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It just opened for me. I hadn't tried previously.

A quick search about the editor in chief of the website suggests you are correct. While she is an MD. she earned her PhD from a now unaccredited religious school, and her BA and MA involved religious studies.

If you want to hire him again and his contact information still works, simply reach out to request an appointment. He might still be working even though his ad is frozen. If you get no response or a reply that he isn't available, then just accept that and wait to contact him until you see his ad is active again. You don't have a personal relationship with him yet, so don't overstep the boundary and inquire about his personal life. I am reminded of my first meeting with someone who became my most regular hire. We clicked on a personal level and after our first appointment (which was my first overnight with anyone), I sent some cds to a post office box he provided. He was appreciative. I started hiring him about once per month, and eventually we became friends, but our "getting to know you" phase evolved naturally.

The ad is already "frozen." Would I pay his requested rate? No. I assume there are clients who would, though. I'd say he looks cute in his photos. Not sure why some feel the need to write disparaging remarks about someone they haven't met or interacted with, just because they don't find him appealing. I think I've been guilty of this in the past (not starting a thread, but certainly jumping into one to be part of the echoing chorus), but I do think it's one of the more unfortunate things about this site.

Let's not confuse being a tiny bit late (say 15 minutes) with a last-minute cancellation. I'm guessing most people won't get too irritated with someone running a little late, with the exception of people who do have appointments scheduled back-to-back like physicians. I think most escorts don't have clients scheduled back-to-back, though I do know that some poor providers do so. But in the case of the OP, he wasn't trying to simply move the start time back a little. He was outright canceling with little notice. Doing that repeatedly indicates he doesn't respect other people's time. Hopefully he offers to send payment to the people he's canceling appointments with at minimal notice.

I think most people are able to make commitments and keep them most of the time. Being a bit late due to traffic? Sure, though better prepared people would simply leave earlier if they know they are traveling when there is likely to be heavy traffic, so unless that traffic is worse than usual it's still more about the person's poor planning. I know some people are just generally late. I don't like it because I'm generally on time or a little early, but if I like someone I can adjust expectations. The escort I hired most often was always late. Having to cancel plans at the last minute is a different thing. I really don't think most people have jobs where emergencies come up at the last minute that they cannot say no to, at least not very often. So, again, it gets back to planning. Why not just schedule a meeting with an escort at a time you know you will be available? And if that really isn't possible for someone because he's an on-call doctor or someone else who frequently has last-minute work interruptions of his personal life, then why not just do what Kevin Slater suggested and just book in the moment instead of in advance.

I reached that point quite a while ago. Now I don't even click on any of his videos. I thought he was very cute/sexy when I first saw him, but I tire quickly of porn performers who don't do everything on camera (i.e., they stick to j/o, touching, and teasing). There are a lot of sexy guys sucking and fucking on camera, so I cannot be bothered paying attention to someone who is basically just a tease. No one is that cute that he can hold my attention for long just because he's cute.

I hate to "blame the victim," but how naive does someone have to be to start sending money -- especially significant amounts of money -- to someone he's never met? I get lots of bogus messages on A4A. My rules are basically this: a) not much info in profile? delete. b) not in my area and no indication they plan to be in my area? delete. c) say they are somewhere near me but the location indicates they are thousands of miles away. delete. d) nothing very personal in first message that would indicate why they liked my profile and decided to message me. delete. e) a photo or two of someone young enough to be my grandson who gushes over my attractiveness. delete. Maybe I accidentally delete a sincere message by having these standards, but I doubt it.

Do you live in the U.S.? Given some of the recent posts here, I'd be especially leery to initiate a professional visit from someone outside of the country, especially if there is a paper trail of payments that would prove you did so. Maybe it's paranoia on my part, but do you really want to test the system to see if you can do this without being charged with sex trafficking?

Unless I missed it, no one has given my reply yet: Because I like having a cock inside me. I get even more pleasure when it's in my ass, but I also enjoy cock in my mouth as well. Do I enjoy giving another man pleasure? Yes, but I'm not sucking cock solely because it makes my partner feel good. I just love cock in my mouth. I'm not really much of a whore but I sort of feel like one after reading the previous responses. I thought for sure the majority of the responses would echo mine -- in other words, BECAUSE WE LIKE COCK.

I've seen porn scenes where the top slaps the bottom's face during sex. I know I wouldn't like that, but obviously some guys do. I've never seen a scene where there is post-orgasm cuddling where someone slap's the other guy's face. Now, maybe that happens frequently and I just don't know about it because most porn scenes end quickly after the cum shots. It still seems like an odd thing to do post-orgasm, when most people are more in relaxed mode, not hyper aggressive mode. I'd say its a mistake in general to slap someone unless you know they enjoy that. Not everyone wants to be treated that way. There is no "universal" behavior in this regard. I had a wannabe macho gay coworker in the 1980s who liked to greet me by punching me lightly on my shoulder. After the second time he did that (the first time I simply told him I did not want to be hit), I told him that I didn't want to get him in trouble but that I would file a complaint if he kept punching me. As a victim of childhood violence, I don't want to be hit by someone because he thinks it's a "bro" behavior or some other such nonsense.

You shouldn't be typing links, if you actually mean that you are manually typing them. The way to post a link: Copy the address of the webpage you are on (i.e., click on the URL in that browser window, and then hit CTRL+C or right-click your mouse and select Copy). In the thread here, click the icon that looks like two ovals linked together (to the left of the quotation marks). In the URL field of the dialog box that pops up, either hit CTRL+V or right click and choose Paste to paste the URL you just copied. Then click the Insert to Post button and the link will be in your thread.

None of the models excites me, but I do appreciate the photographs from an artistic perspective.

He doesn't look familiar to me at all and I've regularly viewed ads in the San Francisco area for over two decades. Then again, based on what's visible in this ad I wouldn't be interested in him so maybe I did see his ad and have just forgotten about it. However, the large chest tattoo is distinctive so I think I'd remember seeing that.

There is no answer to that. Unlike a highly regulated industry, there is no standard definition of "sensual" versus "erotic" massage. If you want to know what a specific provider offers, you need to ask him. Of course you can ask what other people have experienced with a specific masseur, but even then just because one guy enjoyed showering with a masseur and ended up blowing him after the therapeutic part of the massage was over doesn't mean you will enjoy the same experience.

The "victim of childhood stardom" is overused. Most child stars don't go on to ruin their lives, and there are plenty of never famous people whose lives are negatively impacted by drug abuse and mental health issues.

Not to mention that he seems to put very little effort into the actual recording and editing of his content, based on what I've seen. He puts a few cameras up to get different angles, but most of them are far enough away that you cannot see the penetration and a lot of the time you also cannot really see what the other guy looks like very well, both due to camera distance and lighting. Maybe that's intentional to get other guys to appear, but as a viewer it makes for bad porn.

You posted a slideshow of Cade's mugshots back in December 2020. We get it -- Cade's arrest record (and maybe other things) make you not want to hire him. I don't understand why you feel the need to revisit this point nearly two years later.

I assume your question is how to ask a trainer you see at the gym if he will accept money from you for escort services? I cannot think of a way to ask that directly without risking negative consequences. Even if the gym you work out at is largely gay, not everyone is going to appreciate receiving such an offer and some might get bent out of shape enough to complain about you to their manager.

Having worked in a mental health setting where people were frequently sent to a hospital due to being a danger to themselves, I can tell you that having a plan certainly ups the risk factor in terms of someone actually making a suicide attempt. Other factors considered are whether the person could reasonably carry out the plan (i.e., they have access to whatever they would need to do it) and the actual lethality of the plan. As stated above, however, it's important to have someone who is expressing suicidal ideation assessed by a mental health professional. As to the current generation being over medicated, I don't know whether that's true. I did a quick Google search and found a Kaiser Family Foundation study from just a few years ago that contradicts that notion, but the study's methodology made me question its validity. Seems like this would be much easier to determine by simply analyzing insurance payments for prescription medication by age group, but maybe HIPAA gets in the way of doing that.

You are a breath of fresh air here. I really enjoy your funny posts.

Facially I'd take Zac Efron over Kerry Von Erich 100% of the time. Tall -- have to give that to Von Erich. Proportionate. If by that you mean that Von Erich was even more muscular because he had the frame to carry it, I'd agree with that. I don't consider that more appealing than what Efron looks like now, but then again I'm someone who tends to become less attracted to a man the more he approaches the look of a professional bodybuilder.

A perspective from someone who first bottomed just after his 18th birthday and has been mostly a bottom since then: It's mostly mental. Does the dick feel good inside? To me, yes. It's difficult to describe what the actual physical sensation is like. As I think about it, most words to describe it just don't quite convey the sensation. Pressure. Fullness. Definitely the incredible feeling of pleasure if someone is able to stimulate my prostate, but that doesn't always happen. I think for me the main pleasure is the sense of connection. I just enjoy having someone inside of me. I've never understood the discussions about how it takes time to "train" oneself to like it. Or that it takes an incredible amount of lube. My first time bottoming (with my first real boyfriend when we were both 18), we didn't have any lubricant other than spit but we both wanted to try it so we did. I enjoyed it. A lot of the time he fucked me after that, we didn't use lube. I was just hot for him and had no problem relaxing and letting him in. Surely since then I've had partners where lube was required, particularly when using condoms because that changes the feeling of friction for the bottom. And guys with very large cocks definitely need to have skill in terms of knowing how to enter at the right speed. Attempt to thrust too fast too soon and I will feel pain, not pleasure. With the right foreplay, though, even a big dick can enter me with me feeling like I'm finally getting what I've been waiting for. A rush of pleasure, with me thinking, "ahhhhh."

Despite the bad haircut, I say he looks quite delectable.

That article applies to people who spend time in a rental unit even though they are not on the lease, not guests of the owner living in his own residence.