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San Francisco must still work for some traveling escorts since some guys seem to visit here for a few days to a week every few months. I think that being a successful traveling escort makes sense for a guy who is able to connect with clients in a way that they want to hire them again when they return to their area. If clients have a "one and done" attitude towards someone they hired, then with each visit to a particular area the escort has a smaller pool of potential clients.

Sexual attraction for me has always worked in two ways: There are men who, on first glance, catch my attention. In other words, they are lookers -- at least to my eyes. This is a relatively small percentage of men. Then there are men who might not initially catch my eye but once I look a little more I see their attractive qualities. This is a much, much larger group of men. I've enjoyed sex with men from each category and I've had boring sex with men from each, too. All things considered, I generally think I prefer to be with someone who turns me on but who doesn't look like a model.

I've stumbled across Hot.com when I search an escort's phone number to see if he has ads on any site other than where I found him (which is typically Rentmen). Or sometimes a reverse image search, though I rarely do that any more as I mostly just get nonsensical search results when searching by image.

I'd rather look at him than listen to him (I only made it to the minute mark in that awful song), but I'm not really that motivated to look at him, either. I mean, he's nice looking but I already follow a lot of hotter guys on Instagram just to look at their sexy photos.

The number of guys I've hired is in the low hundreds. Outside of that, I really have no idea. I stopped keeping track in my 20s when I reached 50. I've never been particularly sexually active outside of relationships, so my number is probably a lot lower than many other guys here -- maybe a total of a few hundred.

He could be cute if it weren't for all of the tattoos (particularly on the face) and the drugged-out zombie look in his eyes.

Before I opened this thread, I thought it was going to be a complaint about guys cumming on the face instead of on the tongue. 😛😋

It makes sense to me that he might not respond if he has no formal training, given the way you asked the question. Your inquiry expressed a desire to hire someone with formal training, and if he doesn't have that then there really was no reason to keep a conversation going. I think that if you asked something more open ended like "Do you have any formal training or are you self-taught" that would have left the door open.

Maybe it's just me, but I could not log in using my old password. I clicked the forgot password link, was sent an email, and then logged in creating a new password. Problem is I use this site on two different computers, and the new password wouldn't work on my second computer, using either my email address or user name. So I clicked "forgot password" again and clicked the link in the email and logged back in, setting a new password. I hope the next time I try to access the site it logs me in automatically or at least accepts the password I enter.

That sounds so odd. Why would he go through the motion of telling you that even if his ad disappeared because he was taking time off that you could set something up by calling his cell if he wanted to not see you again? I guess if you really do want to see him again, you can call his cell to see if your number has been blocked from calling him as well. Otherwise maybe he blocked you from seeing his ad for another reason, the first of which that occurs to me is that you don't have a way to submit a review if you cannot see his ad while logged in. Maybe he does that in order to prevent bad reviews if he's not certain the client is happy? All in all, I'd just say to consider yourself lucky that you enjoyed your appointment with him and leave his confusing drama behind.

Do you mean the profile is inaccessible to you when you are logged in but you know his ad is still there because you can see it while not logged in?

Well, the Church/Market Street area is definitely better than the Tenderloin area Karl used to live in, but sadly the Church/Market area is no longer as nice as it used to be. Then again, many areas of San Francisco aren't as nice as they used to be.

I'm not sure why you think the previous response wasn't serious. How is anyone supposed to know what spa your question is about unless they know more about you than is immediately apparent? I even searched for "Korean Spa" in quotation marks to see if there was a sole spa with that name somewhere in the world and came up with only local (to me) Asian massage parlors. Surely you must understand that not giving a location in your title or first post is going to result in most, if not all, of us not knowing what spa you are asking about.

Android (at least Android 10 and above) has a screen recorder built into the OS. Windows has a screen recorder built in designed to record games, but you can use it to record any video on your screen. I've used the Windows screen recorder and know it works, but it does result in very large files (maybe that's due to my video resolution settings). I haven't used Android's built in screen recorder. I assume Apple has a similar feature on its devices, but I know next to nothing about Apple devices.

I should have been more clear. I definitely would NOT recommend responding to the attempted blackmailer. I meant that if someone you know asked you about it because the blackmailer actually followed through with their threat to expose you, you could simply say you have no idea why that person had your phone number. A stranger attempting to blackmail you online should be treated like spam email. Ignored.

I'm not sure what's confusing, but you've already been given all the advice you really need if you want to pursue becoming a masseur. Get certified in your state if you want to be a certified masseur. If you just want to do massage and not become certified, hopefully you'll at least get some basic massage training unless you aren't even intending to massage anyone and just focus on the "happy ending" part because one should know a little bit about doing a massage if one is offering that service. The advice to hire someone advertising on Rentmasseur in your area is a good one, if you haven't done that already. Hopefully the person you choose will be willing to give you a bit of information about how they operate after you've had a successful appointment with them.

I'd happily give my dentist a blow job if he'd let me.

Another angle not mentioned is how does having your contact information shared necessarily link you to having hired that escort? I get that if the escort has text exchanges with you or shows a phone log showing multiple phone calls to and from your number, those could be shared and might be damning for some people. But just because someone has your phone number? Wouldn't it be easy to just say, "I don't know why my phone number is among a list of 1,000 people on someone's phone," and leave it at that?

What I most notice from your two posts, MsgFantasy, is the negativity between you and your husband. I'm not saying that married couples have to be all "flowers and hearts" all of the time, but from your two posts it sounds like the two of you don't have much respect for one another. Am I getting the wrong impression? If so, I apologize. If not, then I think what would benefit you most is not attempting to fill a void with someone else but you and your husband talking more opening about your feelings with each other so you can improve your relationship. It sounds like you know you won't get what you want from him in terms of what you view as an ideal romantic relationship, but if you're going to remain married and living together at least you could be doing so with a more positive view of one other.

That's even worse and, frankly, far less common in my experience than guys who run suggestive ads who don't deliver on what they imply. It's why I started being more explicit about what I wanted when I was hiring erotic masseurs frequently.

I know I'm repeating myself, but I suggest not looking for "clues." In my experience, some guys charge high rates and give other "clues" about their service being highly erotic and then don't deliver anything remotely erotic. Instead you pay a premium price for a mediocre therapeutic only massage. Instead of looking for clues and making assumptions or guesses based on those clues, just ask some direct questions. Unless you are asking questions of someone who clearly states "therapeutic only," I doubt he'll be shocked.

Yes. Gone are the days that one can just drive over the border between Canada and the United States and basically just say you are traveling for the day/evening to shop or go out to eat or whatever. When I was a kid and young adult, I went to Windsor, Ontario a lot. No passport required and basically just a perfunctory visual inspection of the people in the car before they'd waive you through, both coming and going.

I haven't subscribed to any music streaming service beyond Amazon's basic level one that's bundled with Prime membership. I rarely listen to that, but I do know something about music streaming because music is my biggest hobby and I regularly participate in another forum dedicated to it. According to what I've read, a lot of these streaming services are just lazy. Their catalogs aren't curated by music lovers who know what they are listening to. Their catalogs are just files that some license holder has leased to them. Because of this and because of bad contracts a lot of artists signed, there are many examples where the streaming service has a later rerecording done by the original artist instead of their original "hit" version. I'm sure there's also some censorship going on, and that's been true for a long time. I have numerous cds where there was an "explicit" version and then a more "family friendly" censored version. Sometimes that involved masking certain words in certain songs, and other times certain songs were removed from albums because they were deemed too risque for the Walmart crowd. I agree with the suggestion to just rip your own music cds to play in your car. Why pay a monthly fee to stream music that you already own. I understand paying for streaming if you want access to new music and don't want to buy it as a download or on some physical medium, but if you are listening to stuff you already own it isn't hard to rip a cd and play the resultant mp3 files in your car.

I was giving an approximation when I said 20 years ago. I think Brent's first porn was released in 2003, and maybe his first Cobra video came out in 2004. Clearly he isn't 32 today since he wasn't 12 or even 14 in those videos, though we do know that Cobra had at least one performer who started working using a fake ID (Brent Corrrigan).

I've had the hots for him since I first saw him in some Cobra videos 20 years ago. I remember reading some interview with him many years ago where he talked about his relationship with his parents, among other things. Seemed like a thoughtful, grounded guy. If I was in his area and could afford him, I'd definitely contact him.