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This response almost sounds accusatory, as if people are viewing your thread and then deliberately not offering help. Isn't it more likely that 105 people were curious who the provider was and so clicked on your thread to see if he looked familiar? I know that's why I just clicked, and I definitely don't recognize the guy so I have nothing to say about him. If I'm not mistaken, you are typically very explicit at only wanting replies from people who have seen the escort you are asking about (and you bolded ""if you have met him" in your first post about this guy) so isn't the lack of response here exactly what you want?

I'm sure that hiding phone numbers for nonmembers would cut down on time wasters/harassment, but it would also cut down on business.

Honest questions, since I don't know the intricacies of how Rentmen works: Can you block based on IP address? If not, then it seems like the work-around for someone who is blocked is to log out of Rentmen and then view the ad. I never signed up for a Rentmen account but I do have a Rentmasseur account; I usually browse the latter while logged out and only log in if I'm serious about hiring versus just browsing to see who is new in my area. Does it cost Rentmen advertisers more if their profile is viewed more? If not, then I don't understand why any provider would block someone based on profile views. All sorts of businesses have customers who browse but never buy, and other customers who browse extensively before buying. Why should escorting be any different? Someone is supposed to look once and then book immediately?

Older reviews refer to him as Brett, so perhaps there is some chatter about him here under that name?

That's my simple rule. I just don't think it makes sense for the client unless you are talking about an extended appointment or having someone travel a significant distance to you. If having that policy means that some guys don't want my business, so be it.

Since I no longer get hard as easily, I doubt I would become aroused while getting my feet and calves rubbed regardless of how hot the guy was.

Maybe you didn't mean it the way I'm interpreting it, but "still looks great for 34" took me aback. I didn't realize that 34 was so old that it was remarkable that someone looked good at that age.

This isn't an unusual situation. If you think he might be interested in you as an unpaid hookup, then contact him on Growlr and see how it goes. If you think there's no way he's looking for your "type" apart from work, then contact him via his Rentmen contact info. Note that some guys do actually "work" using platforms that supposedly don't allow it, so don't be surprised if the response to a Growlr inquiry asks for compensation.

Oops. Missed that part.

Puerto Vallarta, Mexico has a number of gar bars and stip clubs within walking distance of each other.

Couldn't you just be more subtle in your inquiries so you aren't violating any terms of service? I'm thinking an icebreaker DM along the lines of, "You're so handsome, I've love to meet you." I would think that any escort would recognize this as a potential business opportunity and the other guys would likely just ignore you. Whether that avenue of pursuit is worth your time/effort is up to you. I tend to think that most guys who are successful on Fans sites would rather just make money doing their own porn, not meeting clients. If anything, I think a lot of guys who advertise on Rentmen are actually just content creators looking to attract new subscribers. The transformation of the porn industry has been good for providers/content creators as far as I can tell, but it certainly hasn't been great for clients looking for escorts with the potential exception being those clients who can afford a much higher rate.

I was in a similar position with a college student about 25 years ago. He advertised briefly, got as many regulars as he wanted, and then stopped advertising. He didn't want to keep meeting new people since he was focused on his studies. He didn't even want to be reviewed on Hooboy's site (I asked if he wanted me to submit a review for him) because he didn't want any new clients. He remains one of the top two men I hired the most and, perhaps because I did see him so many times, I have vivid memories of looking up at his hot body and cute face as he came in my mouth. I was more than a bit bummed when he graduated and stopped seeing me (and presumably his other regulars), but I understood that escorting was just a means to an end for him while he was in college.

I'm not someone inclined to reach out to anyone late in the evening or very early morning, but I have noticed that some guys seem to market themselves at these times of day. If someone is logged onto a site like Rentmen and has "available now" listed, he has only himself to blame if someone contacts him at a late hour and he finds that unacceptable. If one isn't truly available now, then don't say you are.

I agree. I didn't even read the text. The first photo showing a sentence tattooed just below his hairline and I was turned off.

As Kyle wrote, if you want to pursue it you have to contact police and give as much information as possible to explain how this person was in a position to take your keys, enter your rental, and steal your property. Whether it's worth it is up to you to decide. If it were me I'd probably chalk it up as a somewhat expensive life lesson since I don't have much faith that the police would put much effort into finding the guy and establishing proof that he stole stuff from you.

I think the issue is less to do with the speakers built into televisions (though obviously speakers mounted in an extremely thin panel aren't going to be great) and more to do with audio mixing and downmixing. More recent shows are mixed with surround sound in mind, and if the mixer doesn't properly consider how the mix will sound when downmixed to smaller stereo speakers built into a television set you can end up listening to something where the music queues and other sounds are too loud relative to the dialog.

I never met you but I do remember your name and your good reputation. I agree that you look hot in the 10-years-ago photo you shared. I know you said you weren't returning to the business, but if you still look like that I'm sure you'd have no trouble attracting new and previous clients.

Meta cares about nothing other than generating revenue. My feeds on both Instagram and Facebook have been littered the past few weeks with ads offering postage for less than half cost. I'm not sure what the scam is -- they don't fulfill orders, they send stuff that's counterfeit -- but there's no way that a company outside the USPS is getting postage in bulk for a discount so they can sell first class stamps for pennies on the dollar. I've used the reporting mechanism to flag these ads as misleading/scam, but they keep coming.

I'm struggling this morning with this reality: A woman's body was found in a duffel bag near a big music festival this past weekend. Clearly not an accidental death unless you believe she crawled into a duffel bag herself. From what I've read (quotes from the deceased's mother), the woman suffered from severe mental illness (schizophrenia, bipolar disorder), refused treatment, had significant substance abuse issues, was aggressive towards her mother and mother's property which is why her mother forced her to move out four years ago, had multiple legal issues so she preferred to sleep on the street near the courthouse, and supposedly loved San Francisco (she was raised in the East Bay). Beyond the tragedy of someone being murdered, I was left thinking that if this woman's mental illness and drug abuse were treated she might still be alive. Because this woman has a right to refuse treatment, though, she was basically a psychotic, drug addled woman on the street whose behavior likely created enemies. And just this morning I read about another judge issuing an injunction against the city for removing anyone from the street unless they had shelter for them, even though a recent study has found that around half of people sleeping on the street have refused shelter. We're basically in a no-win situation since the reality is bad for the people who have significant problems but either don't want to accept help because they are choosing drugs over assistance or they lack insight to comprehend the extent of their problems, it's bad for the residents and businesses in the neighborhoods impacted by this, and overall it's bad for San Francisco since, whether it's entirely fair or not, the image of the City now is not very attractive to a lot of people.

I'm not a fan of tattoos but can accept them as long as they aren't on the face, neck or hands or they aren't hideous. I'm also not a fan of facial hair, though that's so common now that I have come to appreciate nicely trimmed facial hair (and it even looks great on some men, particularly those with darker complexions). I still find too much facial hair (i.e., a bushy beard) a huge turn-off.

This is probably the same documentary I saw many years ago at a film festival. It was quite eye opening for me.

I obviously cannot speak for any specific provider, but when I see an escort with both Rentmen and Rentmasseur ads and there is a rate on Rentmasseur that's clearly lower than he's likely to charge as an escort, he's probably: 1. Not fully booked as an escort, so he's willing to add some clients who won't pay escort rates and actually are satisfied with a massage and happy ending. 2. Hoping to upgrade the appointment from massage to escort, with a bump in rate, once the client meets him in person.

There is a fine line between wearing clothes that reveal an athletic physique and wearing clothing that clings to the body such that it's obvious what kind of shape one is in. In a lot of work environments, the former is fine but the latter is a no-no. Of course, if you are referring to dressing for work as an escort I don't think the clothing one wears can be too provocative unless you are going to be seen in public with a client in an environment where more modest attire is the norm.

Bad breath due to recently consumed food can mostly be cured with tooth brushing, flossing and, if necessary, using mouthwash. There is no curing bad breath due to a serious dental problem, though, apart from getting the tooth taken care of by a dentist. Mouthwash will mask the offensive odor momentarily, but not for long if someone has serious decay in their mouth.

That's one of the reasons I prefer to actually have direct communication with the provider. I have no qualms about someone deciding to do sex work, but once there is someone else making a profit for arranging that work for another person I become concerned about the potential for exploitation. If I knew the handler/agent was just following the provider's instructions for screening and scheduling, I'd have no concerns. Since I cannot know that with certainty, it leaves me concerned that the guy could be working under conditions with which he is not entirely comfortable.