!  He was fully clothed and I could tell he was a bit nervous!  We chit chatted for a bit and he started to relax somewhat!  I was eager to get things rolling just in case he was a clock watcher!  
I started to undress and he took his shoes off!  A first for me he asked if we could move to the couch and visit some more!  I said sure!  We started talking sports and he told me about his track and football past and shared mine!  The ice totally melted!  He asked if I wanted to see his running legs!  “Why of course I do”
Boom!  It was all fireworks after that!  Can’t wait to see him again! 

I find all types of variations with new clients.   
Some clients will  start kissing and heavily making out upon walking in the door - even before clothes are off -   with disrobing revealing two rock hard members.
Other less experienced or perhaps shy clients will be looking for me to take the lead.   If we have never met, and they don't just come right on to me,  I will sit down for a moment with them to give a short introduction,  asking about how they would like to spend time with me, and stating that I am always respectful of their boundaries and limits while also their goals and desires.
 

I usually start taking my shoes off the moment I walk in the door. That tends to get the ball rolling for what is to come. I have to admit, my favorite, vanilla fetish is to have the provider open the door in just a robe or a towel wrapped around his waist. With just a tug, I can have him naked with his cock down my throat before the door has closed. 

I met a new friend this week!  When I walked in he did the traditional behind the door opening!  He was fully clothed and I could tell he was a bit nervous!  We chit chatted for a bit and he started to relax somewhat!  I was eager to get things rolling just in case he was a clock watcher!  
I started to undress and he took his shoes off!  A first for me he asked if we could move to the couch and visit some more!  I said sure!  We started talking sports and he told me about his track and football past and shared mine!  The ice totally melted!  He asked if I wanted to see his running legs!  “Why of course I do”
Boom!  It was all fireworks after that!  Can’t wait to see him again! 

I met a new friend this week!  When I walked in he did the traditional behind the door opening!  He was fully clothed and I could tell he was a bit nervous!  We chit chatted for a bit and he started to relax somewhat!  I was eager to get things rolling just in case he was a clock watcher!  
I started to undress and he took his shoes off!  A first for me he asked if we could move to the couch and visit some more!  I said sure!  We started talking sports and he told me about his track and football past and shared mine!  The ice totally melted!  He asked if I wanted to see his running legs!  “Why of course I do”
Boom!  It was all fireworks after that!  Can’t wait to see him again! 

I met a new friend this week!  When I walked in he did the traditional behind the door opening!  He was fully clothed and I could tell he was a bit nervous!  We chit chatted for a bit and he started to relax somewhat!  I was eager to get things rolling just in case he was a clock watcher!  
I started to undress and he took his shoes off!  A first for me he asked if we could move to the couch and visit some more!  I said sure!  We started talking sports and he told me about his track and football past and shared mine!  The ice totally melted!  He asked if I wanted to see his running legs!  “Why of course I do”
Boom!  It was all fireworks after that!  Can’t wait to see him again! 

This guy's tongue has a life on its own. He reaches parts inside my hole that I didn't know I had.
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I don’t particularly enjoy BEING rimmed, but my regulars love rimming me. The other night I did an overnight with a regular to help him celebrate his 27th birthday and he must have been down there for ten minutes. He said I had a very clean hole. I try!

The best rimmers let you sit on their face while you jack off. I’ve had many an orgasm from skilled NYC guys who did that.

It seems to me that friends that meet you at door with just a towel on, are eager to have immediate fun!
With just a thong is about the same as a towel!
T-shirt and thong is a bit of a chat before fun!
Fully dressed is definitely a chat session and then fun!
Just some observations from over the years of exploring this wonderful hobby!

When I do out calls to clients hotel they are sometimes naked or in the hotel gown when they open the door. One guy was actually in the shower as I knocked, he had the door slightly open and he called out “come in, it’s open” so in I went. He invited me to join him in there, so I did. Nice way to begin. 

My fastest ever…I let a repeat hire know I would answer the door naked. He knocked, and when I opened, he was already undressing. I was all over him, and he was still undressing. We were lathering up immediately. Less than 10 seconds after the door closed, he was naked. That was an all-star night and success story.  He’s in Europe now, and man oh man, I miss him. 😍

This reminds me of a particular provider. The very first time I met him, he opened the door completely naked and hard. We had an absolute blast together and ended up seeing each other many times. Some truly great memories.

I like to unwrap a beautiful gift, so I request they be wearing clothes when I arrive, which I will remove for them. Intimate touch through fabric goes well with kissing, as layers disappear and we'll have discussed consent by the time we're naked. I never book less than 90m, to make sure this happens when hiring escorts. 

It seems to me that friends that meet you at door with just a towel on, are eager to have immediate fun!
With just a thong is about the same as a towel!
T-shirt and thong is a bit of a chat before fun!
Fully dressed is definitely a chat session and then fun!
Just some observations from over the years of exploring this wonderful hobby!

It seems to me that friends that meet you at door with just a towel on, are eager to have immediate fun!
With just a thong is about the same as a towel!
T-shirt and thong is a bit of a chat before fun!
Fully dressed is definitely a chat session and then fun!
Just some observations from over the years of exploring this wonderful hobby!

Interesting chat. Mostly clients like a bit of chat but also affectionate touch as soon as they arrive. It depends on if they are regular or not. Regulars the kissing can start at the door. One client has his cock out as I open the door…he’s keen to maximise value for money. 
 

Depends on the person and what services they are providing. Most providers are ok with chatting before doing anything.
Because I have a number of regulars I've known for years we start off with a chat to catch up if I haven't talked to them recently. Then the fun begins. Most of the masseurs want to chat first. Only one was quick to get sensual/erotic and sometimes sexual the moment I step into the living room of his house.
A couple of my escort regulars will make out as soon as possible when we're alone. Some as soon as I walk into their room... some as soon as we step into an elevator alone... some as soon as we get to my the car.
Sometimes I'm nervous with a first time hire and I'll want to talk a bit before hand.

Instantly.
Either the chemistry is there or it’s not.
As a Grindr hook up once said to me, “I really like having sex with you, let’s not fuck that up with words”.  

I find starting by taking a shower together quickly moves to rubbing and tugging. 

Friends,  headed to Detroit next week!  Anyone have experience or recommendations for providers!  It would be greatly appreciated!
Cheers

I might have caused that!  Lol!  Kinda told him everyone was on to his scheme!

I might have caused that!  Lol!  Kinda told him everyone was on to his scheme!