José Soplanucas

I guess we all know Robert Graves' Greek Myths? It is an easy read and a great catalogue of all Ancient Greece myths and mythology. The best parts are when he traces the myths to their origins in different cultural and social practices. Accepted and condemned homosexual acts are common places.

1 hour ago, alglez80 said:

Hello @José Soplanucas, I really like your site. I am planning a trip to South America in March, and one option is Colombia, it looks like there are many hot guys there. I have been in Brazil several times and love how easy it is to find hot boys (GP) in saunas, plus you get to meet and hang out with them first.

I was wondering if that is possible in Colombia, I know there are some saunas but not sure if they have rent boys. I checked mileroticos.com and there are some interesting options, but I saw you mentioned webcam boys, many are hot too! How do you contact them or find out who offers escort services? Do you message them in chaturbate.com?

I am a top too into young, smooth, toned or athletic guys of all skin tones, and was wondering if I would enjoy my stay in Colombia as much as previous ones in Brazil. Language is not an issue because speak Spanish.

There are other posters much more knowledgeable on Colombia than I am. I am sharing only from my relatively little experience, one visit to Bogota and two to Medellin.

For unpaid sex Grindr works great, and also to find escorts. Mileroticos has never failed me so far. Chaturbate was the last trip experiment and it worked well, but demanded a lot of my time.

I would follow boys I like with not a lot of viewers, so he would have time to chat with me. I would skip the first pages of Chaturbate, filtered for South America, and explore the guys page 3 and behind. You have to be very tactful because they have monitors. I was suspended once, for soliciting. As it was my first time they reinstated me as soon as I acknowledge the rules. 

Usually we would exchange IG or Twitter, and on those platforms keep chatting freely and directly.

If you loved Brazil, you will love Colombia. 

6 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I don't know about being "pitted", and I've never met a black African or Haitian immigrant who didn't see this country as a dream, a place full of endless opportunities. 

 

Obviously, you just do not know enough people.

1 hour ago, caramelsub said:

I’ve never heard of homosexuality being part of tribal hunting culture in many parts of Africa, though I’m not trying to negate your claim. All I know is most of Africa is very homophobic. With strict gender roles for men and women. Men work and make a living while the women do domestic things, stay home and raise the kids. Most Africans in the continent (not really the ones who have immigrated to America and Europe) are very conservative because of their religious beliefs.

@pubic_assistanceis correct on that point, but we have to be careful to mistake contemporaneous homophobia and concept of homosexuality, by the homosexual practices in other cultures and times.

It is a common occurrence in many primitive and ancient human cultures (certainly in the Eurasian region where our Western Civilization recognizes its birth) that men (sometimes in group, sometimes solo) will go hunting and during these expeditions would train the younger hunters and warriors. Although anal penetration was usually condemned (which mean that it was happening), the trainer and the trainee would often interact homoertically, and even develop romantic ties. Greeks are famous for that.

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Good point.

But these hunting expeditions were often paired with much partying...and not a full day of hunting. Homosexuality and hallucinogenics were part of tribal hunting culture in many parts of Africa.

The women had a broader range of responsibilities and a fuller day with little time for casual sex and drugs.

 

Do you know that you would also be describing many European cultures? 

I understand that most of the social sciences research found an explanation for the strong role of women and the challenging situation of men in the African American culture.  As a matter of fact, there were strong, sophisticated cultures under patriarchy rule in Africa, until the Europeans arrived and brought "civilization". 

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

It goes back further than that.

In many tribal cultures in Africa, the men went out in groups to hunt. Often for weeks or months at a time. Leaving the women behind to run the village. It was a cultural norm for African women to be more organized and responsible.

Why do you think that hunting in group to provide to the village does not involve organization and responsibility?

1 hour ago, Harryinny said:

Wow! He says "IM A REAL 6FT ALPHA TOP HERE" but in Position he writes Ask Me.🤨

He may be an Unreal Power Bottom. 

20 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Must be taking lessons from the Madonna Ciccone play book.

Everyone talks about that. I do not find so interesting his trolling of Christians, I do find shocking that in the 2020s we still have so many Taliban Christians in the US feeling offended at what he does. It is actually way less transgressive than Madonna.

I do not like much his music, but his talent for marketing is remarkable. Plus, I find him and his videos truly appealing and beautiful.

You all can stay in California and the South Hemisphere, weather sensitive bitches. We are not so cold in DC.

By the way, I found this picture from the last DC gathering. You can see a few forum members leaving their hotel in DC to run to Secrets.

6 hours ago, mike carey said:

And if someone were to announce now that it was on, that could be somewhat too short notice for some of us to arrange to attend!

Shut up you Aussie whiner. Get on your flying kangaroo and come over.

What are you talking about, if I may ask?

4 hours ago, glutes said:

Most providers who advertise as '39' are over 50.

1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

 

 

 

Sorry! I was thinking of Bastian Karim!

Happy Holigays, everyone.

5 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

Unfortunately not an uncommon behavior among successful pornstars who are gay per pay. 

 

He is not gay for pay.

I had been following his social media for about two years, so I did not need a videoconference to close my deal with César. He is originally from Venezuela, living in Colombia for three years now. He looks exactly as in his pictures and his skills in bed were excellent. Talented kisser and extraordinary bottom, can be submissive or alpha bottom. Highly recommended.

His ad: https://co.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/nuevo-chico-muy-sexi-nalgon-en-tu-ciudad/21215382/

My review: https://ilikepinga.com/2023/12/23/cesar/

2 hours ago, augustus said:

"On 9/27/2023 at 9:42 AM, pubic_assistance said:
Too many people live past a true active life.

My own father has been sitting in a chair waiting to die for far too long. Keeping his heart beating with dozens of pills, but devoid of any ability to do anything but watch TV, eat and shit.

I find it rather ridiculous and sad.

It's not a life to live."

 

There is a conflict between these 2 of your posts.

He is researching other posters.

1 hour ago, Alfstoria said:

As I was going through all your posts, I had a question:

Do you have any hotel recommendations close to 117 or 202? Additionally, are 117 and 202 quite far from each other? I'm curious about how you decide which one to stay close to.

thansk

I do not do hotels. I do airbnb.

20 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

I don't think so. I grew up with computers (first PC I had was in 1985, first mobiule phone I had was in 1987). Been using electronic devices for over four decades. Those differences are just cultural. This presenting an issue that all people have regardless of age. Indecision and anxiety about reading a menu is not a generation problem.

lol. According to who?

Oh wow. I think I should charge honoraries. 😇

I honestly do not know what to say. I think Argentina is right now a great destination for tourism and cultural exploration, but I am not so sure about sex tourism. The economy is in hyperinflation right now, so there are no prices. In order to have a sense of prices, some sectors are getting dolarized. Premium local taxi boys will charge you the same rates you would pay in the US.  If you are willing to travel and pay those prices, you will have the time of your life. But if you are looking for lower rates as in Brazil or Colombia, I would wait until the air is clearer. 

36 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

Why on Earth do we keep acting as if Gen Z-ers and Millennials are some kind of human mutation, different from the rest of the human race? Anyone who has to watch their budget feels anxiety when something that involves incurring in an expense is presented, being that a menu in a restaurant or anything else.

Why is that news?

Because Boomers need to feel well about themselves by putting down younger generations? 

I met Manuel in my last visit to Medellín and I recommend him with no hesitations. His talents in the sack were out of the charts, and he was engaged up to driving me exhausted. His fee is aligned with market standards, and besides a talented lover, he is not a clock watcher and is really good at the boyfriend experience. Premium sex AND company here.

This is his ad: https://co.mileroticos.com/escorts-gay/versatil-arrecho-complaciente-cuelo-intenso/24258607/

This is the report in my blog: https://ilikepinga.com/2023/12/16/manuel/

6 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

A situation like you describe is one that would likely require more specialized treatment, care and equipment.  It would be very hard for someone who is not professionally trained to provide that level of intervention - though thankfully it seems rare for someone to go directly from independence to incapacitation unless there has been a medical crisis like a stroke.  In that case hopefully hospital facilities would fill the gap.  But for those with a gradual decline, family and friends can provide care and support until it becomes unsafe for the person to remain at home.  It doesn't mean that the family 'scatters' when the going gets rough - many people are probably kept at home longer than they should be because family members do not want to have them go into an institution.  I think it's comparatively rare for a family to try to ship their loved one off.

I do not think we have stats, I am not sure. What is indeed a mistake is making generalizations based on our happy or bitter reality. 

When I shared the situation in my family and in many friends' was not to project them to everyone else, but to contradict the blunt and bitter generalizations some were making in this thread.

Try to overcome your misery, @augustus, and tell me where I said that every single cousin takes care of my family's elders. I said that every single elder in my family has been and is taken care of, and spoke of an army of cousins, all facts. Perhaps the difference s above your head, but I understand if it is beyond your understanding. As I said, you reap what you saw., poor thing.