Cock Eyed Optimist

They need a scratch-n-sniff for porn...because sex should SMELL like something too.
I can never have sex with a person until I know what they smell like

Thanks @BeamerBikes. I just moved it to the FAQ section, which should allow it to be updated. I believe it’s only the threads in the FAQ section that are able to be updated. Please give it a try and let us know. 

Last week I was at my favorite Italian deli and while walking toward the counter, my foot slid under a moveable shelf which was just a bit out of line.  When I went to take a step, I fell forward and landed on a low shelf filled with bags of pasta and both shelf and the pasta were surprisingly sturdy/ So I did not fall to the ground,  but I did partially tear my Achilles tendon and I have a fairly bad tear of my calf muscle.  Though no surgery is required, conservative estimates are that I will be unable to resume most activities for 6 weeks to 3 months.  Fortunately, that does not include horizontal activities. 
Anyway, I have been going to work and using a wheel chair.   At times, I can walk a short distance using the chair as a walker.  As I work in a hospital, there are also handrails I can use to pull myself along.  Also, for rounds, my residents have taken to wheeling me from patient to patient.  However, when I go to leave at night, there really is no one to help and I have been struggling to get back to my care.  Once I am home, I can get myself back into the house.  I have been struck by how helpful so many individuals have been.  These are not people I know but with only a few exceptions, people have asked if they can assist me in any way as I am making my way around.  Tonight, as I was trying to pull myself up a gentle incline the chair kept sliding back and I fully understood the torture of Sisyphus and the Rock.  Finally a stranger happened by and not only pushed me up the incline, he pushed me to my car and loaded the chair in my trunk.  This was not the first act of kindness I have received, only the latest.  
So, if anyone here has used or is using a wheelchair, are people as considerate as the people I have come across?  And how has your experience been in trying to deal with a world that is to my mind, not very considerate of the differently abled.  

Find Kenzo too.   

Well, I guess I will update my own question.  I went down to Ft. Lauderdale for a week and went to LeBoy 4 nights.  I stayed clear of Boardwalk and Johnsons because I was there for a short time and LB is my favorite.  
The dancers seem to like the new owner.  Never heard any complaints.  You still can buy a wristband for $10 that lasts the whole night to gain admittance to the back lap dance area.  That is a great improvement.  The dancers look basically the same type and are not as pushy for lap dances as Boardwalk and Johnsons.  They still however cling in groups around a known customer and don't circulate enough.  
I tend to get there early (around 8:30) and on the 4 nights I was there, no dancers started dancing on the stage until about 9:30.  Sunday night was the worst and even on Friday night when the bar was full, the DJ didn't even enter until 9:15.  That is my biggest complaint.
Andy and Ricky are still behind the bar and Lee is still outside as a bouncer.  I've known these guys for over 15 years when they worked at Johnny's (which later moved and became LeBoy). Chris has become one of the managers, but he was always too aloof for me.

A giant pair of cloth diapers held together with a huge safety pin.  And sometimes a baby bonnet if it's a bit chilly.
 

I find myself too exhausted to pray after sex.  So I pray before sex.  I pray that I will be too exhausted afterward to pray.  

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

Well, I guess I will update my own question.  I went down to Ft. Lauderdale for a week and went to LeBoy 4 nights.  I stayed clear of Boardwalk and Johnsons because I was there for a short time and LB is my favorite.  
The dancers seem to like the new owner.  Never heard any complaints.  You still can buy a wristband for $10 that lasts the whole night to gain admittance to the back lap dance area.  That is a great improvement.  The dancers look basically the same type and are not as pushy for lap dances as Boardwalk and Johnsons.  They still however cling in groups around a known customer and don't circulate enough.  
I tend to get there early (around 8:30) and on the 4 nights I was there, no dancers started dancing on the stage until about 9:30.  Sunday night was the worst and even on Friday night when the bar was full, the DJ didn't even enter until 9:15.  That is my biggest complaint.
Andy and Ricky are still behind the bar and Lee is still outside as a bouncer.  I've known these guys for over 15 years when they worked at Johnny's (which later moved and became LeBoy). Chris has become one of the managers, but he was always too aloof for me.

From experience, it's an acquired taste.  It takes several loads to get used to.
I've had guys who just jo'd into my open mouth.  That's totally hot for me!

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

Why has no one mention the "reward"?  The smell and taste of cum is awesome.

In my preppy college years and shortly afterwards I used Royall Bay Rhum after shave, much to the amusement of my friends. I never wore eau de cologne and haven’t used that after shave since my late 20’s. Now I hate scents and always ask providers to please not wear any.
https://royall-bermuda.com/products/royall-bayrhum-57

He’s advertising them on Instagram all the time.
He even has an instagram account for them:
giovannisparties_

Yes, he is.  It’s Wednesday at midnights

It’s the slowest time of the year for the club/area. The snow birds are just going to start return over the next month. So it’s not been overly busy when I was there. 

It’s still the same club… I always end up having a good time when I stop by.

I'm curious to know if anyone here knows of a gay bar gathering place for seniors in NYC other than Town House?
I have no complaints about the Town House, but it's always good to have options.
On East 53rd Street at First Avenue there was the GH Club that I was hoping would survive, but it bit the dust eons ago.

Mrs. White:
Are you a cop?
 
Mr. Green:
No, I'm a plant.
 
Miss Scarlet:
A plant? I thought men like you were usually called a fruit.

 

this brought me to tears...
and what's the deal of the world losing famous 96 years old British Granny these days...
 

It’s like he’s swimming thru the air… Quite the talent~ 
 

I didn't read the article, but saw a headline this morning about a guy whose $1 million car with only 300 miles on the odometer floated away during the storm.  I can't begin to tell you how badly my heart bled for him.  I didn't read the article because I was too busy creating a GoFundMe page for him.
Oh, well... he'll collect the insurance, buy an even more expensive car, continue to live in Florida, and watch THAT one float away.
The circle of life, Florida-style.